Xiao Xiang family letter 丨 A father's letter to his son, poking tears in the sentence!

Xuepu Wu'er:

Hope well! From the beginning of having a phone call, there are very few letters to chat, today is a special day, talk to you.

I remember that 28 years ago, on that snowy night, I was working at the Huaqiao Medical Center of Fengping Health Center, and your mother was pregnant in October, and she began to have abdominal pain in the middle of the night, and you were about to give birth. At that time, there was no phone and no car, please Ask Deng Xibin (a Chinese pharmacist) to go to the health center to call a doctor to deliver the baby. Midwife Shi Yanfei braved the severe cold, stepped on the snow, walked 5 kilometers from the health center one foot deep and one foot shallow, and at noon you finally arrived, and the neighbors came to congratulate. From the beginning of your understanding, you understand that you are a boy, and when you grow up, you will become a man who stands tall in the sky, and you are now the father of two children, so you must understand that the duty is heaven, integrity is the earth, this is the duty of a husband to be a father.

After graduating from college, we expect you to live in a simple and welcoming environment and discuss your future together. I wanted to arrange you to work in Loudi, you have your ideas, like an eagle with abundant feathers, to fly out of the protection of your parents, we can't help you design, because you are the designer of your life, no regrets youth only once, this is also the most perfect time in life, we expect you to be happy, happy, and successful.

Relying on friends outside, what my father wants to say is that friends are definitely an important part of your life, a successful person, there will be many good friends who can help him, there are no absolute bad people in this world, anyone has something worth learning from you, so please don't look down on anyone around you, anyone may be your mentor and friend, but please remember, how you treat people, how people treat you, you need to have a tolerant, kind, benevolent heart, there is absolutely no free lunch in this world, you have to learn to pay , in order to have a return. Of course, your father does not expect you to be hurt, there is a saying that "the heart of prevention is indispensable, and the heart of harming people must not be there."

You have a good wife, you have to learn to trust, tolerance, communication is the most important. To be the pillar of a family, please give your wife respect, do not blindly take the other party for granted to be good to you, people are mutual. The principle of "do not do to others what you do not want" (to learn to think in a different position, to treat others with a heart to heart) is very simple, but in fact it is not easy to do, respecting each other as guests is the highest state of marriage. In the eyes of your parents, you will always be the child who has not grown up, and your wife has known you since she has known you, you are a mature and strong man, and you need to give her a warm arm and a sense of security.

Don't learn to smoke, drink, gamble money, study and work well, and don't fool around with some people in society. In your upbringing, your parents were too strict with you, sometimes patient and meticulous, sometimes impatient, often criticizing you and blaming you, so that your young mind was hurt. The road of life is bumpy, and you will face and encounter failures and setbacks in your future life path, so you must remember to deal with failures without being discouraged; not to be proud of your achievements: never to be discouraged in dealing with setbacks; never to prevaricate in dealing with responsibilities: never to shed tears in response to pain, and never to retreat in response to grievances. A strong man who will not be defeated by mental depression, nor will he be crushed by flowers and applause.

Life needs to run, and we are all runners. Come on!

Love your father

2021.12.6