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Wang Lihong's sudden announcement of divorce really caught many people off guard.
After all, before that, the two had been married for eight years, had three children, and there was no rumor of emotional incompatibility, and it was not a relationship to divorce.
However, fate is sometimes so impermanent, even if netizens and fans can't believe it, but with Wang Lihong's official announcement on Weibo, everything is nailed down.
At the beginning, Wang Lihong debuted as a musical talent, occupying a good position in the Chinese music scene, and in the years since then, there have been scandals, but no matter how rumors are spread by the outside world, Li Lianglei is the only legitimate girlfriend he recognizes.
The two officially announced the news of their marriage in 2013, and in the midst of many discussions, they also received the blessings of many netizens. After marriage, Wang Lihong's career declined, but family life was indeed visible to the naked eye.
In the first year of marriage, the two gave birth to a lovely daughter, and Wang Lihong also personally wrote songs for her daughter, and the words and songs contained strong love. In the MV of the song, Wang Lihong also wrote a letter for his daughter, which could not hide the father's love and happiness, but also let netizens full of confidence in this marriage.
After that, let people give birth to a daughter and a son, Wang Lihong also showed his love on Weibo in a high profile, thanking his wife for her efforts all the time and being excited about the arrival of the child.
That song "One in Seven Billion", which was a song he wrote specifically to his wife at that time, as the gentleness of the husband, the romance of the singer, the gentleness of the male, expressed vividly in this song, also let all the criticism and speculation disappear.
Like many people, Wang Lihong began to frequently share family life after getting married.
People always say that the mood of liking a person cannot be hidden, and I think that after seeing the photos of Wang Lihong's family, people will also feel from the bottom of their hearts that the happiness of the family cannot be hidden. Even if you haven't touched each other, you can still feel the temperature of this marriage from photo to photo.
It's just that it all seems to have ended without warning. No one thought of such a way, and therefore under Wang Lihong's Weibo announcing the divorce, some people could not help but ask: Why did they still come to this step?
Yes, once so loving and sweet, envious of others, why is it now a shot and a scatter? Is it just because Wang Lihong mentioned in Weibo that the two people have different ideas and plans for the future?
Perhaps no one but the parties concerned can answer these questions, but this sudden and explosive news is a wake-up call for each of us.
It turns out that as the old saying goes, it is easier to love each other than to keep each other. Some people have survived the right and wrong of just being together, survived the seven-year itch, but may still lose at a certain intersection in life.
Marriage is always more complicated than we think, and perhaps only those who are in it can understand it.
What's more, whether it is feelings or life are in a state of flow, perhaps some people will love and love but do not love, some people will find each other inappropriate at a certain age, so they can only choose to separate with dignity.
For us, in addition to lamenting the impermanence of life, we should also learn three lessons from this incident.
01: Treat marriage calmly so as not to suffer bitter consequences
Looking back at the story of Wang Lihong and his wife along the way, it is not difficult to see that they were once in love, but even such two people will part ways at the end, which shows the importance of choice.
Two people entering marriage hand in hand need to consider all aspects of things, and love is only one of them. There may not be any one person who can guarantee that both parties will really grow old, but as long as we are calm enough before entering into marriage, we will certainly be able to reduce the possibility of marriage failure, so as not to suffer the consequences.
02: Know how to manage marriage, in order to let the two go longer
Everyone is full of beautiful yearning for marriage, but marriage itself is more complicated than we think, in addition to having an emotional foundation, people should also have the ability to manage marriage, including tolerance, understanding, support, respect, care and so on.
It is not easy to do it, but if these points are missing, marriage will inevitably be difficult to do in the long run.
03: Feelings are impermanent, gathering and dispersing should be decent
Many times, even if we have made countless efforts and cultivated the ability to manage marriage, marriage will still stop abruptly at some point.
Because some people are not suitable from the beginning, time has only tested this truth, and there is nothing we can do.
It is also possible that we are all gradually maturing and slowly changing, and as we walk, we run to two completely different paths, and we can only wave goodbye.
Just like Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei, in fact, for two people, breaking up because of what kind of problem is not the most important thing at the moment, after all, the two have reached this step and cannot be recovered. It is better to let go of the heart, end it decently, and then run to the next journey. Or in retrospect many years later, each other will also be relieved to have broken up so peacefully.
Eight years of time, three children together, perhaps in the eyes of many people, the breakdown of this marriage is really a pity. But in fact, if the two sides are no longer fellow travelers, then forcing them together will only torture each other, but calmly separating to give each other the best ending.
Not all feelings must be white-headed and old, perhaps some people have just loved, accompanied each other, experienced the ups and downs of life together, and achieved a certain growth, and have lived up to this encounter.
Especially for celebrity couples, both parties have a certain economic strength, can minimize the consequences of separation, if you can not work together for the rest of your life, then a good gathering and dispersion may be the best choice.
Hopefully, we can also understand that feelings are always like a mystery, you can never guess where it is going, and it is best not to throw all your hopes into it.
Learn to cherish the moment, do as much as you can, try to choose the right person, and then have fun. As for its end and direction, we can only go with the flow and settle down to our encounters.
If you are more tolerant and calm in the face of feelings, then the division and integration of life will no longer disturb your heart. In the end, every relationship will be the ladder of your growth, and one day, you will meet a better self unexpectedly. #王力宏官宣离婚 #
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