Since August this year, the state issued a proposal to promote marriage and childbearing of the right age, eugenics, and a couple can have 3 children, and encourage fertility through financial, taxation, insurance, education, housing, and employment support measures. According to local conditions, various provinces have successively formulated and issued a series of policies and measures to encourage and guarantee childbirth, including parental leave, parental care leave for only children, childcare subsidies, etc. At present, more than 20 provinces have completed the revision work, most of which have extended maternity leave and clarified parental leave.
Post-80s is a generation of hardship, most people's situation is that the husband and wife raise 4 elderly people, if you add two or 3 children, there is mortgage pressure, especially those living in the first line or quasi-first line, there is no doubt, economic pressure, physical and psychological pressure is definitely very large. So do we still want to be born? I am afraid that the benevolent see the wise.
As a post-80s, for a long time, we were also struggling with whether to have a second child? First, the huge financial pressure is something we have to consider; second, we already have a child and have completed the tasks assigned by our parents; third, we don't want the best time of our lives to be spent on taking care of our children, and we want to have more time to pursue "poetry" and "far away".
At the end of last year, the second baby arrived unexpectedly, at the beginning there was a great psychological burden, after all, it was also older, the energy to take care of it was limited, more or financial burden, after thinking about it for a long time, we finally decided to give birth to it. Sometimes when considering some major issues, we are a bit Buddhist, thinking that every baby's arrival and parents are destined for destiny, and eventually each of us will leave this world, and children are our gifts to this world. Maybe because of economic pressure, we can't give them good material conditions, but as parents, within the scope of our ability, we create the best platform for them, give them the deepest love, I think this is enough, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, the rest let them work hard. In the future, we may continue to live a chicken feather life, but I believe that we can face it calmly, and we will go with our children to pursue poetry and distant places, which should have a different flavor.
Whether there will be three children in the future, who knows? It's all here!
Maybe many people will disagree with me, as mentioned above, I hope that each of us can find our most comfortable way of life to spend our lives.