In the dream of the Red Chamber, Jia Mu pitied Lin Daiyu, who lost her mother at an early age, and no one relied on education, so she sent someone to take Lin Daiyu to Jia Fu, for the orphans of her favorite little daughter, especially after Lin Daiyu's father died of illness, for this poor child, Jia Dai yu poured a lot of love. There are many details in the book that we can see that Jia Mu took good care of Lin Daiyu.
When Lin Daiyu first entered Jia Mansion, Jia Mu arranged for her to live in the bisha cupboard in her room. Judging from the Qing Dynasty when the dream of the Red Chamber was written, this bisha cabinet should be a partition in Jia Mu's room, because she loved Jia Baoyu very much before, it was the place where Jia Baoyu slept peacefully at night, and Lin Daiyu gave it to Lin Daiyu as soon as she came.
When Jia Mu and many female relatives in the palace went to attend the funeral of the old lady in the palace, they specially instructed Aunt Xue to take good care of Lin Daiyu, and let Aunt Xue move to the place where Lin Daiyu lived. Lantern Festival firecrackers Jia Mu lovingly took Lin Daiyu into her arms, afraid to scare her. Lin Daiyu's father was sick and wanted to see Lin Daiyu, and Jia Mu specially arranged for Jia Lian to accompany her throughout the whole process, and repeatedly instructed that Lin Daiyu must be brought back safely. From any point of view, Jia Mu is a kind grandmother image.
However, as Lin Daiyu grew older, she and Jia Baoyu gradually had a secret love affair from the first sight, which was almost well known in Jia Province. Wang Xifeng once joked with Lin Daiyu about "eating our family's tea, when will you be our daughter-in-law", and also said that Jia Baoyu's "door, foundation, furniture, and character" are all as matched as Lin Daiyu. Even when the subordinate Xing'er introduced the Rongguo Mansion to Second Sister You, he said that Lin Daiyu would promise Jia Baoyu in the future.
Jia Baoyu's care for Lin Daiyu is also commonplace, the two of them are active under jia mu's eyes all day long, and Jia Mu, who has read countless people, will certainly not be more confused than everyone else, and even this cannot be seen. Even Zi Juan anxiously urged Lin Daiyu to "take advantage of the fact that the old lady understands the toughness and does a big thing", and personally points out to Aunt Xue, so that Aunt Xue can give Lady Wang a kiss and a marriage relationship. He even took the words "Lin Daiyu went back to Suzhou" to test to see if there was Lin Daiyu in Baoyu's heart. It can be said that for the love of Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, Zi Juan thought about all the old and middle-aged people in the Rongguo Mansion.
Seeing that Jia Mu was old, why didn't Jia Mu give Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu a marriage earlier, and had a heart affair for these two children?
Marriage is not as simple as you love me, isn't there still a lot of constraints? Does Jia Mu support Bao Dai's love, of course, but the reality also has different voices, that is, the golden jade good fortune that Madame Wang supports. The love of Bao Dai, who has a wooden and stone origin, is obvious to all, and the call for a good relationship between gold and jade in reality is also higher. The most important thing is that Madame Wang's right to speak about Jia Baoyu's marriage is significantly higher than that of Jia Mu, and in this game, how to support Lin Daiyu to smoothly become Bao's second grandmother has always been in Jia Mu's heart.
During the Dragon Boat Festival, even Jia Baoyu felt strange why he and Xue Baochao's gifts were the same as those of Sister Lin, and the clues in this were obviously easy to see. If Jin Yu Liangyuan had the support of Yuan Chun, then Jia Mu would face greater resistance. How to decently stop Yuan Chun's support for Jin Yuliangyuan, the old lady should have put a little thought into it.
Jia Baoyu has been reading and reading with Yuan Chun since childhood, and the two sisters and brothers have a deep affection, and it is more appropriate for Jia Baoyu to mention it, so Jia Baoyu arranged for Jia Baoyu to go to the palace to personally go to the palace to thank Yuanchun for the gift, so that Jia Baoyu had the opportunity to express his wishes. Then, when he was fighting in the Qing Void Temple, Jia Baoyu refused Zhang Daoshi's offer of affection because of his young age. As long as Baoyu is young and his marriage is delayed, Lin Daiyu will still have a chance.
