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The roof of the Forbidden City has a unique name - the eagle does not fall to the top of the wall.
As the emperor's residence, if the roof has bird droppings and bird's nests, it is not solemn enough.
At that time, Ming Chengzu told the craftsmen that they should make the palace look magnificent and avoid any filth.
The craftsmen thought about it and thought it was very difficult. Because the palace covers a very wide area, there are gardens and small bridges in the middle, birds will naturally come to roost, and the beauty of birds and flowers cannot be lost.
As the saying goes: "Three stinky cobblers, the top Zhuge Liang." "As soon as you say a word, you think of ways to build a roof: change the distance and curvature between the tiles so that the birds cannot grasp them; increase the slope of the roof so that the birds cannot stand; the tiles are as smooth as possible, even if there is bird droppings, they can be washed away by the rain; choose yellow, and use the reflection to stimulate the eyes of the birds; the roof is planted with strange animal sculptures, like scarecrows who herd birds.
Clean wisdom at a glance.
This is true of doing things, and it is also true of being a person and running a family – if you are clean, good luck will come.
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Clean family and blessed.
The Tang Dynasty literary scholar Han Yu went to Pangu to visit his friend Li Yuan, and when he saw the scenery of Pangu, he was greatly moved. Wrote the famous article "SendIng Li Wish to Return to Pangu".
"Dwelling in the wilderness, rising and looking far, sitting on a tree to purify oneself all day long, and purifying oneself with a clear spring." Harvested in the mountains, beautiful and delicious; fishing in the water, fresh and edible. ”
Wash your face with stream water, fill your hunger with wild vegetables, don't hear praise, you can't hear the noise, the sound of cars and horses, there is no here... How can such a family not be enviable?
We always thought that as long as we lived in the downtown area and had a big house, it was a blessing for the family. In fact, this is not the case, blessed families, not only a few clean windows, or no noisy, more valuable is that no one will dislike the family poor, do not care about the location of the family.
"Si is a burrow, only Wu Dexin", a family that can do this will give people a feeling of being at home. Work is very tired, back home, can not hear nagging, will not touch the dust, can let themselves sleep a sound sleep, feel the love of the family. In this way, there will be greater strength to struggle in the coming days.
Making the family cleaner is not only a timely cleaning, but also includes the family's dress, the use of old things, the handling of relationships, and the control of speech. For example, with the change of seasons, it is a science to tidy up your wardrobe in time.
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Clean relationship, with harmony.
The "Sayings of Confucius" wrote: "Zhilan was born in a deep valley, and does not have no one to be fang; a gentleman cultivates morality and does not change his ways because of poverty." ”
Being a person is like an orchid, don't lose your backbone because no one likes it, you will mourn and complain to yourself.
If people communicate with each other, if they rely on money to maintain, then there is no need to communicate, because money sells the solar terms; if they rely on pushing cups for cups to win over, then give them up in time, because wine will make people vulgar.
A good relationship must be clean. If you meet a true friend, then you send him a word, which will also be reflected - the courtesy is light and affectionate.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Liu Bei was defeated by Cao Cao at the Battle of Guandu. For a moment, he had no opinion, so he went to see Zhuge Liang.
The story of Sangu Maolu makes people relish it.
Among them, there is such a detail: Before Liu Bei went to see Zhuge Liang for the second time, he ate vegetarian food for three days. In ancient times, vegetarianism represented respect, reverence, and sincerity. When he asked for the third time, Zhuge Liang was taking a nap, and Liu Bei stood aside, waiting quietly and not disturbing.
Later, Zhuge Liang wrote in his "Table of Renunciation": "The three Gu subjects were in the grass, and the counselors were grateful for the things of the world, so they allowed the former emperor to drive away." ”
A piece of ice heart in a jade pot. If you really like a person, or are willing to cooperate with people, then treat people with sincerity, do not use material to measure the depth of feelings, and do not be upset and resentful because others have not sent you things.
04
Clean appearance with nobility.
The ancients said: "Poor families sweep the floor, poor women clean comb their hair, although the scenery is not gorgeous, the temperament is elegant." ”
The daughter of a poor family, dressed plainly, but washed her clothes and face, combed her hair neatly, and will also have aura, and will not lose to those rich ladies.
The writer Yu Qiuyu once wrote a story: there is an old couple in Shanghai, they have no children, when they were young, they lived by repairing clocks and watches.
The couple has accumulated a lot of famous watches. In old age, every once in a while, a famous watch is sold for living expenses.
Surprisingly, they had famous watches at home, but there was nothing on their wrists, empty.
Watches are things used to make a living, not to show off, and as decorations, they are superfluous.
What to dress up? Instead of putting gold on your face, you wash it clean and show a sincere smile; feel more about life, look down on everything, and don't be contaminated by the smell of copper.
Noble people, dressed simply, comfortably, and with an inexplicable aura.
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Clean words, with stillness.
Many times, we will feel that the child is very useless, disobedient, and does not understand the hard work of teachers and parents.
There was a Chinese teacher who said to his students, "A person's eyes are very small, closed, like a straight line." Please give us an example. ”
A student said: "A person is very quiet, it seems to be an island." ”
A student said: "A person's voice is very loud, and as soon as he opens his mouth, he will wake up the grass." ”
Yes, everyone has talent, it's just that we like to speak from our own point of view and cover up the talents of others.
We all want to be the protagonist, but we don't know that being a good supporting role will make speech more comfortable. Perhaps, when you are at a party, you can not say a word, which not only respects others, but also reflects your own personality charm.
A clean-talking person must be a taciturn person who leaves the opportunity to speak to others and learns to be a good bystander.
06
The writer Thoreau said: "Everything that does not belong to life is removed cleanly and neatly, reduced to the most basic form." ”
Cleanliness is a process of de-compliance and simplicity, and it is also the wisdom of choice.
The house is clean and is the way a family behaves.
Clean relationships are the principles of human interaction.
Clean appearance is a force for active living.
Clean speech, an attitude of not disturbing others at will.
The world is disturbed, you and I have to work cleanly, okay?
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.