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Dink is a philosophy of life introduced to our country by the West in the 1970s and 1980s. At that time, it was admired by some young people who pursued freedom and fashion. So Dink began to become popular in some big cities. The Dinks are enjoying the world of two people, not having children, and living without being burdened by children.
With the development of society, there are more and more Dinks. Perhaps many young people only see the dashing and comfortable of the Dink people when they were young, and do not see the life of Dink in their later years, so they blindly pursue Dink. To know that the first dinks have now arrived at life, their current later life can give young people some reference. The first Dinks in our country have reached their old age, how are they living now? The reality is harsh.
A few days ago, I watched a documentary about the late life of the Dink people and was deeply touched.
A 70-year-old Dink couple, the wife suddenly suspected a heart attack, the old woman hurriedly called 120 to send his wife to the hospital. After the doctor's examination, he said that the old man's illness was very dangerous and required a long hospitalization. Because the two were childless and childless, the old lady could only pray continuously, hoping that God would bless her wife with a speedy recovery, and at the same time had no choice but to call her relatives.
And the old man lying in the rescue room is still insisting that he does not want treatment. Maybe it's the pain of money, maybe it's the fear of no one to take care of it, and the uncle's arrogance has also become the suffering of the old lady. Later, relatives came, and the old lady seemed to have caught a life-saving straw. The old lady has been panicking in her heart, she has no children and no daughters, if her wife is gone, then only the lonely and miserable herself, how should life be lived? Although the feelings of the two elderly people are enviable, it is still quite sad to see the condition of the two elderly people in the hospital.
When the Dinks were young, the two thought about the two of them spending their lives together, not having children, not being dragged down by children. For the Dink couple, the partner is the biggest spiritual comfort and pillar on their long life road. If both are young, healthy, and have each other in life, such a life is beautiful. The older you get, the more dependent you are on your partner.
But there was always one of them who had to go first. For mr. and mrs. Dink, if one person goes first in their old age, it is a feeling of collapse for the remaining person. At this time, there are no relatives around, and the heavens and the earth are left alone, without any worries and spiritual pillars, this feeling is very scary, and the rest of the life is really difficult. For mr. and mrs. Dink, whoever goes first in the end is blessed.
And ordinary couples, although they can't avoid the other one going first. But there are still children, at least there are still spiritual sustenance and pillars, and there is still hope for the rest of life. It is only in old age that I really understand that material things are the most important and the most important is the spiritual pillar.
When people are young and strong, they can indeed be very tough and feel that no one needs them. But when I get old, things are unpredictable. When the Dinks were young, they enjoyed it and were dashing, but when they got old, they didn't know how pitiful the childless life was. As the saying goes, it is not a blessing to be blessed when you are young, but a blessing to be old.
However, it is still necessary to respect everyone's way of life, after all, life is their own life.
[Topic Discussion: Do you have a Dink around you? How is life now? 】
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