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Tranquility, one of the most powerful actresses in the mainland film industry, starring in film and television dramas such as "Red River Valley", "Yellow River Love", "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang" and other film and television dramas, is a rare "Golden Rooster" and "Hundred Flowers" double film queen in the show business circle. Many years ago, when filming "Red River Valley", Serenity and the American actor Paul achieved a marriage. Later, for various reasons, the marriage of the two had a crisis. Over the years, rumors of a quiet divorce have been rife. Is Serenity really divorced? This article will reveal the truth of the facts for the reader...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > love is too difficult to get along with, and transnational marriages are in danger</h1>
In the spring of 1996, when Tranquility was filming the movie "Red River Valley" in Tibet, she fell in love with the male protagonist of the play, the American actor Paul. Before the scene was finished, the two quietly registered for marriage, and Serenity soon became pregnant with Paul's child.
"Red River Valley" not only allowed Serenity to harvest a fairytale transnational love affair, but also brought her career to the peak, because of her outstanding performance in the film, she became the "Golden Rooster" and "Hundred Flowers" double film queen. In March 1997, Serenity gave birth to a beautiful mixed-race son, Rayner(little name Cow Cow) at his home in Los Angeles, USA. There are husband and son a big two favorite men around, happiness and sweetness overflowing with tranquility in the heart.
Paul, an authentic American who grew up in a remote ravine in Guizhou Province, is a typical traditional Chinese woman. This pair of men and women with very different growth environments and cultural backgrounds live under the same roof day and night, and friction and collision are inevitable. Shortly after the birth of the child, Serenity asked Paul to make up for himself with chicken soup, and Paul opened a pair of surprised eyes: "What is the nutrition of chicken soup, which vitamins are good?" He bought a bunch of vitamin tablets and forced Tranquility to take them, and the pungent smell choked Tranquility's tears. In front of Paul, she pretended to eat a few grains, and as soon as Paul turned around, she threw the vitamins into the sewers.
Tranquility with Paul
According to Chinese customs, women have to "confinement" after giving birth to a child, but Paul let Tranquility take a cold shower after the birth of the child for only a week, and asked her to run and exercise. Serenity was very angry and got into a little awkward fight with Paul. Because they were both new fathers and mothers at that time, the discord in these lives was temporarily covered up.
In 1999, Tranquility and Paul once again took over the film "Yellow River Love" directed by the famous director Feng Xiaoning, and the two once again starred as a couple. At the boot ceremony, facing the frequent flashing of magnesium lights, Serenity held the child, Paul wrapped his powerful arms around his wife's waist, and his face was full of happiness, satisfaction and sweetness. This warm and classic scene still remains in the memory of many viewers.
"Yellow River Love" once again put Tranquility and Paul in the media focus, and this was the couple's last collaboration on the screen. After filming this play, Tranquility faded out of the show business circle and shifted the focus of her life to her family and children. At home in Los Angeles, she single-mindedly became a Chinese housewife, teaching her son Chinese word by word; wearing a hat and an apron, and frying steaks and making coffee for her husband.
Tranquility in The Country is a big star that attracts everyone's attention. Gradually, this leisurely and trivial home life made her bored. And Because Paul has a certain popularity in Hollywood, the film contract is continuous, and there is little time to accompany Tranquility at home, which deepens Tranquility's inner loss. She felt that she could not only have her husband and children in her life, and the idea of returning to the silver screen came to her heart. During that time, under Paul's recommendation, Serenity tried to contact several famous Hollywood directors, because Serenity's English is not good, and the director provided her with small roles, Serenity did not have room to play acting, which made her completely cut off the idea of going to Hollywood.
Tranquility is a famous hot temper in the mainland entertainment industry, speaking very straight and having a loud voice, which makes Paul very uncomfortable. Paul often helplessly folded his hands: "You were so gentle when you were in love, why did you become like this after marriage?" Are you Chinese women good at disguise? Paul's words hurt Serenity's self-esteem, and she grabbed the cup on the coffee table and threw it on the ground: "You are not allowed to insult us Chinese women!" I see that you American men sentenced two people before marriage and after marriage, chased each other very fiercely when they fell in love, and forgot their wives at home like a piece of clothing when they got married! Paul said quietly, shaking his head repeatedly: "NO, you tell me in Chinese, good men don't fight with women!" ”
Not only that, but even the simple question of eating caused Serenity to argue with Paul. Paul loves butter dipped in bread and bloody steaks, and Tranquility is disgusted when she sees them, so she asks Paul to learn to eat Chinese food, but Paul asks her to adapt to EatIng Western Food, saying that Western food is high in nutrients. In this way, Serenity and Paul had to eat separately. This makes Tranquility depressed, is this still like a home?
