In ancient times, the alternation between dynasties is very normal, after all, the general trend of the world, the combination of long will be divided, the birth of a new dynasty must be accompanied by a lot of wars, of which the most difficult is the common people, they will become victims at any time.
The way women are handled differently in each dynasty, when they are weak and can only rely on men, and once the country is destroyed, their fate will be even worse.
Liu Bang could see this, for the concubines of the defeated family, as long as he looked up to it, he would seize it. This is not only because he likes beauty, but also humiliates the defeated, and his son Liu Heng's later acting mother Bo Ji got it.
In the Yuan Dynasty, they were not so good at governing the government, even if they entered the Central Plains, many times they were assimilated by the Central Plains culture, but in less than a hundred years, they were destroyed.
Although it did not exist for a long time, there was such a decree in the Yuan Dynasty. If the Mongols killed or injured the Han Chinese, they did not need to beheaded, just pay some silver. But on the other hand, if the Han people offended the Mongols, they could only be killed or injured and sent to jail, which shows that the Mongols and Han people treated them unfairly.
Such a similar law also left a curse on the demise of the Later Yuan Dynasty. When the Ming Dynasty was established, he met a very ruthless emperor, Zhu Yuanzhang. He grew up with hardships, and his parents were forced to die by cool officials. Therefore, after he became emperor, he was particularly strict with corrupt officials. A little corruption was known to him and dealt with very cruelly, and even his son-in-law smuggled a little tea and was known to have zero tolerance.
At that time, the people who accompanied them to fight in the country were suppressed one by one, and in the end they were either executed or degraded. It can be seen that this person is definitely not easy to mess with. When he first ascended to the throne, he was faced with 100,000 Mongols, such a huge number, he must be very careful, otherwise it would cause turmoil in the hearts of the people, and the dynasty he had so hard to establish was certainly not allowed to make a single mistake, so he came up with a solution after learning the lessons of the Yuan Dynasty at that time.
For the Mongol custom, that is, after the death of the so-called father or brother, their wives became the younger brothers of the family, which must not be allowed in the eyes of the Han people at that time, and did not conform to traditional Chinese ethics, and must be stopped, so Zhu Yuanzhang's first decision was to abolish this custom.
For their language and culture, he also made a request, since you have stayed in the Central Plains, you must follow our culture here, and you must adapt to the language and clothes here, if you can't adapt to it, go back. You can no longer say what you used to say, and wear your previous clothes, so you have to be the same as the Han Chinese. He also decreed on the marriage of the Mongols.
If a Mongolian woman marries someone, she can only marry a Han Chinese, so that cultural exchange can be guaranteed. Assimilated them. If the intermarriage between men and women in the Mongols is discovered, they are reprimanded and then sent to the army.
These orders were actually issued for the good of the Mongols, otherwise they would certainly be discriminated against in the Central Plains. Or the final fate is to be killed or return to the former desert. None of them are as comfortable as they are now.
Therefore, Zhu Yuanzhang's approach to treating mongolian and Han Chinese equally can still be affirmed. But for the Mongolian women, it will be even more uncomfortable, originally the Chinese language is not so understanding, marriage is only married to Han Chinese.
It is inevitable that they will be snubbed when they marry in the past, and according to Chinese customs, as long as a woman marries, she will have everything with her husband, and everything they have before has been abandoned, is this not to make the Mongols abandon their national beliefs?