There is an unforgettable scene in the movie "Django Rescued", a group of black people are toiling, the overseer next to them is patrolling back and forth with a leather whip, and if any black slave is slightly slack, the overseer will immediately beat him.
However, the overseer who whipped the black man was not a farmer, but an old black butler.
He was black like the slaves, but he had no pity for his countrymen, and even when he whipped the black slaves, he shot harder than the farmers.
Such a dark scene clearly and silently tells the ugliness of human nature. The lower and poorer some people are, the more they have to sink with the same people as themselves.
Some netizens on the Internet have shared a real childhood experience in the world. The sharers are from the countryside and have been very sensible since childhood. Every year during the busy season of farming, this netizen must get up early at 4 o'clock in the morning to help his parents take care of the farmland.
Once, this netizen got up before dawn and watered the seedlings of the farmland. When the sunrise was three, the netizen finished the farm work and planned to drag his tired body back to the house to rest for a short while, and then continue to do the rest of the farm work.
Who knew that his front foot had just returned to the house, and on the back foot, someone had let go of all the water in his family's field, and when this netizen found out, the seedlings in the field had long been sunburned by the poisonous sun.
Afterwards, the netizen found that the person who let go of the water in his family's field was a villager from the same village as him. Because the villager's field was relatively low, and he did not want to laboriously irrigate, he came up with the idea of "stealing" other people's water and watering his own field.
When he released the water from the other family's field, the villager did not think about how much trouble it would bring to other people's homes, he just blindly calculated how much benefit he could bring to himself by "stealing" other people's water.
It is a pity that there are many ordinary people like villagers who steal water from the countryside and are also struggling to survive.
These people may be doing the hardest and most tiring work, while complaining, while staring at the relatives and friends around them, once anyone is developed, they will pull each other back to the original point with bloodshot eyes, and even fight with their lives, only to ask everyone to sink together.
During this year's Double Eleven period, there was a Mr. Zheng in Songjiang, Shanghai, who called the courier Wang Mou many times because of the long-term delivery of online shopping goods, but Wang Mou dragged on until November 20, on the grounds that the recent delivery volume was too large, and still did not deliver Mr. Zheng's items.
Mr. Zheng was furious and complained to The courier company. Unexpectedly, that night, Wang Mou retaliated by going to the door according to Mr. Zheng's online shopping address, pushed Mr. Zheng to the corner and slapped Mr. Zheng's neck, and the whole beating process lasted up to 4 minutes.
This incident directly led to the tragic consequences of Mr. Zheng's hospitalization and Wang's imprisonment, and it can be said that both sides are losers.
In November this year, another tragedy occurred in Nanjing's Xuanwu District, where a 19-year-old woman surnamed Xu and a 21-year-old store manager were brutally killed, the murderer was a takeaway brother, and the reason for the killing was because of a cup of milk tea.
It turned out that the woman surnamed Xu ordered a cup of milk tea while working in a restaurant, but the delivery man did not deliver it for a long time. When the woman surnamed Xu saw that the takeaway was overtime, she gave the delivery man a one-star evaluation.
Unexpectedly, after the takeaway received the evaluation, he immediately rushed to the store of the woman surnamed Xu to make trouble, threatening to make the woman surnamed Xu unable to mix.
The woman surnamed Xu was furious and complained to the delivery man to the platform, which angered the delivery man, so the takeaway man immediately rushed into the store with a knife and killed the woman surnamed Xu and the store manager who rushed to persuade him.
Although there are reasons for the shocking low-level mutual harm incidents, the cold-bloodedness and violence embodied in them undoubtedly reveal the dark side of human nature.
Mr. Lu Xun once said: The brave are angry and draw their blades to the stronger; the cowardly are angry, but they draw their blades to the weaker.
It is true that when the weak are bullied, the way they vent their anger is often to hurt the weak who are at the bottom like them. However, the consequences of this kind of harm are always unbearable.
But people at the bottom are difficult to think through when hurting others, they just want to find a punching bag and vent their inner humiliation. If you can't find it, you will drag others to destroy it together, in short, you can't let others live better than you.
In this mentality, the more humble people live, the more they love to compare. Sometimes a careless word or a small act can instantly ignite the anger of these weak people and cause irreparable tragedies.
The behavior of these people is very similar to the famous "crab law", also known as "bottom mutual harm". The more people at the bottom, the more they like to step on each other and harm each other, and in the "mutual harm" again and again, form a weak thinking of "tearing each other at the bottom".
However, mutual persecution can only hurt both sides, thus making the class more solidified, and it will never be able to get out of the strange circle of people stepping on people.
In real life, it is not difficult to see the janitor's cleaning and delivery of takeaways, the bullying of the property to do the cleaning, no matter who has the upper hand on both sides, it is bound to spend a lot of time and energy in mutual harm again and again, and finally lose the opportunity to improve themselves, and can only continue to reincarnate in the bottom mutual harm.
In the final analysis, "bottom-level mutual harm" has an expensive "tearing cost". The clerk of the Nanjing restaurant caused the disaster of killing because of a cup of milk tea, and the takeaway who impulsively killed people also lost his future and future.
If you think about it, behind the tragedy, perhaps because the people at the bottom really have limited resources. They cannot solve problems through the exchange of resources or power, but can only resort to violence.
At the same time, limited resources limit their horizons and space for development. Unsatisfactory in life, they have no way to solve, a little unsmooth, they will make a big liver fire, the result is to hurt others, but also pit themselves.
This situation falls in the migrant workers in big cities, that is, the line chief of the factory assembly line yells at the workers, encounters the workers to do things, and even plays the leadership prestige, until the workers in a famous sweatshop jump on the hot search with thirteen consecutive jumps, and this unhealthy trend shows slight signs of improvement.
The "mutual harm" in the city has become a sneer between neighbors who "hate people and laugh at people", and even family members sometimes can't jump out of the strange circle of "mutual harm", such as daughter-in-law boiling into a mother-in-law, and PUA daughter-in-law like a mother-in-law.
Under the mutual harm, everyone has nowhere to escape, this is not a problem of one person, but a problem of group nature. But life is already so hard, it is not easy for everyone to live, so why hurt the innocent and add meaningless violence and killing.
All sufferings arise at will, but only self-indulgence. May everyone who is in the "bottom of the mutual harm" be able to be more rational and less angry when impulsive. Don't think about complaining about the world, but you can remember that you have been in the rain, so you are willing to hold an umbrella for others.
Only in this way can we replace hatred with warmth and replace mutual harm with mutual help, so as to break the fate of the bottom reincarnation and open a new brilliant life.
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Author: Liyuan Moon Night