"Ask what the world's situation is, the Orthodox church people live and die together", in a short poem, Zhizhi reveals a kind of heartache and helplessness, and can't help but be evocative, but also deeply into the artistic conception.
What kind of love is called happiness? There are thousands of solutions to this question, but in reality, how many people can really understand that love is an incomparably strange whirlpool, which is mixed with different seven emotions and six desires, reflecting different forms, and everyone's desire for love is different, but it is difficult to seek consummation.
We always laugh at Qiong Yao's works for being too pretentious, exaggerated, and detached from reality, but we don't know that in our lives, many people's lives are actually more bizarre than TV series.
In Taiwan in the last century, there was a female director named Liu Lili, who not only succeeded in ascending to the throne as a little third, but also became a sisterhood with the main palace, in order not to destroy the feelings of the original couple, he even took the initiative to undergo sterilization surgery, and the three people lived under the eaves of the house, like relatives, to live in harmony. The unfolding of this story is a burst of unappraisable emotion and consternation.
First, the perfect beginning of life is the beginning of a tragedy
Liu Lili was born in Taiwan in 1938, the 1930s belonged to the war period, but it did not have much impact on Liu Lili's childhood, her family situation is more than the upper and lower, although not rich, at least do not worry about eating and drinking, parents get along harmoniously, which shaped Liu Lili's sunny and cheerful personality. Moreover, she was born beautiful, which made everyone pamper her even more, which can be said to be the perfect start of life.
Liu Lili studied in the Drama Department of the Political and War College when he was young, with the growth of age, Liu Lili glowed with the brilliance of youth, the young girl was full of vitality, inadvertently attracted the attention of boys, the heartbeat rhythm of youth, around Liu Lili's beauty, she became the "first goddess" recognized in the school.
Liu Lili's tall figure, with sweet looks and gentle temperament, even in the beautiful and cloudy drama department is still proud of the crowd, this is the beginning of the love dou age, Liu Lili has no feeling for love, she likes to read, is keen on the pursuit of art, and the suitors to maintain a proper distance, only in the text to express their true feelings.
She loves drama and dreams of becoming an independent screenwriter, but she does not know that while she is diligent in learning, the only true destiny she will identify in the future is hidden in this group of suitors.
In 1963, after graduating from school, Liu Lili officially entered the film and television industry, and God gave her a beautiful face, but she firmly wanted to rely on talent. But life is not only poetry and far away, but also the immediate Gou and, success not only requires hard work, but also needs luck, the fledgling Liu Lili is only a newcomer, she began to come to the theater, she can only be responsible for on-site affairs as an assistant.
Although the word assistant sounds bright on the surface, it is actually a job of running errands, and there have been peers who have made suggestions to Liu Lili, rather than becoming a director, in fact, being an actress is more suitable for her development. After experiencing the tempering of a period of life, Liu Lili is not without ideas about this, and he has decided to stick to his original intention after thinking about it again and again.
It is also this rare stubborn persistence that makes her be favored by director Ding Shanxi after several years of precipitation in the film and television circle, and she is accepted as an apprentice to cultivate and achieve Liu Lili's dream. Later, Liu Lili also became the royal director of Qiong Yao, during the ups and downs, it can be said that how much pain only I know, career success can rely on hard work and luck, but can not make life smooth.
As the saying goes, "the mall is proud, the love field is frustrated", Liu Lili also gained a love of his own during this period. But this love is extraordinary, not only bringing Liu Lili a floral happiness, but also pulling her into a muddy struggle, to be precise, Liu Lili has become a "little three".
When Liu Lili was still a small assistant on the set, a man named Dong Linghu broke into her life, his arrival was both unexpected and seemed to be destined, although the two were in the same school relationship, but the academic career did not intersect, but in the most worthy of enthusiasm, their encounter still aroused the enthusiasm of young people for communication.
Dong Linghu and Liu Lili worked the same job, because they had a similar academic experience, so they quickly became friends, but Dong Linghu never told Liu Lili that she was once the goddess of her dreams.
Perhaps out of the aftertaste of the once crush, or perhaps the immersion of Liu Lili's good temperament, Dong Linghu often helps Liu Lili at work, Liu Lili is emotionally dull, but he also understands the kindness and care of others in getting along day and night, plus Dong Linghu looks handsome and talks humorously, they get along like a trickle, but they can't help but be a little more ambiguous, until later falling in love.
The pairing of the two of them should have been created in heaven, but because of their different identities, they violated the root of the crime, that is, the taboo of love - cheating.
