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The eye-catching and influential Ms. Zhang Taoling, a woman from the beautiful and vast Tieling, Liaoning Province, with her unique and charming humor and rich knowledge, has risen like a rocket in the Internet field, and successfully won the glorious stage of the much-watched variety show "Wonderful Story"!
With 8 million followers, she is one of the brightest stars in the online world.
Behind the bright aura of Ms. Zhang Taoling, it is inseparable from the wholehearted support and care of her husband, Mr. Jamie. Although Mr. Jamie may seem ordinary, even weighing a staggering 220 kilograms, and even experiencing hair loss on the top of his head, he resolutely gave up his original dream of a doctorate and devoted himself to the early childhood education industry.
Every day, he works with passion and does his best to create a warm and harmonious living environment for his wife and family.
Mr. Jamie always has a broad mind and a tolerant heart for the novelties in life. He has never been bound by the traditional concept of "the strong wins", and has always been committed to giving his wife full support and understanding.
It is precisely because of the silent protection of Mr. Jamie, a caring big boy, that Ms. Zhang can chase her career ideals without any worries.
Their life pattern seems to be "strong women and weak men", but in fact, they respect each other and respect each other. With their own practical actions, they perfectly interpret what it means to be truly happy and happy married life.
However, on the road to today's happy life, Ms. Zhang and Mr. Jamie have also experienced a difficult time of separation. The story begins with the pandemic that is raging around the world.
Due to the strict anti-epidemic measures implemented in China at that time, Mr. Jamie was unable to apply for a visa to China until the eve of her delivery, despite the fact that Ms. Zhang was pregnant.
Touchingly, Ms. Zhang was left alone in the delivery room, moaning helplessly in the severe pain, and finally cut the umbilical cord for their second child, her son latte.
Since then, Mr. Jamie has not been able to obtain a Chinese visa, so the family of four has had to start a long two-year long life of international separation.
For many couples, long-term long-distance separation is undoubtedly a serious challenge to married life, and it is likely to easily lead to suspicion, disputes and even breakdown. Jamie, who is far away in Canada, is anxiously waiting for the news of visa approval, but on the other hand, he is still doing his best to complete his doctoral studies.
When night falls, he always tries his best to take care of his young children before he devotes himself to academic research.
Although the embassy's reply was still flickering, in the end, Jamie got his Ph.D. certificate, which is undoubtedly the greatest recognition and reward for his firm faith and dedication during this difficult time! On the other hand, Zhang Taoling in China, while taking care of her young children, she is fully focused on video shooting and social media operations.
With his unique talent, he successfully raised this half-breed baby into a cute child who can use the Northeast dialect proficiently and even dance.
On that special day, they worked hand in hand, supported each other, and finally achieved personal growth and improvement together. In fact, in this couple, we have already glimpsed the beginning of a beautiful story.
They had met at the same well-known university in the United Kingdom, and had planned to become a fairy couple in the academic world and write a legendary chapter together.
Although Jamie was a little plump at that time, who could have foreseen that this young man would embark on the tortuous road of life in the future? Just as they were about to receive their PhDs, Jamie unexpectedly received a job offer from the British Parliament, and he did not hesitate to give up his studies for the sake of this rare start in his political career.
However, in the context of those turbulent times, even civil servants in developed countries such as the United Kingdom were not spared. Under the double shock of Brexit and the new crown epidemic, Jamie unfortunately lost his government job and suffered a major setback in his life.
To make matters worse, just as Jamie was unemployed, his beloved wife Zhang Taoling was pregnant. Faced with the pressure of life, Zhang Taoling had to make a difficult choice in a short period of time - to return to China for development and participate in various variety shows to maintain the family's livelihood.
In this way, Jamie and their eldest daughter are left alone in distant England. We can't guess how Jamie survived that period of helplessness and wandering.
However, he quietly put his wife, who had been pregnant for several months, on the flight back to his hometown, hoping that it was just a little farewell for a while.
With the continuous adjustment and opening up of the mainland's epidemic prevention policy, Jamie was finally able to arrive in China and reunite with his wife, realizing their longing and longing for two years.
In order to fully support his wife Zhang Taoling's career, Jamie resolutely made a seemingly sacrificial decision - to put down his hard-working doctorate and devote himself to the field of early childhood education.
In the eyes of many outsiders, this may be a "downgrade" option. However, for Jamie, this new job has brought him great joy and satisfaction. Because in the life philosophy of this loving couple, they have never regarded the stereotype of "who is strong and who is weak" as an important measure.
