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How to identify human nature and human heart

author:Open-minded love of learning

Most of the pain of interpersonal relationships is created by others, people's hearts are unpredictable, to see a person to see a person's most prominent shortcomings, a person's biggest and most prominent advantages, careful observation of others, detailed observation, observation and study of others have a certain scientific, objective. Speculating about others is subjective.

A person reveals evil, corruption, and a dark side at a critical moment. There are also wicked people who play the angels of light.

Human nature only plays a different kind of personality and corresponding role in a specific stage, script, and plot. You can't simply see and see through a person in a limited amount of time, and understand a person for at least 2 years. People have an eager desire to understand others, so they believe what their ears hear and their eyes see.

People who do not give up at all, selfish and stingy, we do not listen to language with our ears, language is deceptive, 100 words of language letter on the line.

Language is not thinking, logic says that language is the shell of thinking, human details are not easy to cover up, details are naturally revealed, easy to be ignored, just reflect the real human nature.

Look at a person's method of doing things, motivations, and results of doing things, and understand their major shortcomings and dark side. Waiting for people to have a sense of democracy, to see whether a person respects others as people, whether it is discrimination, arrogance, or respect.

Profit and righteousness are always opposites, stingy people will betray themselves at critical moments, those who value profit are light on righteousness, and if they grasp profit very firmly, they must put down righteousness, and if they grasp righteousness very firmly, they will put profit down, righteousness is spiritual, and profit is physical and material.

As long as you are alive, you have to deal with people, it is very difficult to really understand a person, human nature is hidden, and people's hearts are unpredictable! We need to know the two poles of man. Look at a person's most prominent shortcomings, dark side, the worst side, one is the biggest and most prominent advantage. Observers look at the details.

Small things can give benefits to others, the mouth language is unreliable, should look at how she does, what she does, and the motivation for doing things. Look at the advantages are equality, whether you can treat others equally. From the details of the attitude toward money, people who love to take advantage of the stinginess should stay away, because money represents profit, profit and righteousness are always opposites, righteousness is the spiritual level, and profit is the material level.

The good and evil of human nature are difficult to detect thoroughly, human nature is hidden, complex in structure, and the human heart is unpredictable, and the wicked give birth to evil from their human nature, and the good produces good from their human nature, and the good tree bears good fruit, and the bad tree bears bad fruit, and by virtue of the fruit of behavior, good people and evil people can be distinguished. Time and events will eventually reveal one's nature.

Understand and see through a person, put it in a specific, long-term through the specific, large and small event processing, reaction, attitude to see out, people can change, the essence of people will not change. Understanding and seeing through a person, looking at his personality characteristics, moral cultivation determines the depth of interaction. Conduct measured and measured interactions.

The two principles of getting along, getting along cautiously, understanding carefully, not credulous, not superstitious, not unfounded doubts.

People's major defects and moral level can only be exposed under specific and special things, and they are not exposed at ordinary times. If you can't grasp it, you will be put to death by the other party at once, and you will be miserable and miserable, often you look good, honest, and cute people will kill you. Details are not easy to disguise, but the true nature of human nature can be seen.

Don't believe your ears and eyes, there are thousands of people, there are thousands of things. At work, if something doesn't go well, it can be analyzed with reverse thinking, and if I'm not good to anyone, it's easy to find the person who makes the bad prank.

In life, it is difficult to understand a person, and the girlfriends between women have known each other for more than ten years, and have been very friendly, until one day they find her true face, and they disperse. The Art of Imperial Ren and the Art of Knowing People, these two cultivations are a bottomless pit, which can only be accumulated slowly.

Man has not changed, he has revealed. The essence of man is difficult to change. Don't rush to be someone else's friend. Don't believe that swearing and commitment are emotional reactions to specific, special circumstances, unreliable!

A person's attitude towards money can be seen in his essence! Don't think that you know a person, you don't even know yourself very well, don't easily draw conclusions, don't marry or marry easily.

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