Be wary of the underlying logic

Visit the supermarket the day before yesterday. In the distance, I saw a female supermarket employee, who was scolding the opposite side with her fingers crossed, "You must not die well, saying that my family is expensive, only to pull a good family, and then prepare to spend money to buy medicine to eat..." No one on the other side took the stubble. Someone advised her, and she still scolded her. It was as if Yang Erjie was reincarnated, scolding and jumping up and down, scolding murderously, and scolding only dancing.

At that moment, I disregarded the image of the store and disregarded my own face. Her cries revealed the ugly undertones of a rural shrew.

Yes, there must have been a peer who squeezed her, and she also grabbed this point fiercely, so there was this sprinkling that did not care about anything.

However, she did not know that her confrontation method was a hundred times uglier than that of her opponent who squeezed her, let alone want to make a business overnight.

Is she wrong? Of course she didn't think so.

Her logic is just, you don't tunnel, squeeze me, I can put you to death. As for the final result, her gaze was invisible.

I remembered what I saw in another supermarket. The family inquired in front of a butcher shop, but another butcher leaned over and said, "Buy my family, my family is cheap, as long as eighteen." The family ignored him, and the owner of the butcher shop did not pick him up, but only told his family, "My family is free-range, and the meat is good." The other turned around bored.

Imagine how this unauthentic butcher shop can come to people's land for gun business. If you change another boss, you will definitely have a big quarrel with him, but what is the result of the quarrel? It is estimated that the business cannot be done, and it is also regarded as a joke by others. The owner of this shop temporarily put aside right and wrong, did his own business, and really angry next door...

I would say that a lot of times, we need to be wary of the underlying logic. Being at the bottom, it is easier to break the bottom. Because not only is the ownership of the bottom layer limited, but more importantly, the bottom layer of thinking is limited.

There are probably three kinds of low-level thinking, the first kind of thoughtlessness, which is like the masses in "The True Biography of Ah Q", "if they are shot, they must be guilty"; the second kind only looks at right and wrong, as long as they think that the other party is wrong, they will exercise their right to discipline naturally and without bottom line; the third only looks at the present, does not think about the consequences, and wants only the immediate results of the moment.

Such examples of thinking are everywhere, which can be described as the bottom "Rashomon". The old woman who plucked the dead man's hair thought that before she died, she had made a living by filling the snake meat with dried fish, so it was reasonable to pluck her hair; and the woman who did this business also took herself for granted, because otherwise she would starve to death; the servant also stripped the old woman of all her clothes, thinking that it was right, because otherwise he would starve to death... The excuse for using the unwholesomeness of others to do evil can be described as ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign.

Some time ago, I saw a video. A woman for the wedding license fee of three thousand yuan, only because the store refuses to return, and she refuses to change to other services, she cuts her hand in the wedding dress shop, and a cut is tens of thousands...

Who gave her that confidence?

Don't you think that if you refuse to refund my money, and if you are wrong with me, I have the right to punish you? And I'm going to make you pay multiple times the loss!"

And then there's the Xi'an subway incident that boils over in the summer. The girl who shouted loudly in the car was very hateful, so the subway security guard thought that she had the supreme right to discipline, and the punishment was so that people could not be clothed. Punishment and evil deeds have coexisted and merged into one in the underlying thinking.

What's more, Wuchang Noodle Restaurant was murdered for a dollar. Because he thought that the other party was asking for a price for no reason, and after being stimulated by hurting self-esteem, his flesh and qi surged up, so he cut off the head of the other person...

It can only be said that there are too many things that can provoke the underlying nerves. A little money, a little self-esteem, a little right or wrong can be the fuse that ignites them, and if they burn all the way, the consequences will be unpredictable even to themselves.

Don't get entangled with abusive people, because it is precisely because they have limited and limited cognition that they are forced to have a strong heart and cannot have the grace of the sea.

A little satisfaction of their poor self-esteem is sometimes to make way for themselves; to listen to and not hear their harsh words, sometimes to cherish their own image; occasionally to walk low is not to waste their time.

Of course, the underlying thinking is not necessarily only at the bottom, and everyone needs to be vigilant against themselves.

Is there still less underlying thinking in the world? For example, because there are liars in the world, you don't have to do good; because the leader is not authentic, you don't have to work hard; because he is wrong, I have to argue with reason; because I invite others to a meal, I expect others to pay back; because it is useful to learn, useless is to waste time; because he looks weak, so he must be bad...

What we must always understand is that there is not only right and wrong in the world, but also the infinity beyond right and wrong!