These frictions and discord corrode tranquility and Paul's good mood like moths, once, each other was the embodiment of perfection in the eyes of the other, and now, because of the change of mentality, they infinitely magnifie the shortcomings of the other, turn a blind eye to the advantages of the other, and quarrels have become commonplace. Staying in this home any longer, Serenity felt like she was going to go crazy. In June 2000, she told Paul, "I'm going back to China to shoot, the cow is still young, I want to take him with me." Paul firmly disagreed: "China is in the other hemisphere, how difficult it is for us to meet when you return to China!" I don't approve of you returning to China to shoot a drama. ”
Despite Paul's persuasion, Serenity packed her simple luggage and rushed to the airport with the child in her arms. Paul quickly chased out and snatched the child from Serenity's hand: "You can leave, the child must stay!" Although Serenity also wanted to take the child with her, it was inconvenient to think of herself alone with the child in the crew, and she did not compete with Paul again. She gritted her teeth and left...
Serenity with Paul stills
In this way, Serenity and Paul began to live apart on one side of the other. Paul and her son are in the United States, she is alone in the mainland showbiz circle, and when she thinks of the tense husband and wife relationship, her heart is faintly painful. In order to dispel the loneliness and pain in her heart, she frantically took over the drama and tortured herself in an almost masochistic way. In the three years from 2001 to 2003, Tranquility starred in more than 20 film and television dramas such as "Finding the Gun", "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang", "Hero", "Cao Cao and Cai Wenji", and even the Spring Festival was spent in the crew. In 3 years, more than a thousand days and nights, Serenity met Paul with only a handful of times.
In March 2003, just after the Spring Festival, Paul brought his son to visit relatives in China. At that time, Tranquility was filming the TV series "The Big Horse Gang" in Inner Mongolia, and Paul and his son lived in a hotel near the crew. The couple only lived in harmony for two days before an argument broke out, and Paul angrily accused Serenity: "You are not a qualified wife, I am married but live a bachelor's life, I am here to ask you to go back to the United States with me!" Tranquility's fiery temper came up, and he sneered: "If I had a happy time in the United States, would I run back to China to shoot a movie?" You should reflect on how you are a husband! ”
After some argument, Serenity asked Paul to settle in the country, which Paul could not accept anyway. Unable to agree, Paul and his son returned to the United States in anger after a week on the crew. Before leaving, he dropped a harsh sentence: "If we continue to do this in the future, we will cut it in two!" Watching his son look back at his face full of tears, Tranquility's heart ached like a cut...
Youth tranquility
Because Serenity spent too little time in the United States during these three years, her green card expired and she could not travel freely to and from the United States as before. As a result, she spends less time meeting Paul, the couple can't make a few phone calls all year round, and The quiet heart is completely cold...
Divorced, I still have to find you, and I am overwhelmed by the continuation of the frontier
Like most American men, Paul was a little casual about feelings before marriage, but since marrying Serenity, he has valued the family very much and has high expectations for marriage. Although he did not divorce Serenity now, the fragmented state of the family made him both heartbroken and anxious. Since returning to the United States in Inner Mongolia, he has repeatedly given an ultimatum to Tranquility on the phone: "You either return to the United States and live with my son and me, or we will completely break up and go our separate ways!" ”
Serenity is an arrogant woman, and her husband's tough attitude towards her hurts her self-esteem. She unceremoniously countered him: "Leave away, maybe I will live better after separation!" But when Paul asked her when she would return to the United States to go through the divorce procedures, Tranquility and Ai Ai did not have a clear answer. In fact, in the quiet of her heart, although she complained about her husband, she never wanted to be separated from Paul. In her opinion, not for herself, but also for the child, the son is only 6 years old, let him live in a single-parent family, it is too cruel.
Since then, in order to avoid this topic, when Paul calls again, Serenity either does not answer or says two perfunctory words and then hangs up. She wants the flow of years to precipitate each other's mentality and feelings, and maybe their relationship will turn around. In her opinion, her marriage to Paul was far from disintegrating.
The tranquility of childhood with mom and brother
But Paul could not wait any longer, in their American man's conception that for a couple to maintain a marriage, they had to live a good life, otherwise they would be separated cleanly. He was disgusted by Serenity's practice of dragging mud and water. In August 2004, Paul came to Beijing to discuss divorce face-to-face with Tranquility again. The two sat in the café relatively speechless, and when Paul asked Serenity to accompany him back to the United States to go through the formalities this time, Serenity lay on the table and couldn't help but burst into tears.
