Chapter 008
The "second generation of stars" has always been the envy of many actors in the entertainment industry. Because some of the parents often have achievements in the show business, even the aura that belongs to them is determined at the moment of birth.
For example, Nicholas Tse, when Tse Tingfeng was just born, because Xie Xian was too famous, so all the media focus was on this newborn, which meant that his birth was destined to be full of aura.
But not all star second generation has such a good aura, whether the second generation of stars can get resources to have good living conditions, in fact, many times are inseparable from the parents' educational philosophy.
For example, Li Dahai, once known as the "most miserable" star of the second generation, his father Li Chengru was worth hundreds of millions, but he lived with his mother in a small house of 18 square meters for 28 years, which once felt inferior to himself and complained about his father.
So, why do two fathers and sons who should coexist peacefully always get along with each other?
Li Dahai's father, Li Chengru, is a well-known actor in the entertainment industry. Since he was a child, Li Chengru understood the difficulty of life, and when he was very young, his father died of illness, leaving his mother to pull their brothers and sisters under them to grow up one by one.
In this harsh environment, Li Chengru soon became precocious, and at the age of 16, Li Chengru went to the Beijing market to find a job in order to reduce the burden on his family, and was successfully assigned to work in a garment factory in Beijing.
Like many people around him, Li Chengru entered the garment factory at that time just to make a living. What he did not expect was that the garment factory opened up another path for him and played a great role in his future business.
At that time, there were still many leisure and entertainment activities in the factory's free time. Li Chengru also joined a workers' club in his spare time, and became interested in drama performance in the club, which gave birth to the idea of entering the show business circle.
To this end, Li Chengru also participated in the acting training class of the Beijing Film Academy in his spare time, hoping to become a good actor.
But unfortunately, at that time, the market in the showbiz circle was already full, and it was actually quite difficult for a newcomer to enter the showbiz circle and be seen by the audience. And Li Chengru also developed self-doubt after hitting a wall everywhere.
In 1997, when the crew of "Journey to the West" was preparing for filming, Li Chengru entered the crew by mistake and became the "field manager" in it, responsible for guiding director Yang Jie to select actors and dealing with some things in the crew.
Becoming a field worker is not Li Chengru's deepest desire in his heart, but in the current situation, Li Chengru knows that this is probably the best place to get close to and learn acting.
So, in the crew, Li Chengru stayed for nearly a year. But in addition to the road of showbiz, Li Chengru actually has his own opinions, seeing that the development on this road is fruitless, Li Chengru finally chose to go to the sea to do business.
At that time, it was the trend of doing business, and Li Chengru, who had a brain, started a clothing business under this trend, and created China's first "self-framed" clothing department store, named "Special Special".
That time was probably the most glorious moment in Li Chengru's life. Li Chengru used his only savings to rent more than 1,000 square meters of space, specializing in selling clothes and shoes.
Because of its business acumen, and because it is more distinctive than ordinary clothing stores, soon after, Li Chengru ushered in a period of high-light business.
In the 1980s and 1990s, it was already a remarkable thing to be able to become a million-dollar household. However, Li Chengru has tens of thousands of income every day, and when the business is at its best, there are five or six hundred thousand cash in the daily turnover account.
In such a situation, Li Chengru's value was also quickly hundreds of millions, he bought a Mercedes for himself, and put on a pair of socks for $100.
In 1991, Li Chengru's foreign exchange library already had 1300w of US dollars, which can be said to be the richest among the rich at that time.
Logically, Li Chengru, who has such achievements, will not be so stingy with his children. But in fact, Li Chengru has his own ideas about educating children.
In 1984, Li Chengru and his first wife, Shi Min, met and soon entered the marriage hall. Soon after the marriage, Shi Min gave birth to a lovely son for him, named Li Dahai.
When Li Dahai was born, although Li Chengru was not as rich as later, his career development was also very good. In the show business circle, I was able to get a good role by chance, and later became a crew member, so it is still relatively impressive to say that the income is still relatively impressive.
But despite this, Li Chengru has never been spoiled for Li Dahai, and when Li Dahai was still very young, he told Li Dahai that what he wanted should be earned by himself, rather than waiting for his parents.
The young Li Dahai did not understand his father's expectations of him, but watched his father become more and more busy, and there began to quarrel with his mother.
When Li Dahai was 6 years old, the marriage between Li Chengru and Shi Min finally came to an end, the two agreed to divorce, Li Chengru went to the sea to do business, and the custody was given to his ex-wife.
In the years after that, for Li Dahai, his father Li Chengru was just a vague figure. After his father succeeded in business, Li Dahai and his mother still had a hard time, living in a small house of 18 square meters for 28 years.
Li Dahai, who grew up in this environment, said that it was impossible not to complain about his father. If the father is really incompetent, he can understand, but the father is obviously capable, but he is not willing to spend money to let them live a good life, which makes Li Dahai feel very uncomfortable.
At one time, there was a gap between father and son because of these contradictions. Even once, when Li Dahai asked Li Chengru for a piano and was rejected, the two had a cold war for a long time.
For His part, Mr. Li admits to being an incompetent father. But he also thinks that his son has no ability, probably because of the early and difficult life experience, Li Chengru knows that all things are not easy to come by, and the child has nothing but the only thing on his body, and the rest are the things of his parents, and he also has to complain, which is not knowing how to measure.
Because of this, Li Chengru often "satirizes" his son on various occasions, believing that he does not have a manly spirit in him and will always be in place.
In the early days, Li Chengru also tried to join other actors and bring his own children into the film and television circle. At the beginning, Li Dahai did debut with his father's acting.
However, compared with Li Chengru's achievements in acting, Li Dahai himself has no strong interest in acting. Compared with acting, Li Dahai still likes music more, and he hopes to use music to touch people's hearts.
Regrettably, his father not only did not support this, but was also very ironic. At the time of Li Dahai's program, Li Chengru also accepted an interview and said that Li Dahai had nothing to praise except for his "human-like dog-like".
The sharp remarks made Li Dahai on the stage embarrassed at that time. In the words of Li Chengru: "Billiards did not play the world championship, the game does not have its own masterpiece, if you enter the show business circle is fine, at least I have to carry, I have to get some music." ”
The son's rebellion made Li Chengru sarcastic for a long time, and perhaps he was also aware of his father's personality and thoughts, but at this time Li Dahai seemed very calm.
He decided that he wanted to take the road of music and use music to do a good job in public welfare, so he threw himself into it and no longer lived in the "shadow" of his father.
In recent years, although Li Dahai has not had a great reputation in the singer industry, he has also had his own stable pace on the road of music.
And Li Chengru also because of his age, he also began to respect some of his children's ideas. Even in an interview, he said that he actually felt guilty about his son.
Different educational concepts and ideas make there is a contradiction between father and son. Fortunately, after This contradiction gradually matured in Li Dahai, it also began to have a good improvement.
But one thing also has to be said that although Li Chengru has made achievements in his acting career, he still needs to learn more in educating his son, and until the child's growth is not a blind blow, but needs appropriate encouragement.
Sometimes, a wave of encouragement may reverse a certain stage of the child.
In fact, in addition to educating children, Li Chengru is also a straight-forward person in private, and although his sharp comments are true, they are also "hurtful".
For example, in the "Director Please Advise" broadcast some time ago, Li Chengru made every comment, which was a lot of broken glass hearts.
Speaking sharp language sometimes drives progress, but sometimes it has the opposite effect. What do you think of Li Chengru's "sharp" education and evaluation?
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