A friend asked,
Why some people are willing to run in,
Some people are reluctant to run into it.
I said this question is easy to answer,
There are many ways to answer,
For example, a person who likes to challenge new things,
One just wants to stay in the comfort zone;
One is more optimistic about feelings,
One is more pessimistic about feelings and so on.
However, I think that in addition to describing the difference between the two,
There is also a "competency" factor that is crucial.
For some people, running-in is like farming,
What he gains will eventually outweigh the hardships;
For some people, the run-in is just a matter of seeking perfection,
He draws from his own differences with others,
From the collision between people,
Never got anything.