A husband and 3 wives are standard, and if you marry less, you will go to jail? Isn't the life of "more meat and less wolf" unhappy? Why are fellow men so opposed? Today we will talk about this "polygamous" country--- Paraguay
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Three wives and four concubines in ancient China has been prevalent, but with the founding of New China, women's rights have steadily improved, the system of wives and concubines has been abolished, and now, China is more men and fewer women, as far as the current situation is concerned, the ratio of male and female population is about 51:49, although the gap is not very large, but to build on China's huge population base, it means that tens of millions of men in our country will become single dogs. But are Chinese men short of wives? No! What they are missing is money! As long as you have the money to marry five, it is not a problem, of course, the premise is to leave one to marry one, and to marry and love freely under reasonable and legal circumstances. But in South America, there is such a small country that makes men fascinated, they have been practicing polygamy, the state stipulates that a man must marry 3 wives, if the number is not up to standard, they will face jail time! This system must be beautiful in your imagination, right? However, the local men cried bitterly and protested many times, but the government said: "The opposition is invalid"!
So why does the local government mandate the number of wives a man takes? Why does polygamy make men miserable?
Let's start with this small country.
Paraguay, known as the "Republic of Paraguay", is a landlocked country located in central South America, with a population of only nearly 7 million, not even as large as some Chinese cities. Sports-loving families should be familiar with the country, and they can often be seen on the field of football competitions.
Because Paraguay has been in war for many years, and even one country has picked three countries, but there is no suspense, Paraguay has lost, so that the land that was already small has been ceded out again. Faced with huge compensation to countries, Paraguay's economy was completely crushed. It is also because of the years of war that a large number of Paraguayan men have basically gone to the battlefield, and even underage children have glued false beards to join the battle, the youngest is only eight years old. However, the battlefield was merciless, most people were killed in the war, paraguay's population was reduced by nearly half, there were fewer than thirty thousand men left, the rest were basically old people and children, and the women of Paraguay were forced to become widows, lose loved ones, and have no one to rely on.
After the war, the country's leaders realized a serious problem, due to the cliff-like decline in the population, the ratio of men to women was seriously imbalanced, and there were too few men, almost reaching a 1:4 ratio. Local women have to start to be the master of the house, up to the political down to the farmland, basically can see the figure of women, in order to alleviate the imbalance between men and women as soon as possible, the state to encourage fertility, the government departments have to announce the implementation of "polygamy" to restore the population
Speaking of which, you must think that the remaining male compatriots in the local area should be happy to blossom, right? After the disaster, catch up with the good policy, Xi Shi, mink cicada, ru hua tong hug home! Speaking of which, there must be male compatriots who want to ask: Is Paraguay's nationality easy to apply for? You'd be so wrong to think that! Instead of enjoying such a life, the local men complained bitterly and lived in pain every day.
A wave of concerns, let's continue to talk
In fact, not long after the war, the men of Paraguay proposed to the government that they wanted to abolish "polygamy", because it costs money to marry a wife, family! Although there are many wives, but the house, car, tickets are also a lot of preparations, which is different from three wives and four concubines, regardless of the big room and the second room, you do not treat the same, then the family must not be upset? As the saying goes: three women in one play, the government arranges it this way, and it is appropriate to let the local men listen to the rhythm of the play every day.
The women of Paraguay heard that men wanted to abolish this system, and they said: "The old woman does not agree", after all, there is a man in the family who is more convenient, moving bricks and tiles to repair light bulbs, their own men, how to build how to build!
At a glance, the government has not yet completed the grand plan of making a baby, comrades still need to work hard, and it is impossible to abolish the system for the time being!
Men can only desperately crawl in the quagmire of life, you must want to ask, women do not bear the financial pressure? Yes, yes, in Paraguayan customs, women no longer work once married, although it is not mandatory for women to keep their homes, but this has been the case for generations, and it has become an unwritten rule. Although Paraguay has a lot of welfare measures to ensure that pregnant women can also have some income, for such a large family, this little money is simply a drop in the bucket. So the question is, how hard does a man need to work to be able to afford 3 women and N babies? If this fell on you, would you feel like it was a sweet burden? Xiao Hu felt that the donkeys of the production team were not busy with him
You imagine that every day when you wake up, a group of babies call out to your father, XiaoBao said: "Daddy I wet the bed", the second brother said: "Daddy, I am almost late for school", the boss said: "Daddy, the fool who took the last exam is thin... "At this moment, is your heart running with horses? Friends, do you still want to immigrate? It's just one for each wife
You imagine again, your three wives quarreled, you persuaded: "Ru hua, you look ugly, it is your fault to secretly wear Xi Shi's skirt and not wash it" Ru Hua said that you persuaded the frame, slapped you a big ear melon seed, and so on between the three wives, and finally, you swollen into a pig's head. So the question is, how many big-eared melon seeds can you withstand?
If you catch all your wives getting pregnant at the same time, then you will be stuck in a "hell" game life, and I can only say, brother, good luck!
And, after these children grow up, you have a busy day, come home, and are told to attend the boss's parent-teacher meeting the next morning, and participate in Xiaobao's kindergarten parent-child interactive activities in the afternoon, if you catch up with the children's school and call the parents at the same time, you will feel tired, collapse and want to dog belt (GO die to die)
Hearing this, do you suddenly feel that polygamy is not so fragrant anymore? Wife more children will also have more, a man to raise at least 6 people, after all, not all people can withstand such a lot of pressure in life, and Paraguay stipulates that men should complete marriage before the age of 30, which is more than the seven aunts and eight aunts to urge marriage to really, do not want to get married to go to jail, marriage has become a must fulfill obligation, the local man said: "The heart is tired"
But if this trend continues, it is very likely that in Paraguay will marry close relatives in a few decades, and the hidden dangers are very large. Therefore, as the local population growth rate increases year by year, it is no longer as depopulated as before. In recent years, paraguay's polygamy status quo is being gradually abolished and will restore the mainstream monogamy in the world. We don't know exactly what year it will be fully implemented, but it is widely considered by the world to be the best way for both men and women to marry, after all, in today's world culture, whether it is marriage or love, loyalty is an important part of it. And a person's energy is limited, love more is numb, in a polygamous family, aside from the feelings of husband and wife, just on the child's growth has not received enough love from the father, it is enough to think deeply, then the child who grows up in such a family is rich in his heart?
According to Xiao Hu, marry three wives, if you are not a big family, then in addition to the advantages of playing mahjong to make a table, there is no advantage, or willing to win a person's heart, the white head is not separated from the truth! Leave the name of your favorite person in the barrage.
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