Back at home, an irresistible Tranquility cries on the phone and tells her friend Szczygova about Paul forcing her to divorce. Szczegowa is very familiar with Serenity and Paul's love, marriage and the current situation of marriage, and she comforts Serenity in the tone of a person who has come over: "It is not the eldest sister who said that you, when you fell in love with Paul and married, it was a mistake, you were too impulsive and too hasty." Since he has no feelings for you now, you can let go and let love have a way to live. Do you see that although the eldest sister has experienced emotional setbacks, isn't she also living quite happily now? ”
A push to enlighten the heart, stopped the quiet tears of sadness. Yes, her marriage to Paul was like an egg in her hand, it would be crushed when it was clenched, it would fall to the ground and break when it was loose, and it was time to put the egg down. Since Paul no longer cared about himself, since the marriage had died in name only, why bother to guard this shell and add a load to his own soul and to the other person.
But when I think of my young son, my quiet heart is like a thousand silver needles. In September 2005, Serenity flew to Los Angeles with a damp heart. After more than a year of not seeing, the son grew taller and fatter, a sweet "mother", let the tranquil liver and intestines cut off. She held her son tightly in her arms and shed tears before she could say a word. After calming herself down, Serenity asked her son seriously: "Mom and Dad are going to be separated, don't be sad, you will always be Mom and Dad's baby." Unexpectedly, her son was not as sad as she thought, and Niu Niu, who grew up in the United States, did not spend a lot of time with his mother over the years, so he did not feel much about his parents' divorce. He told Serenity in a milky voice, "Mom, you will come to see me often in the future." ”
The last few concerns were dispelled, Serenity had nothing left to let go of, and soon she and Paul agreed to divorce. Her son lived with Paul, who gave him all the villa, car, and savings, and left the house on her own, carrying a simple suitcase back to Beijing.
From the end of the relationship back to the beginning, the tranquility has a kind of relief and ease. But soon, the inherent loneliness and loneliness of a single woman lingered in her heart like a cloud. In the long and difficult nights, facing a bleak moon outside the window, Serenity leaned on the head of the bed and smoked one cigarette after another. The smoke rising in front of her seemed to be her sad past with Paul... She sat quietly until dawn.
Tranquility has always liked to collect and buy Chinese furniture, and when she is frustrated, this desire to buy is even more crazy in her heart. She has no moderation in spending money, and she has no concept of financial management, so although she has been debuting for so many years and has been popular, she has not accumulated much wealth around her. Every time she got a salary, she ran to the furniture store to buy some useless mahogany furniture such as coffee tables, sofas, and high and low cabinets. Only in the frenzied consumption can she find temporary pleasure and excitement. So during that time, Serenity was very nervous at hand. In order to make more money, she frantically took over film and television dramas and advertisements, and then threw the earned film remuneration in the furniture market. Later, Tranquility could not put so much furniture in her home, and she rented a warehouse in Dongsi to store the mahogany furniture.
Soon, the director of the TV series "Silver Valley" found Tranquility and let her play a very characteristic small role in the play. Because this role requires the actor to shave her head, many actresses have retreated, but Serenity did not hesitate to take over the role, one is that she needs money; the other is that she wants to shave off one of her own green silk, hoping that the troubles will also drift away with the green silk. However, after the scene was filmed, Tranquility's heart was still full of the pain and exhaustion of divorce.
Separated from serenity, Paul is also suffering emotionally. When he was with Serenity, all he could think about was Tranquility's shortcomings, and now that Siren had broken up with him, his memories of Seren were full of her goodness. Moreover, the son often pestered him for his mother, asking his mother over and over again why he did not come back to see him. This increased Paul's longing for serenity. He had the idea of reuniting with the broken mirror of tranquility. Several times, he picked up the phone and wanted to complain to Serenity, but because of the man's dignity and face, he did not have the courage to pick up the microphone again and again.
In March 2006, Serenity went to the United States to visit her son, and Paul went to pick her up at the airport. To the point of silence, Paul gave her a bouquet of roses. Serenity looked at him suspiciously, "You sent the flowers wrong!" Paul smiled slyly and didn't answer. Back home, Paul had already instructed the nanny to prepare a candlelit dinner. Looking at the flickering red candle, Paul said emotionally, "Do you remember?" The first time I pursued you on the set of Red River Valley, it was also a candlelit dinner for you. Paul's words evoked Serenity's fond memories of the past, and she remembered the youth she had traveled with Paul. I remember once shooting a group of shots on the edge of a cliff in Tibet, Where Serenity wanted to eat the red wild fruits on the tree, and Paul risked his life to climb the tree. Watching Paul swing around like a swing in the tree, The Serene Heart lifted to the throat eye. Paul picked a few wild red fruits, wiped them clean with his clothes, and handed them to Serenity. Serenity swallowed with tears, she thought it was the sweetest sacred fruit in the world.
