Some people are very smart, but they have spent their whole lives at the bottom of the social ladder for the first time

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Through nearly 40 years of observation, analysis, comparison and summary, combined with some familiar people, as well as from the movies, TV drama works, literary works I have seen, including some typical characters in the "Twenty-Four Histories" of the treasure house of Chinese civilization, I have come to the following conclusions: Some people are very intelligent, but the reason why they have been at the bottom of society all their lives mainly lies in the following seven aspects.

First, emotional intelligence is not high

Emotional intelligence is not high, resulting in many very smart people with high IQs, who have done nothing in their lives. The reason is that people with low emotional intelligence usually have poor ability to deal with people, do not like to deal with people, like to be alone, and lack close friends in learning and life work. Even if you have the ability, because you don't like to interact with people, you are not good at showing your ability and talent in front of the leader in a timely manner, so it is difficult to get the appreciation and reuse of the leader. In this way, it is quite normal for a generation to be at the bottom of society. Second, there is a lack of the spirit of hardship

This kind of person, usually when studying, because they are very smart, do not like to pay attention to the lecture in class, thinking that they have figured out what they have learned, but in fact, they only know half of it. Such a person is difficult to be admitted to a prestigious university, and can only be admitted to a general university. Because from an early age, I have developed the spirit of not seeking much understanding and lacking hardship and standing hard work, after participating in the work, I like to be opportunistic, do not like to be down-to-earth, and lack a pragmatic spirit.

Third, the communication ability is not strong

Some very smart people, because they only know how to do things, can also do things, but are not good at interacting with people, lack of communication skills, what they do is not appreciated by the leader, therefore, it is difficult to get the appreciation of the leader, a lifetime at the bottom of the society is the inevitable result.

Fourth, some people are very smart, but lack the ability to resist setbacks, so they can only be at the bottom of society for a lifetime. Where can life be more satisfactory, everything is only half satisfactory. However, there are some very intelligent people with strong self-esteem and fear of failure. Once it fails, it will never be in a state of collapse. How can you see a rainbow without wind and rain?

Fifth, do not know how to cooperate

This is a common disease of some people who are very smart but have been at the bottom of society all their lives. They think that they are smart, capable, capable, dare to do things, can do things, and can do things. However, they do not know that it takes teamwork to get things done, and without the spirit of cooperation, it is impossible to make things bigger and stronger, and it is difficult to achieve a thing.

Sixth, there is no one in sight

Seeing no one is also an important reason why those who are very smart have been at the bottom of society all their lives. Pride makes people backward, and humility makes people progress. No one in sight, self-righteous, such a person, whether in study, life or work, is difficult to get along with people. Therefore, their life at the bottom of society is determined by their character. Sowing behavior, harvesting habits; sowing habits, harvesting character; sowing character, harvesting destiny.

Seventh, family education is lacking

This is the last, but most important reason. Because the child is smart and clever, pampered from an early age, there is no strict requirement, from childhood did not pay attention to the cultivation of children's good learning habits, from childhood did not cultivate children's good living habits, did not pay attention to cultivating children's hard-working spirit, did not cultivate children's communication ability, did not cultivate children's ability to resist setbacks, did not cultivate children's ability to cooperate, and did not cultivate children's tolerance ability. Because of this, although children are very smart, when they grow up, they will be at the bottom of society for the rest of their lives. This is enough to show how important family education is in a child's life!

In short, low emotional intelligence, lack of hardship spirit, weak communication skills, lack of ability to resist setbacks, lack of cooperation, no one in sight, and lack of family education are the reasons why some people are very smart, but they have been at the bottom of society all their lives. Only with high IQ, high emotional intelligence, spirit of hardship, strong communication ability, strong ability to resist setbacks, know how to cooperate, be modest and cautious, and attach importance to family education, can we not be at the bottom of society for a lifetime.