Some words cannot be said clearly, but can only be understood, and the old lady hopes that Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu can understand her thoughts and understand her hardships. The two control their emotions, and the more low-key the feelings are handled, the easier it is. However, feelings are not easy to control, two people in love, how can they allow others to interfere, Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochao's gifts are the same, and then someone gave Jia Baoyu a kiss, because of this succession of things, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu were uncomfortable in their hearts, the most fierce quarrel broke out, Lin Daiyu cried and vomited, Jia Baoyu fell jade and smashed jade, making Everyone in Jia Fu well known, which will undoubtedly become the topic of people's discussion, speculating about the root cause of the quarrel between the two people.
There was already pressure on Lady Wang and Yuan Chun to support Jin Yu Liangyuan Jia Mu in her heart, and when things did not improve at all, these two people were making a lot of trouble, and you saw that Jia Mu was anxious to cry and complain at the same time
Two inconsiderate little wrongdoers, there is not a day that does not bother me. As the saying goes, it is not that the wrongdoers do not gather their heads, when I close my eyes, let them make trouble in the sky, I can't see the heart is not bothered, but I don't swallow this breath
Jia Mu's words were very serious, because she could realize that the more she made trouble, the more disadvantageous it would be, the more chaos it would become, and the less room for maneuver she would be. You see how Xue Baochao did after seeing the reward, "because I know that gold is to be matched with jade, and I see that I am more and more hiding from Baoyu like Baoyu's gifts", which can dilute people's attention, a bit of Ming Xiu Zhan Dao, secretly crossing Chen Cang's meaning.
Jia Baoyu's side also made a fuss from time to time, and the one that made a lot of noise was that after Zi Juan tried Tou, Bao Yu had a crazy attack, "His eyes were also straight, his hands and feet were cold, he didn't say anything, and most of the people died", this was only because Zi Juan said that Lin Daiyu was going to leave Jia Mansion and return to his hometown in Suzhou. This time it was tantamount to making their love affair public. The more this happened, the more Madame Wang and Aunt Xue would find a way to take countermeasures. Jia Baoyu's fuss was no small matter.
But after Jia Mu knew that the cause of Jia Baoyu's illness was Lin Daiyu, she said lightly, "I thought it was a big deal, it turned out to be a joke", and then said Zi Juan, "You are plain and unreasonable, coax him to do something." Jia Mu deliberately made this uproar a small matter, it is best for no one to care, she used language ease to hide the tension in her heart.
With the relaxed language, the old lady shed tears again. Because of the marriage between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, the old lady cried twice, and this body language was Jia Mu's true inner feeling. But the old lady was an old lady after all, and she had to deal with it quietly.
Jia Baoyu made a fuss this time, and everyone in Jia Province understood what was going on, and then the old lady in the palace died, and Jia Mu wanted to take all the female relatives to the funeral for a month, there were no adults in the family, only these young and strong princes and ladies.
Jia Mu made some explanations, asking Aunt Xue to take care of Lin Daiyu, and gave thousands of instructions. This is a lot of thought, Jia Mu took care of Lin Daiyu, let Aunt Xue move to Xiaoxiang Hall to live and take care of Lin Daiyu, that is, worried that in the case of no owner in the family, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu will develop their relationship, once let others find out that it will cause them disadvantages, then their marriage has no chance to maneuver.
The reason why the attackers were able to inform Lady Wang and suggest that Jia Baoyu move away from the Grand View Garden was because they heard Jia Baoyu's confession to Lin Daiyu and were worried that they would do "something that is not talented"? Let Aunt Xue live in xiaoxiang hall, aunt Xue and lady Wang are satisfied, under her eyes, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu can not be out of the big grid, as long as so, in the future there will be a chance to fight for them in a justified way.
It can be said that the old lady is bent on thinking about Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, and sheds tears for their marriage, and Jia Mu has come all the way in the wind and rain, reading countless people, but she is powerless to do anything to these two little wrongdoers. Or it can be said that the failure of the former alliance of Mushi is a defeat to the years, Jia Mu is old, there is not much time left, Lin Daiyuhui will be hurt, the love is not long-lived, even if there is a fate in the past life, this life is doomed to miss.