On the contrary, they value understanding and respect for each other more.
In real life, as a well-known Internet celebrity artist active in front of the screen, Zhang Taoling is always busy with various live broadcasts, variety shows and commercial performances. As a result, almost all schedules must have her time at the top of mind.
However, Jamie never expressed any dissatisfaction or complaint about this, he just waited silently by his wife's side, telling the trivial things of daily life in plain words.
Sometimes, he will even incarnate as a "gossip girlfriend", sharing with Zhang Taoling with relish the news about divorce, quarrels and other trivial family matters in his circle of friends.
Zhang Taling will listen quietly, as if this moment is the most precious moment in her life.
They do their part in life, each doing what he can, and they don't interfere with each other. Zhang Taoling only needs to go all out to work hard for her career and support her family; Jamie, on the other hand, is responsible for the housekeeping and childcare at home.
This mode of life in which well water does not interfere with river water just demonstrates the mutual tolerance and understanding between them.
It is worth mentioning that although they have experienced a long separation of two years, the couple rarely has violent conflicts or emotional out-of-control situations in the process of getting along.
It's quite the opposite! Tolerance and tolerance just form the indispensable cornerstone of their sweet marriage!
At this point, it is necessary to go back to the criticisms and doubts they have experienced. Do you know that when the marriage relationship of this couple, who is known as "strong women and weak men", was first exposed to the public, the outside world without exception had deep doubts and ridicule about their union.
Just imagine, if the information of Jamie, who weighs about 220 kilograms, has been unemployed, and has a bald head, is published on the blind date market, he may become the laughing stock of people after dinner, and be despised and ridiculed.
Let's take a look at Zhang Taoling, she is not only a doctoral student at the University of London, but also an Internet celebrity with more than 8 million followers, and even stood on the stage of a high-profile variety show.
Therefore, whenever she unabashedly satirizes and belittles her husband on the show, the number of netizens will increase rapidly like a tide.
However, when their real lives were presented to the public bit by bit, people suddenly realized that their concept of marriage was so narrow and outdated. It turns out that a woman's strong position in the family does not mean that the marriage is broken and unhappy, but may add unexpected pleasure to life.
The couple's way of getting along with each other has brought us a new revelation: married life is not black and white, either/or, but pluralistic and symbiotic. The key is whether the two sides can truly love each other and support each other, rather than blindly pursuing the so-called "balance between strength and weakness".
As long as there is love and being loved, any form of marriage deserves respect.
Looking back on the bumpy road that the couple has walked, it is not difficult to find that the reason why they have come to this day and gained such a happy life is precisely because they have adhered to a core principle - "no internal friction".
As Zhang Taoling said: "I can buy the most expensive cashmere sweater, but there must be someone in the family who knows how to wash these clothes" She knows that the beauty of marriage lies in the division of labor and complementarity between each other.
In the darkest moments of their lives, they have never stirred up irresolvable contradictions and conflicts in the palace of marriage. On the contrary, the couple has created a vast world for each other with great generosity and tolerance.
Zhang Taling marched into China to meet the challenge of childbirth when she was unaccompanied, and at this time, although Jamie was far away, she always maintained a calm posture and expressed her concern to his wife in the most sincere voice.
Zhang Taling did not feel resentful because of this, but bravely completed the umbilical cord cutting ceremony of the newborn alone, showing a tenacious and positive spirit.
This tacit way of getting along comes from their unconditional trust in each other. Whether Zhang Taoling was questioned by the outside world, and was even accused of "hyping" her husband, or Jamie experienced a two-year separation, they never had the slightest doubt about each other.
Because deep down in their hearts, each other has long become an indispensable person in their lives.
This unwavering trust enabled them to maintain an optimistic attitude towards life in the most difficult years. Instead of falling into a whirlpool of recrimination and hurt, they chose to devote this precious time to self-improvement.
Eventually, Jamie managed to earn his Ph.D., while Zhang raised his mixed-race son into a lively and cute child who could speak dialects and square dance.
To this day, Jamie is endlessly tolerant of the novelties in life. Because of this, he was able to experience unprecedented joy and satisfaction in what others considered "low-level" early childhood education.
And Zhang Taoling's career is in full swing, which is inseparable from Jamie's selfless support for her.
It is true that they are not a flawless couple, but it is these seemingly "inadequate" qualities that give their lives more vitality and meaning. It no longer matters which is stronger or weaker, the key is to avoid internal friction and stick to the belief that love nourishes each other.
Only in this way can their love road go farther and higher.