You don't know why I left you
I insist that I can't say let you cry
Your teardrops are like a downpour
Shattered all over the ground clear in the mind
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In today's era of "small fresh meat", Wang Lihong is indeed a bit old, but for people in the 80s and 90s, Wang Lihong was definitely a first-line singer at that time.
In the streets and alleys, shopping malls, barbershops, clothing stores, often can hear his songs, are full of memories.
Today, Wang Lihong officially announced his "divorce" and has applied for it, which means that his marriage with his wife Li Lianglei has really come to an end.
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Wang Lihong is an idol of many people, and when the official announcement of his relationship with Li Lianglei in 13 years, many people were not optimistic.
Wang Lihong's family is also intellectuals, his grandmother is a graduate of the Department of Economics of Tsinghua University, his parents are also high-achieving students, and many people say that the family's genes are too good.
Although Wang Lihong is engaged in the music creation industry, his education is very high, and he graduated with a doctorate. In this way, the family attaches great importance to academic qualifications, and parents must also have requirements for the academic qualifications of their future daughters-in-law.
Li Lianglei is a graduate student at Columbia University, and When Wang Lihong officially announced her love affair, he specially brought out her "high education" and said that he could also see that he was very satisfied and also had requirements for academic qualifications.
Therefore, Li Lianglei's condition is to meet Wang Lihong's marriage requirements, more accurately, it should be worthy of his family.
The two have been married for 8 years, have 3 children, two daughters, a son, and the frequency of having children is quite high in the entertainment industry, giving birth to 3 in 8 years.
Wang Lihong's earning ability is also very famous, coupled with his parents' economic strength is not bad, in terms of material life, they are definitely considered rich, and they can also be ranked in the entertainment industry.
Such an enviable marriage and family, and three lovely children, how could it be divorced?
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Looking at Wang Lihong's social account, you can see that a lot of the content he sent is about his family, and every important holiday, he will not forget to send blessings to his parents, and he will try to celebrate together when he has time.
In his words, it can be seen that Wang Lihong admires his parents very much, and he is even more envious of their feelings, and he will also release a group photo of a large family, attaching great importance to the life of a large family.
When the Taiwan media exposed Wang Lihong's divorce, the reason for the divorce was the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so it is very reasonable to say so.
At the beginning, when Wang Lihong officially announced his marriage, there was a sentence that made people look very uncomfortable:
"Mom and Dad Wang like her very much, and I hope you will too."
Celebrities officially declare love and marriage, few people will mention their parents, more is to tell the emotional experience of the two.
Wang Lihong must care a lot about the attitude of his family on the issue of marriage, and when his parents are satisfied, he feels appropriate, as if he has the approval of his parents, and he will be happy in this marriage.
Now it seems that the reason for his divorce is really likely to be a family conflict, and a man who pays special attention to the original family will make his wife wronged many times.
When there is a conflict between the wife and the relatives of the original family, he will feel that the wife does not understand things, and he cares more about the feelings of the parents, if the parents are not happy, he will be particularly sad, so he will try to protect the parents.
Parents are too involved in the marriage of their children, and the feelings of the little couple will definitely have problems, and this view really does not accept to be refuted.
The feelings of husband and wife depend on the two people to run in, and the mixing of others will only make the feelings of husband and wife worse and worse.
Wang Lihong said that over the years, he has not done a good enough job in marriage, does it also imply that he did not do a good job as a husband when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and family conflicts?
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Of course, I think the most fundamental relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lies in the son, and whether the son does well or not determines whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good or not.
Li Lianglei is not a person in the entertainment industry, a woman with a high degree, she will have her own opinions, she will not easily endure the unfairness of feelings, and will not let her in-laws guide her married life.
She became Wang Lihong's agent, in fact, she did not do well, at the beginning of this year, Anhui Satellite TV host Zhou Qun also posted a complaint.
Because of this incident, Zhou Qun was also attacked by the Internet, and she quickly deleted the content, but Wang Lihong's fans still ran to her other content to denounce it.
Regardless of whether what Zhou Qun said at that time was a joke or a real feeling, she must have been a little unaccustomed to some of Li Lianglei's behaviors, otherwise she would not have said that.
In this way, it can also be seen that Li Lianglei is not a person with a weak personality, a strong wife, facing a man who especially cares about his parents, the two people will definitely have contradictions in life.
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Marriage is not a child's play, since it has come to the point of divorce, both husband and wife will be at fault.
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is only the fuse, a mature man will know how to balance the relationship between the newborn family and the original family, be reasonable and impartial, and let both the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be convinced.
Some men have been complaining when there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, thinking that the wife gives way to the mother-in-law, and the big thing can be solved, in fact, such an idea is wrong.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions, let one party be infinitely patient, the other party will never take the initiative to extinguish the fire, only the man takes out the appearance of "big parent", let the wrong party know the mistake, correct the mistake, and the other party will let go of a step.
Wang Lihong's career development in recent years is not very good, occasionally singing at some parties, participating in some variety shows are not too hot, it seems that Li Lianglei is not very helpful to Wang Lihong's career, after all, he has given birth to 3 children, and his energy is definitely not as good as that of professional agents.
After the divorce, it is enough to be responsible for 3 children and raise the children together, and it is too difficult to be friends.
Marriage still depends on whether two people are compatible or not, and the opinions of parents can be used as important reference opinions, but in the end, it depends on themselves.
Especially in family life, the atmosphere of the family seems to be the main role of the wife, but in fact, the wife's emotions are determined by the husband's attitude.
Some people say that the best wealth of a family is to raise a rich wife, which is really true, the wife is in a good mood, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she will take the initiative to give way, and feel that the husband loves himself.
A woman is naturally fond of being protected, and if she is secure enough, she becomes very docile, and when her husband does not value himself enough, then her mood is not good.
Finally, end with a few lyrics from Wang Lihong:
Don't say it's long
Lest you think I'm unrealistic
Think of it as simple as it is
It was my mother who told me the philosophy
The head is all you and the heart is you
Little love is so sweet in the big city
All you think is you
Little love in the big city is only for you
Author: Muzi
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