The past is still faint, and tranquility shed tears of mixed feelings. At this time, Paul suddenly got down on one knee and said to her seriously: "Tranquility, I have now realized that losing you is the pain of my life, and I can't live without you in my life." Give me another chance to pursue you again, okay? Serenity's heart trembled, and she didn't know what to say. After a while, Paul stood up. The son ran over, folded Serenity's left hand on Paul's right hand, and said to Serenity in a nice voice, "Mom, promise me, are you with Daddy?" Looking at the child's pure gaze, remembering that he did have a lot of attachment and reluctance to Paul, Serenity nodded: "Cow Cow, Mother promised you to be with Daddy!" Serenity saw that the smiles on Paul and his son's faces suddenly spread out...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="54" > parting ways and still have friendships, and they can't be husband and wife as relatives</h1>
Serenity and Paul's once-interrupted chain of affection are thus connected again. A divorced couple continues to the frontier, and Serenity and Paul cherish it very much. Reflecting on the bumps and stumbles of the past, both of them try to change themselves and adapt to each other. The two agreed that they would meet every two months, either by Quiet flying to the United States or that Paul would come to Beijing with his son to reunite with her.
At this time Serenity was in front of Paul, trying to suppress his personality. She spoke softly, tenderly to Paul like water. Paul also tried to keep pace with tranquility in his diet, and his habits were as close to tranquility as possible. After doing this for a while, Both Serenity and Paul are exhausted, and they find themselves completely losing their personality in front of each other and becoming not themselves, which completely deviates from their original intention of breaking the mirror and reuniting. Neither Serenity nor Paul wanted to live such a depressing life.
In June 2006, some media in Beijing broke a blockbuster news: "Queen of Shadows" tranquility and singer Shun Tianqi, who is 8 years younger than herself, had a "sister-brother love". For a time, many media have reprinted, and the wave of speculation is higher than a wave. Paul saw the news from the Internet, his face was pale with anger, and he rushed to Beijing to ask Jingjing for his sins. He angrily scolded Serenity, "We said we were going to be together, but why did you step on two boats?" Have you considered my feelings in doing so? ”
Serenity patiently explains to Paul that Shuntianqi is the stage name of her brother Ning Pengyu, who has just signed to a record label. The company was going to release an album for him, and came up with this idea to promote it, which was not a quiet idea at all, and she was disgusted by this practice. But Paul stubbornly believes that this is Serenity's plan to help his brother. Paul was very disgusted by this, and everything in the Quiet family had to be involved with her. When he had not divorced Tranquility before, every time he came to China, Tranquility would drag him back to his hometown to visit his seven aunts and eight aunts, and also buy gifts and gift money. In the United States, there is no such thing, marriage is a matter of two people, and the relationship with the family is not very large.
Thinking of this, Paul said indignantly, "Why do you always mix the affairs of the family with yourself?" Do you know? I'm disgusted that you did this! Tranquility was already very aggrieved, and Paul's accusations made her very annoyed: "I also told you a long time ago that when you marry a Chinese woman, you are marrying this woman's family and social relations." We didn't go through the remarriage procedures, if you regret it, it's still too late! Paul glared at Serenity fiercely and brushed his sleeve away.
In order to calm things down, a week later, Serenity flew to Los Angeles to prepare for a good communication with Paul. Paul's anger had subsided, and he did not bother with Tranquility anymore, but merely reminded Serenity that in the future their affairs should not be mixed with their families. Serenity was a little unhappy in her heart, but didn't say anything.
In the evening, Serenity casually hummed the song "180 Degrees" from her brother's album. The bright, gentle tune caught Paul's attention: "What song are you singing, it's so good." Serenity replied casually: "This is a song from Pengyu's album, if you are interested, you can attend his press conference next week, and he will sing it for you live." Paul's face suddenly froze: "Are you trying to hype me again?" "This man is too narrow-minded! Serenity couldn't bear it and quarreled with Paul. The son looked at the emotional mother, and then looked at the father who was blushing and thick-necked, and hid in the corner with a pair of frightened eyes. This scene made Tranquility's heart break. She finally understood that in fact, the spiritual gap between her and Paul had never been eliminated, and there would always be endless quarrels together, and the child would always live in a frightened and uneasy environment. Continuing the frontier was a mistake, and it was time to separate completely, which would be good for her, Paul, and her son.