Second, he is both a poor man and a hateful man
Dong Linghu is different from Liu Lili, Dong has long been married and has a son, this matter was discovered shortly after the two exchanges, at this time she suddenly realized why Dong Linghu and her on the surface of the relationship always dare not be too close, always seem to have some scruples, it turned out that she was the sad "clown".
In other words, Dong Linghu's approach is what we call a "scumbag".
Liu Lili, who learned the truth, fell into a bitter entanglement, she admired her lover very much, and also understood that the moral condemnation of Xiaosan not only came from the outside world, but also had no clue in her own conscience, she understood that her love was unfair to Dong Linghu's family, but she could not blame all the faults on Dong Linghu, because love was an irrational thing.
The secret of being a little third cannot be told to everyone, and Dong Linghu cannot withdraw from marriage, although he is deeply in love with the former goddess, he is also unable to abandon his thrifty wife. Dong Linghu's wife is named Wang Mei, although she does not look like a flower, but she is kind and simple, and has been accompanying Dong Linghu in her career struggle for many years, doing her best to do a good job for their family, which makes Dong Linghu also fall into a dilemma.
The former is Liu Lili, who is in harmony with his love and hate, the latter is Wang Mei who spends the storm with him, he is not only a negative character, but also a poor person who is difficult to take care of, and he entrusts all choices to Liu Lili, the flame of this love is lit by him, how can he have the face to suppress it again? This is, of course, irresponsible behaviour. But Dong Linghu, like Liu Lili, is obsessed with the fresh taste of love, and although he knows the harm, he is not willing to let go.
This period of time may be the darkest time in Liu Lili's life, she not only needs to bear psychological unwillingness and guilt, but also trapped in the love network can not extricate herself, she is just a weak woman, and there is no love experience, her lingering affection has become a steel needle stuck in the heart, while enjoying love, but also have to endure the inexplicable sad humiliation in the heart.
She could not mention this matter to others, nor did she want to blackmail Dong Linghu to leave the family, every day when she opened her eyes, she only felt depressed, insomnia every night, and only felt sad in her heart, but after a series of considerations, Liu Lili finally compromised to love and became an underground lover with Dong Linghu.
At that time, Liu Lili and Qiong Yao were good friends, and Qiong Yao had dissuaded her: "Have you identified Brother Dong all your life?" The future is something you don't know, but what if you meet someone else in the future? ”
Liu Lili replied firmly: "Absolutely impossible!" I identified him! ”
Although it is three words and two words, it reveals thousands of styles, the most is not to hate others, the most affectionate JiangnanHe, the tragedy of love is always the beginning of laughter. From then on, Dong Linghu accompanied his wife Wang Mei at home, and would also look for other times to date Liu Lili, but in the end they were all women, Rao was Dong Linghu and Liu Lili cover up well, how could the paper cover up the fire? There are no impermeable walls in the world, and the details of their relationship inevitably leave clues.
How keen is the sixth sense of the woman in love, not to mention Wang Mei who is in marriage, she has been with Dong Linghu for many years, a look, a hug, how can she not know the coldness and perfunctory of the pillow person now, and how can she not know the same bed and different dreams of the pillow person now?
As long as she really likes it, who can ignore the hurt caused by emotional betrayal, Dong Linghu's derailment is like a stone hanging on Wang Mei's heart, both hanging her breathlessly and not knowing how to let go. She has always had a passion for marriage, but it is precisely because of this attachment that it has become the source of her confusion.
She could not make up her mind to destroy the family, nor could she announce it to Dong Linghu, she was distressed by her children, and she was also distressed by her own tragic experience, but whenever she wanted to open her mouth to inquire, a thousand words were hidden in her heart, and when she opened her mouth, she turned into bitter water, and could only swallow into her stomach.
Therefore, a wonderful balance was formed between the three of them, but as the days passed, this balanced relationship did not last long, the husband's night and lover's soul were deeply stimulated to the hearts of Wang Mei and Liu Lili, who does not want their lover to be exclusive to themselves? The accumulated resentment eventually created a strong jealousy, although Wang Mei and Liu Lili had never met, but secretly had become two incompatible forces, Dong Linghu mixed between them, and naturally became a punching bag.
Third, life is too difficult, we all need to reconcile with each other
Liu Lili is different from Wang Mei, her personality is relatively radical, the distortion of emotions can not be expressed, and soon formed a sadness that cannot be opened, in the process of an argument with Dong Linghu, there was self-harm, Dong Linghu in the panic, quickly sent her to the hospital for treatment.
