When my eldest daughter was in high school, there was a girl in her class who had lived in a second-married family for a long time. In particular, the life experience between her and her stepfather is quite legendary and makes people feel a lot of emotions!
(The following is the affectionate story of the girl Xiaofei :)
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I was born in a small town in northern Guangxi, and what impressed me most when I was a child was that my parents quarreled at both ends for three days, and the family was never clean!
My mother is kind, but she has an impatient personality and a bad temper. And my dad was literally a wine pot, drunk almost every day before coming home. And as soon as I got home, I had a big fight with my mom!
I remember once, my father did not return late at night, and my mother locked the door in anger. Dad couldn't get in the house, so he kicked the door with the strength of the wine!
Then I saw this scene: in front of me, and in front of the neighbors who came to watch, my father and mother, wrestling, rolled on the ground into a mess!
It was also from the day that I felt that I could no longer lift my head in front of others!
All in all, because of the influence of my family environment when I was a child, I was very inferior and very sensitive. I wrapped my heart so tightly that no one could get close to it!
When I was in the fifth grade of elementary school, my parents finally divorced, and I was relieved! My mother came to nanning, the provincial capital, to work, and she took me with her. About a year later, my mother led a man through the door and said it was for me to get to know him. This girl is not stupid, and I soon learned the intentions of both of them!
I glanced at the man with the afterglow, not very tall, black and not slippery, so ugly!
Later, I heard my mother say that the man had been a soldier before and was currently working as a security guard in a neighborhood. After I listened, I snickered in my heart: As far as my mother's virtue is concerned, it is already very good to have a little security guard to look at her!
Since the man was with my mother, I hadn't looked him in the eye, and I hadn't spoken to him more than a few times in half a year! But what puzzled me was that in the face of my cold frost, he was actually not annoyed or angry, and he always kept a smile on his face!
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Those unforgettable memories between me and my stepfather!
The school I was in junior high school didn't have a good atmosphere, plus my personality was a bit weird and unsociable at that time, so I often had conflicts with my classmates!
A girl in the same class, she looked down on me, and I didn't like her, so once we both fought! I never expected that she would actually throw hot boiling water directly at me! As a result, the palm of my right hand was burned!
Although the girl was punished by the school and also compensated for the medical expenses, as soon as I saw the more and more obvious scars on my arm, I cried and said to my mother: I am like this now, those classmates will definitely look down on me even more, I don't want to go to school!
My mother was very anxious after hearing this, and I saw that the man next to me was silent, as if nothing had happened, so I hated him even more in my heart!
The next day, the man suddenly disappeared, and I did not go to my heart, thinking: What is the use of this kind of man, what is the use of keeping, it is better to leave!
Unexpectedly, a few days later, he suddenly came back again! And he had a bottle of stuff in his hand. What the hell is he going to do?
It turned out that a few days ago, he had traveled back to his hometown in the Great Northwest and found an old folk Chinese medicine doctor. This old man has ancestral secret recipes in the treatment of burns and burns, which can not only promote the rapid healing of wounds, but also ensure that no scars are left!
With a half-belief, I started taking medication. The effect was really like he said, the injury healed quickly, and indeed did not leave a single scar!
After this incident, although the solid ice on my heart had not yet melted, I did feel a little warmth! I thought: This man is still a bit useful, not useless!
When I was in the second grade of junior high school, there were often a few small gangsters in the surrounding area of the school who specialized in extorting money from students. Once I was also targeted by them! Although the loss is not large, this thing makes me feel very scared! And I didn't want to talk too much to the family, but I inadvertently mentioned it to my mother.
Not long after, a late self-study, on the way home, I was intercepted by those little again. They surrounded me and told me to take out all the money on my body! I didn't have any money with me, and by this time my awkwardness was coming up, and I didn't pay any attention to them!
Seeing that I refused to give in, one of the little became angry and embarrassed, and slapped me twice with a wave of his hand! I suddenly felt like Venus was on my head, trying to escape but couldn't go!
Just as the little bastard's third slap was about to come, I saw that his hand seemed to be tightly clasped by another pair of large hands. Take a closer look, it turns out to be him, the man in my house! He warned the little bastards not to come here, and while holding my hand, he wanted to leave quickly!
But the little bastards refused to give up, and they quickly caught up with the two of us, and some of them still had sticks in their hands! In desperate danger, he dragged me behind him and shielded me with his own body!
The little bastards did indeed move, and just when I was worried about myself and for him, I didn't expect the battle to end soon! Maybe he had learned some kung fu when he was in the army, so a few small were not opponents at all, and they quickly fled into the wilderness!
At this time, I saw that he was almost like a person who had nothing to do, and his face did not change color and his heart did not beat! He also calmly pulled out his mobile phone to call the police!
Later, I learned: That time I inadvertently told my mother that there were little bullying me, and after he knew it, he had secretly protected me for several days!
Don't you say, because with such a flower protector, I feel that I have found that long-lost sense of security! Moreover, since that heroic feat of saving the United States, his image in my mind has suddenly become much taller! I began to feel in my heart that this man was actually not so annoying!
After I went to high school, my personality defects improved significantly, my academic performance improved a lot, and I was finally admitted to a relatively good 211 university.
While I was happy, I couldn't help but worry about my tuition and living expenses. My mom quit her job a few years earlier because she wasn't in good health and now has to work occasionally, earning a very shaky income.
At the critical moment, it was the man in the family who stepped forward! He decisively quit his low-paid security job and went to work on a construction site! And whatever kind of work is paid high, he will do whatever. He didn't care about even the hardest and most dangerous!
All my tuition and living expenses for four years of college were paid for by working on a construction site! It was he who held up a blue sky for me!
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After graduating from college, I found a company in the provincial capital to work. On my first weekend after I officially went to work, he and my mom specially prepared a sumptuous dinner for me!
Through the light, I suddenly found out: After all, the years are not spared! The man in front of him already has a lot of wrinkles, and the vicissitudes of the years are obviously written on his face!
After three rounds of drinking, he openly and honestly talked to me about his future plans. He said: Now that you have grown up, you have also made a difference. My biggest wish has come true, and I have no regrets!
In the last two years, I have found myself much older and can no longer work on construction sites. I plan to work as a security guard for a few more years, and then I will go back to my hometown in the countryside. When the time comes, if your mother is not willing to go back with me, you mother and daughter will stay in the city and live a good life!
As soon as I listened, I immediately felt that my nose was sour! I plucked up the courage and said to him loudly with the power of the flood: Dad, don't go anywhere in the future, I will raise you, and our family will be together forever and ever!
As soon as this remark came out, I didn't expect him to be more emotional than me, and in an instant the old tears ran rampant, "It's been 10 years, this is the first time you have personally called my father!" ”
Subsequently, our family of three could no longer control themselves, hugged together and cried bitterly...
Finally, I would like to say: If anyone dares to tell me that my stepfather is not as good as my father, I will be in a hurry with whom!
Because in my heart: the love of the stepfather is as heavy as a mountain!
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