What is a brother?
Also called hair small. Play games together, eat together, live together, sleep in your bed, wear your clothes, and participate in each other's growth. From a young man with a green onion to a mature man. Know all your stories, because in the stories you have me and I have you. The brother's business is his own business. Maybe until you get to the box!
Sometimes you feel that it will not change, but in fact there has been a subtle change, and you are completely unaware of it.
When your brother becomes your colleague or work in the same field, some people's hearts will ripple. If, brothers and you work in different fields, friendship will not tip the boat. Unfortunately, there are no ifs.
The little bench was ready. Here comes the story.
Story one: Brother Dagang, introduce a job to brother Micro. At that time, I thought it was very good here, and I also called my brother. There are five insurances and one gold, and the salary is also good. I thought it was a good thing.
Da Gang has a bad temper and has belonged to the militant elements since childhood. At work, I got into a fight with my colleagues. Wei was not there at the time, and he was persuaded behind it. The result is that the beating loses money. And that's it. Wei feels that you two have a conflict, I still have to go to work, personally. What Da Gang thought in his heart was, you are my brother, a person who is not good with me, how can you call a brother and a brother! The contradictions are getting bigger and bigger. At a party at my house, the two of them broke up completely. I tried to persuade each other in the middle, to no avail. Later Micro left the job. Not long after, Dagang also left. The two men no longer intersected.
Story Two: Brother B calls Brother C over to work with himself in a unit. As a result, the brother who called over replaced brother B with his former brother. On a moral level, naked exploitation and betrayal. The reality is harsh. Maybe killing you is the only way for him to advance. Maybe your light covers your brother. Although this move is despicable, the success rate is high! Driven by profit, the weight of brothers in the balance of the mind is getting lighter and lighter. Believe that if there is a second way to choose, it may not be this result. But most people don't have that. Simple and rough, success or failure is here. Maybe you're too smart to put invisible pressure on your brother. Perhaps fighting is inherently the nature of male animals. So, you became cannon fodder on the way to the brother's promotion. There is no dress rehearsal in life, and if there were a second choice, it might not be so.
When you think you are still brothers, you feel that your brothers have not changed, but in fact, you have all changed. You are not children, you have families, you have children and wives. There are a lot of responsibilities on your body that you need to resist. The brothers are still there, but the weight in each other's hearts has changed. In the past, it was most important in addition to the kinship brothers. It is a pity to insert a knife for the brother's two ribs. When you grow up, it's different. They all have to run and busy for the sake of small families. It is understandable that wives and children are more important than brothers.
In other words, it is the brother's wife and children who lose. I felt that life had to go on, and I had to go to work to earn money to support my family. It's your business to fight. I need to survive, I need this job, so I have to be friendly with my colleagues.
In fact, they still have each other in their hearts. Every time I was asked what the other person was doing, how was it going. Things are over. Still care about each other.
Because we can't erase the memories of being together for so many years. There is no way to delete that sincere feeling. In fact, the position in the heart has changed, the brother is still a brother, but in front of the brother is the lover and child.
A mountain does not allow two tigers unless one male and one female.
In the adult world, there are too many dog blood plots happening. Start a business together and work together, the last brother kills a brother, and then becomes the boss himself.
People with high IQs have no friends, and people with high EQ have no enemies.
Later, Da Gang and Wei both said it separately. Let's see what happens later! Whoever is in trouble, the brother still has to go up.
The noise is stiff, and the break is broken. In the depths of the soul, that memory cannot be deleted, and that emotion cannot be erased.
After three rounds of drinking, midnight dreams return, brothers or brothers, wounded a thousand enemies, self-inflicted eight hundred.
Has the heart already forgiven? Ask your heart!
If it were me, I would be relieved, I would turn the page, and whenever and wherever I would wish my brother had a better life. This is what a good brother should look like. No resentment, no hatred!