But what really made Liu Lili cold was that even though she was injured in bed, Dong Linghu still chose to return to his home. At that time, she lay stupidly on the hospital bed, looking out the door, she could only see a back shadow that left in a hurry, and the ancients once said that "ruthlessness is not like amorous suffering, an inch of thousands of strands", which is the most true portrayal of Liu Lili's state of mind at this time.
After experiencing self-harm, Liu Lili has a new understanding of her relationship with Dong Linghu, and she does not intend to give up love, but understands Dong Linghu's position. For Dong Linghu, she is a deeply loved woman, but looking at the other side is Dong Linghu's responsibility to the family. In that family, there was also a child he cherished very much, which was her incomparable affection.
So Liu Lili made an appointment with Wang Mei alone, as a small third, she naturally had no words to soothe the harm that had been caused to Wang Mei, but she also told her feelings for Dong Linghu, and she cried sincerely, Wang Mei also felt sincerely sorry, she was a kind woman after all, or she forgave Liu Lili, and the three of them returned to the original balanced relationship.
However, a moment of forgiveness, still can not cover the troubles under the contradiction, the apparent harmony between the two, in fact, will usher in a new crisis, this is the inevitable psychological mustard, since they love the same man, they can never do the ice to relieve the previous suspicions, but perhaps due to fate, Liu Lili's strength and Wang Mei's gentleness, which should have been an incompatible relationship between the two, but came together because of an accident.
One day, Wang Mei's son suddenly fell seriously ill, and the old man in the family did not know how to deal with it, while Wang Mei and Dong Linghu were unable to contact each other in the field, and the family was a mess of chickens and dogs. At the moment of crisis, Liu Lili, the little third, stepped forward and not only sent the child to the hospital for treatment, but also tried her best to take care of it for three days and three nights, and when Wang Mei and Dong Linghu returned, she consciously withdrew from the scene.
However, this act knocked on the freezing point in Wang Mei's heart, Liu Lili showed generosity and care, so that Wang Mei could not help but be moved, in addition to being moved, she also completely forgave Liu Lili for the harm she had brought to herself, and when she returned home, she proposed to Dong Linghu the idea of hoping that Liu Lili would move to his home and live together. Dong Linghu was also overjoyed by his surprise, and soon they were living under one roof.
After this, Wang Mei is in charge of the financial power of the family, the work income is mainly responsible for Liu Lili and Dong Linghu, Liu Lili has no scruples about this, and since cooperating with Qiong Yao, the heartache of filming dramas, often can only go home once in a few days, Wang Mei looks in the eyes of pain in the heart, every time Liu Lili returns late at night, he will intimately prepare hot tea for her to warm her stomach, usually pay more attention to supplementing her nutrition in three meals a day, and the trust between the two is accompanied by in-depth communication, Instead, the three-person family became the life model of their sisters.
But the good times are not long, one day Liu Lili found out that she was pregnant, she once again fell into the entanglement of six gods and no master because of the balance of this relationship, of course, she hoped to give birth to a child for Dong Linghu, and also hoped to become a mother like Wang Mei, but when she recalled the love and hatred of the three of them, she was afraid that this child would destroy the harmony between the three of them.
So she went to the hospital alone to beat the child up and sterilized herself, and from then on, she regarded Wang Mei's child as her own.
In 2010, Liu Lili was hospitalized due to illness, after testing, it was confirmed that it was cerebellar atrophy, the condition was very critical, almost incurable, Wang Mei, who went to the hospital to visit, saw that Liu Lili seemed to become weak overnight, because the disease was emaciated only bone and flesh, the relationship between the three of them has been maintained for 45 years, and now it has long been upgraded to the existence of relatives.
Seeing that Liu Lili suffered so much, Wang Mei took the initiative to propose a divorce to Dong Linghu, and she understood in her heart that she had occupied this position for too long, so long that she had ignored it, and this position was actually Liu Lili's lifelong dream.
When Dong Linghu and Liu Lili were married in the hospital room, Wang Mei happily called Qiong Yao to announce the good news: "I witnessed their wedding! ”
Later, Liu Lili died in 2018, her life has suffering and happiness, but in the end it is to cut through the clouds and see the blue sky, the setbacks and pains experienced, at the moment when the dream is completed, she has obtained a double harvest of love and career.
We can't judge too much about the way their family of three get along, because love is one of the beautiful emotions, and its forms are too diverse, until the end, it is a great wish to let yourself have no regrets.