13 years old is a good time in adolescence, this time the child should have been in junior high school, and the friends experienced the ignorance of the first adolescence. At this time, children have experienced the entrance examination, and gradually understand the importance of reading, and begin to understand things.
However, there was a 13-year-old boy, he lived very hard, his father died early, his mother had to support 6 children, and he was forced by life to go to the city to work, so the 13-year-old boy, as the eldest son in the family, took on the responsibility of raising younger siblings.
There are many children in the family, the boy is too busy to stop, he has become the "father" of 5 babies. Every day, as soon as he opened his eyes, the boy had to prepare breakfast for his younger siblings, do housework, wash clothes, clean the house, and take good care of his younger siblings.
Anyone who has raised a baby knows that taking care of a young child is a very hard thing, and some adults are tired and powerless to raise a baby every day, not to mention that this is just a 13-year-old boy, but to take care of 5 young children?
The boy had already dropped out of school in order to raise his younger siblings, which was a big blow to him.
Later, a reporter learned about this situation, went to interview him, in the face of the reporter's concern, the boy suddenly burst into tears, he said: Taking care of my younger brothers and sisters is very hard, but I have no way, I can only secretly hide and cry.
After this incident was reported, many people knew the boy's story and were very distressed about his experience. Many people think that the parents of boys are irresponsible to have so many children, knowing that they cannot afford to raise so many children.
Now there are also many families who are keen to have a second or third child, so what should parents pay attention to before having children?
1. Consider The physical condition of Bao Ma
If the age of the mother is more than 35 years old and then gives birth, it belongs to the elderly mother, this time the physical fitness will decline sharply, the postpartum recovery ability is very poor, and the birth will cause very serious damage to the mother's body.
Therefore, when the family is doing the baby raising plan, it must take into account the age of the baby mother, and often exercise before preparing for pregnancy, so as to reduce the harm caused by the birth to the mother's body.
2. Consider the family's financial conditions
From the birth of the child, it costs a lot of money, but some parents will think of letting younger siblings use their older siblings' clothes and toys, thinking that this is very cost-effective, so they have more children.
However, such an idea is very unrealistic, Xiaowa uses the old toys used by Dabao, wears old clothes, and is easy to develop an inferior personality from an early age, and these expenses are only a dime, and will not save much money. Therefore, before raising a baby, parents should look at their economic conditions rationally and act according to their ability.
3. Plan your time with your child
Children will experience a variety of things in their growth, which is a process that constantly affects the child's personality, and at this time, parents need to accompany, give children support and help, and guide children to think correctly.
Before having a child, parents should first consider their own life and work, and ensure that both parents have enough free time to accompany their children well, so as to ensure that family education and family warmth are not absent.
4. Be mentally prepared
If the husband and wife have children at a very young age, at this time they may not be very mature, and the husband and wife are also prone to disputes, which is not conducive to the growth of the child.
Before giving birth, parents should have a relatively mature mentality, be able to bravely and actively face the difficulties of raising children, and be fully psychologically prepared to face the birth of a new life.
Having a child is always a topic worthy of everyone's research, and how much and how parents pay in the growth of their children will affect the future growth of their children. Parents who have children at will and do not have the patience to raise children will only harm their own children, and it is too late to regret it when they are old.