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May you return as the boy you were before

author:Life in the tree of Yanzi

Recently, a video about Sun Haiyang and his son Sun Zhuo's search for relatives exploded on the Internet, which is the prototype of the material for the movie "Dear", and the plot in the movie is highly restored to life. Sun Haiyang opened a bun shop 14 years ago, the purpose is to make himself and his family have a better life. Every morning when people are still immersed in sleep, Sun Haiyang and his wife will get up to prepare breakfast. They worked hard from morning to night, and the couple was very happy to see that the business of the bun shop was like a day. Looking forward to a better future for a family of three.

The writer Leo Tolstoy said, "Happy families are all the same, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes." Just when Sun Haiyang was full of expectations for the future, life made a big joke with him, almost desperate. Since Sun Haiyang slept too late last night, he planned to catch up on another night after busy with his morning work. He told his son not to run around and remember to come in. Sun Zhuo, a 4-year-old son, was playing alone in the doorway, and when the traffickers saw this, they extended their claws to the child. He used delicious candy and beautiful toys to lure the child out of the house step by step, and finally successfully took the child away. A 4-year-old child, completely resistant to seduction and violence, became a cash cow in the hands of human traffickers, and has been with his family for an indefinite time ever since.

May you return as the boy you were before

After waking up, Sun Haiyang's first reaction was to call his son's name, he couldn't hear his son's voice, he ran out like crazy. He found that there was no trace of the child at the door, leaving himself messy there. "My son is missing," a bad thought immediately came to his mind. He immediately called the police for help, and at the same time began a long road to find his son.

Sun Haiyang published a notice on the search for a child in major media reports, and promised to pay a bonus of 50,000 yuan to those who provided clues. In the past 14 years, they have traveled all over Most of China, and the prize money has risen from 50,000 yuan to 100,000 yuan to 200,000 yuan, and even sold their houses. He thought that he would find his son no matter what, the money was gone, he could earn it again, the house was gone, he could buy it again. Even so, he was reluctant to close the bun shop because he was afraid that his son would not find a home when he returned. He insisted there for the sake of his son, and renamed the bun shop "Son Shop". As long as there is a glimmer of hope, he has to go and see. However, he was often greeted with disappointment, and even so, he never gave up, believing that one day he would be reunited with his children.

May you return as the boy you were before

He hadn't changed his phone number or lost his old suitcase in 14 years, which was a testament to father-son recognition in the future. This is the last memory he can leave for the child. Over the past 14 years, he has received countless phone calls, some from scammers and some from people with the same disease. After countless disillusionments, he gave birth to a second child, but no one in life could replace anyone else. Even with another child, Sun Haiyang still thinks of Sun Zhuo every moment and looks for Sun Zhuo, which is an eternal pain in his heart. Finding the child became his greatest wish in his life, and he begged the god of luck for favor, hoping that the door of luck could be opened.

Sun Haiyang is unfortunate, he lost his own child, but he is also the lucky one, because his child is lost and recovered. With the efforts of many parties, Sun Haiyang and Sun Zhuo embraced each other again. All the heartache and helplessness seemed so insignificant at this moment, and all the confessions and promises seemed pale and weak. Everything turned into tears flowing freely on his face, telling the inexorable crumbling of those years.

May you return as the boy you were before

Happiness is often short-lived, and Sun Haiyang, who is still immersed in the joy of the child's loss and recovery, has to face another injury. After all, the affection of blood thicker than water can not withstand the grace of 14 years of nurturing. Because the child is already accustomed to the life of the adoptive parents, this time the child chooses to leave them. What Sun Haiyang did not expect was that the children actually begged them to forgive their adoptive parents. He knew they had lost their children emotionally once again.

Zhang Baoyan, the founder of "Baby Home", has counted that since the inception of the project, more than 5,000 children have helped them go home. Only 20% of the children found would like to return to their biological parents. First, because it has been lost for too long, the family no longer has the original appearance. Second, there was no communication with parents for a long time, and no emotional bond was established. Third, there is already an inseparable emotional foundation between the child and the adoptive parent. For all these reasons, even if a lost child is found, it is difficult for him to give up his feelings with his adoptive parents and re-enter his parents' life.

May you return as the boy you were before

So we all have to be vigilant, protect our children, and not give the bad guys any chance. There is no harm without need, and to protect other people's children is to protect your own children. "Come, child, come to the mother", may such a call become less and less, and may you return with the same teenager as before!

May you return as the boy you were before

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