#2021 Vitality Conference #Mom, I regret taking the first place, it is better to take the test almost, I am like the colored crow (picture book story), disliked by the same kind...
At the end of school, the fourth-grade boy Xiaole was unusual, hanging his head in despair. When my mother asked, I knew that the teacher had taught the paper in math class today. My mother thought that he had not done well in the exam, so she comforted him and said that it was okay, and that the next time he would take the exam well.
When Xiao Le listened, his emotions became more excited: "It's not!" I won the first place, the teacher also disciplined me, and the classmates isolated me. "Xiao Le usually has a full score in mathematics, and in this math test, he scored ninety-nine points because of a small mistake.
The teacher said that although he was the first, he should not have made such a low-level mistake. The reaction of his classmates made him even more inexplicable.
After class, his best friend Xiao Chen ran to him and punched him in the chest: "You guy, why is the test so good?" The other classmates also talked about him, and finally dispersed, and no one played with him.
At that moment, Xiao Le was very aggrieved, he obviously did nothing wrong, but it was like being isolated by everyone. It's better to take the test, everyone's heart is balanced, and they won't do this to me.
At this time, he remembered a picture book story that his mother once told, "The Colored Crow", at the end of the story, the colored crow, because it was different from the same color, was abandoned by everyone and had to go away alone.
Mom listened to Xiao Le's words and understood what was going on. Comforting him said:
"Child, first of all, you have to know that you didn't do anything wrong, and you don't have to blame yourself for it.
Secondly, the teacher disciplines you because he hates iron not steel, and he believes that you can do better.
In the end, your friends treat you like that, only temporarily envious of your achievements, not because they hate you.
Moreover, sometimes the closer people are, the more simple and crude expressions are used. If you don't like it, you can find an opportunity to tell him. ”
After school in the afternoon, Xiao Le returned to normal and walked out of the school with confidence on his face. He said that in the afternoon, as if nothing had happened, everyone was happy to play together again.
Mom laughed when she heard it, she knew that this little episode had turned over, and XiaoLe had grown up again.
Dear friends, have you encountered such a thing in the process of growing up? Do you approve of the child's mother's approach?