It is said that families have difficult scriptures, whether they are rich or poor families, they cannot escape this reality, and the story told in the TV series "Xiao Min's Family" illustrates this point.
Xiao Min is the chief nurse, the work is smooth, the life is considered to be well-off, her troubles are how to deal with the mother-son relationship with her son, how to let her ex-husband Jin Bo not disturb her life, how to make everyone accept the fact that she is with Chen Zhuo.
Li Ping and Hong Wei's careers are getting better and better, their economic strength is getting stronger and stronger, they don't lack anything, the only trouble is the lack of a child, how to have a child, has become the thing they care about the most.
When people live a lifetime, when there is a smooth time, there will be a time when it is not smooth, people's dreams may be realized, but not all wishes can be realized, and there is also the possibility of being entangled in regrets, and Li Ping and Hong Wei are being entangled in the regret of not having children.
In order to give Hong a healthy child, Li Ping had ovulated ovulation injections for 3 years, and she had suffered so many sins and insisted on it, which shows how persistent they are about having children.
It is also normal for them to have this kind of thinking, people with big families all hope to have children to inherit his family business, Chen Jiajia is Li Ping's daughter, but she is not Hong Wei's own child, as Far as Hong Wei is concerned, he definitely needs a biological child that belongs to him, which Li Ping can understand.
Li Ping also wanted to give Hong a healthy child, first, to meet Hong Wei's wishes, and second, to consolidate their marriage.
However, she was older, and her body was also very overwhelmed, and Hong Wei saw it in her eyes and was anxious in her heart.
Therefore, Hong Wei made two preparations, one side let Li Ping pregnant, and the other side secretly gave birth to a child abroad.
Doing test tubes abroad, he has been hiding from Li Ping, because she knows that Li Ping will oppose, but he really wants children too much, so he still did all this behind Li Ping's back.
So is Hong Wei's behavior a betrayal of Li Ping?
In fact, li ping and Hong Wei's relationship is very good, Li Ping chose to divorce Chen Zhuo and marry Hong Wei, it is not that she is poor and loves rich, just as Chen Zhuo said, when Li Ping was with Hong Wei, Hong Wei I had no money, they worked hard together to get rich.
Li Ping left Chen Zhuo to choose Hong Wei because she likes men who have a fighting spirit in her career, Chen Zhuo pursues ease, and there is a difference with her thinking, so the two finally ended in divorce.
Li Ping and Hong Wei are together, they belong to the right people, very compatible, Hong Wei's kindness to Li Ping is also sincere, real, only in the matter of having children, Hong Wei deceived Li Ping.
So is such deception a betrayal?
Hong Wei's starting point is to have a child, and as to whether this child is born to Li Ping, this is not the most important thing.
If Hong Wei finds a little third child outside, it is undoubtedly a betrayal, but he is going to a foreign country to do IVF, which is not a betrayal, it is not necessarily.
In fact, Hong Wei is very worried about what happens to Li Ping's side, after all, she is an elderly mother, the physical condition is not ideal, if the two children are born naturally everyone is happy, in case something happens on the one hand, there is hope on the other side, he made two preparations, but also to leave a way back for himself.
Fortunately, he made preparations with both hands, because Li Ping accidentally miscarried and could no longer have children, so his move of secretly giving birth to children abroad became a wise move.
Of course, Li Ping knew that Hong Wei would still be very angry when he had a child abroad, and his own child was gone, and she filed for divorce under the double blow.
In the original work, Hong Wei was imprisoned for committing crimes, and during the 4 years, Hong Wei's children were brought to him by Li Ping, which also laid the foundation for their remarriage.
In order to have this child, Hong Wei can be said to have sacrificed a lot, so why is he so obsessed with the matter of having a child?
In fact, there are two major reasons, the first is naturally that he hopes to have a biological son to inherit the family business, and the second is because he is a filial piety.
Hong Wei's father died when he was a child, and his mother took him to remarry twice before pulling him up, he was very filial and understood his mother's hardships, so he wanted to fulfill his mother's wish to hold his grandson.
In this way, in fact, Hong Wei's approach is not so unforgivable, can only be said to be understandable, how do you think?