Early the next morning, Serenity told Paul bluntly: "After this period of life, I found that it was really inappropriate for us to live together again, we were still completely separated, and I came here later, just to see my son, and I have nothing to do with you!" Paul's fantasies about the good life of being with serenity are shattered, and he understands that his relationship with serenity has come to an end. He drove Serenity to the airport and then waved a tearful goodbye to her...
This time, Tranquility didn't feel half a heartache, just unspeakable ease. Back in Beijing, Tranquility sent Paul an email: Paul, my former lover, thank you for the time you have spent with me over the years. In the memory of my life, I will never forget you! Although we are no longer husband and wife, we will always be the father and mother of the cow and cow, let us raise the cow and cow together with selfless fatherly love and maternal love. Cow cow is innocent, he is not wrong, the fault is only us adults. I hope that we will not leave scars in the process of growing up, this is my biggest wish as a mother.
Serenity's email made Paul's mind roll over, and he replied to Serenity: I am not a narrow man, we can't be husband and wife, we can be friends and relatives. You can rest assured that I will pour out 100% fatherly love to the cow and let him grow up healthy and happy. I hope you call niu niu more often when it is convenient for you, because for him, maternal love is also indispensable.
In this way, Serenity often asks about the cow on the phone and discusses with Paul how to educate the children. Because there is no husband and wife relationship, the communication between the two is more relaxed and natural. Paul told Serenity that the child was interested in baseball and swimming, he consulted the coach, the child's physical condition was more suitable for swimming, and he was ready to send the cow to the club to practice swimming. Serenity agreed with Paul so much that she bought swimming trunks, glasses, and a swimming cap and sent them to her son.
In the summer of 2007, Tranquility finished filming the TV series "The King of South Vietnam" and had a rare free time. She flew to the United States and took her son, Renner, back to Beijing for summer vacation. Serenity takes care of her son's diet and living, and sends him to swim in the Children's Palace every day. When the child practiced in the swimming pool, she waited outside, and after the training, she took her son home. Rayner likes to make anime, and Serenity accompanies him to Zhongguancun to buy software. Back home, Renner installed software, adjusted colors, and sat quietly watching. When Rayner finally made his first FLASH work, Serenity happily gave him a thumbs up: "Son, you are a cow!" ”
Tranquility on set
Throughout the summer, Serenity, like an ordinary mother, took her son out to play, went to the streets to search for good food, and watched movies with him. Spending nearly two months with his son day and night, Tranquility not only enjoyed the rare joy of heaven, but also deeply felt the hardships of raising his son, and also realized the difficulties of Paul over the years.
In January 2008, Paul and his agent came to Beijing to talk about a play. Paul told Serenity the news, and Serenity personally drove to the airport to pick them up and pick them up. In those days, Tranquility drove with Paul and his agent to some attractions in Beijing. When they left China, Tranquility also gave them souvenirs. Serenity's sincerity and enthusiasm impressed Paul's agent and gave Him a glimpse of serenity.
In April 2008, Paul told Serenity on the phone that he had a girlfriend, a Chinese-American, who was teaching at a university. Listening to Paul talk about the advantages of the other party on the phone, Tranquility blessed Paul at the same time, and there was a little unspeakable bitterness in his heart. She sincerely said to Paul, "In the years I lived with me, I didn't bring you joy and happiness. I hope that this time, you can find a real emotional home of your own. Putting down the phone, Serenity's face was unconsciously filled with tears.
On June 12, while filming a cosmetics commercial, Tranquility returned home with heat stroke and lying in bed exhausted without even eating dinner. At 12 o'clock in the evening, Serenity suddenly remembered that Paul had told her that his girlfriend was going to come to the house today to meet her son for the first time. Worried that her son would not accept the new mother, Serenity struggled to sit up, dialed the transoceanic phone, and said to her son in a sweet voice: "Niu Niu, today your new mother is going to see you, and your mother is happy for you, so that you have two mothers who love you." Cow Cow, what a happy child you are! You have to love the new mother and respect the new mother. Listen to your mother and buy a bouquet of carnations for your new mother, okay? Rayner nodded obediently, "Mom, I listen to you." ”
The next day, Paul told Serenity on the phone: "Cow cow listens to you and behaves very well in front of the new mother." She loves cows and cows. Thank you, righteous mother! ”
In early August 2008, Serenity flew to Los Angeles to pick up her son and return to Beijing to watch the Olympic Games. Seeing that Tranquility was still alone, Paul asked her with concern, "When are you going to find a new father for Niu Niu?" I advise you to do it early so that the cow can enjoy the love of the four parents. Paul's humorous and comical words made Tranquility laugh. She told him with a relaxed face: "I am thinking about this, and I think that in the near future, I will also have a new emotional destination..."
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