Wang Xifeng's personality has various problems, but as a daughter-in-law, she is very good. Although she was yin and yang to her mother-in-law, Lady Xing, she could be reflected in her filial piety to Jia Mu, and no one could compare.
The whole Jia family is a "daughter-in-law", and no one knows better than Wang Xifeng. No one is more "qualified" than she is. There is a small matter in the forty-ninth time, which vividly reflects Wang Xifeng's excellence as a "daughter-in-law".
It is said that after Xue Baoqin, Xing Xiuyan and others gathered at jia's house, they ushered in the first heavy snow in early winter, and everyone met in Luxue Guanglian poetry.
Li Feng sent someone to ask Wang Xifeng in the morning, before they managed Fengjie to apply for public funds, let her do the prison, it is estimated that the money has not yet been approved. At that time, it was still a poetry club made by the co-workers.
Wang Xifeng couldn't come when she had something to do, and sent Ping'er to come in and reply. Catching up with Shi Xiangyun in the roast venison, Wang Xifeng was hungry, and finally came in. Thus there is the first joint poem "One Night The North Wind Is Tight".
Not to mention how good the "one night north wind is tight", only to say that Wang Xifeng ate venison, Ping'er's shrimp whisker bracelet was missing, she let Ping'er care, the ticket can be found in a few days. Seeing that the crowd wanted to write poetry, he casually mentioned a sentence that vividly embodied her duty as a "good daughter-in-law".
Sister Feng smiled and said, "I know where this bracelet is going." You just have to write poems, we don't have to look for them, just go ahead, and within three days you will have them. Then he asked, "What poems are you doing today?" The old lady said that it was close to the new year, and it was time to make some riddles in the first month. When the crowd heard this, they all laughed and said, "But I forgot." Now hurry to do a few good, ready to be stubborn in the first month. ”
Wang Xifeng reminded everyone that it was about to be the New Year, and it was better to have time to compose poems than to make some riddles in advance. Because Jia Mu said, "It's getting closer to the year, and you should still make some riddles and jokes in the first month." ”
Li Feng and the others were reminded by Wang Xifeng, saying in their mouths, "Hurry up and make a few good ones now", but in the end they did not do it, or they were concerned about their own happiness to write poetry.
As a result, when Jammu came in, because she asked what was going on, the crowd said to write poetry. Jia Mu said, "If you have poems, it is better to make some riddles, everyone is having fun in the month." ”
Wang Xifeng reminded that if everyone prepared in advance and took it out when Jia Mu spoke, the old lady would be happy, and everyone would think of a piece with her.
But everyone was indifferent to Wang Xifeng's reminder, and Jia Mu was passive when she said it again as a riddle. You listen to the meaning of Jia Mu's words, "What is the use of girls writing poetry, it is not as interesting as making riddles."
It is true that Wang Xifeng does not write poetry, but she knows the thoughts of her elders better than everyone else. Jia Mu is a more enlightened old lady who supports girls to read more sensibly. But poetry and song are essentially something that daughters should not do more.
Xue Baochao said this well: "It is good that our girls' families don't recognize the words." Men don't read unconscionably, and it's not as good as not reading, let alone you and me. Even things such as writing poetry and writing are not within the responsibility of you and me, nor are they within the responsibility of men. ”
At the beginning, Li Shouzhong, the superintendent of the Guozi Prison, taught his daughter Li Feng not too much to pursue the stuffing culture, but mainly based on moral education, and said that "a woman has virtue without talent", which was the pursuit of daughters in that era.
Reading books is secondary, and poetry is secondary.
Jia Mu feels that everyone's culture is enough, and it is time to find an in-laws, and it should first learn how to honor the rules and etiquette of the elders and in-laws in the future.
She did not comment on the poetry of the crowd, and instructed everyone to prepare more riddles to play at the end of the year, which was to teach her the experience of this life.
After all, everyone in the Grand View Garden wants to find a mother-in-law to marry, and they all have to face the in-laws and elders to be filial piety. At that time, it was definitely not okay to only take poetry and songs, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting!
Everyday jokes, riddles, and jokes are the qualities and duties of a daughter-in-law. Jammu did not take poetry seriously, and taught her granddaughters what it was their priority to learn to improve their behavior and thinking.
In this regard, Li Feng was not as smart as Wang Xifeng in the end. As soon as Wang Xifeng came, he reminded everyone of Jia Mu's meaning. It is not only her wisdom as a daughter-in-law, but also her sister-in-law's love. Her "in a word" reflects her extraordinary ability as a "daughter-in-law".
The filial piety of the younger generation to the elders is a kind of subjective initiative. To be able to think of the front of the old man and to execute it is filial piety.
Wang Xifeng is a leader among daughters-in-law and is worth learning from everyone. Anyone who can be one step ahead of her can be a good daughter-in-law.
Wen | Junji Yakan Red Chamber
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