When I woke up the next day, I was at my colleague's house and I was there.
I am from Shanxi and my wife is from Inner Mongolia, we met and eventually got married while working in Shenzhen.
In the third year of marriage, I felt that there was no hope of buying a house in Shenzhen, so we went back to the city where I grew up and started a new life.
Because my family is on the outskirts of the city, I work in the downtown area, so I travel about two hours a day (back and forth). My wife got a job near my house to care for my children and parents.
Because I'm from the Department of Commerce, we sometimes inevitably need entertainment. At this time, I always look for hotels nearby hotels (the unit will reimburse the costs).
My wife can understand.
In our unit, there was an older leftover girl who was kind to me and didn't want to embarrass her. Therefore, I can only pretend to be confused and deliberately keep my distance from her.
A few days ago, I drank too much at the unit dinner.
Similar situations have happened before. I was dropped off at the hotel by another colleague. But this time, I woke up and found myself at my roommate's house.
When you wake up, it feels more like three in the morning.
I got dressed immediately and left.
At this point, it was a bit inappropriate to find a hotel accommodation, so I ran to my unit and took a nap at my desk.
After work, I took the initiative to send a message to a colleague: I have a family. You're going to shut me up in your house. It's not good. Don't do this again in the future, otherwise even colleagues won't have to do it in the future.
He answered me in three words: I see.
The matter went unnoticed.
I always feel that everyone has the right to express love and everyone else has the right to refuse.
But why do some single people know they have a family but like each other?
Love is a wonderful chemistry. Sometimes, if you like someone, you know it will be the end of love, but you still have to love them.
The point is that in this relationship, you will embarrass yourself and make the other person feel ashamed.
It may also be related to the attitude of the lover when he "refuses". The loved one will feel that he doesn't want to embarrass the other person, so he doesn't explicitly say no, but he pretends to be stupid. For those who love you, you will mistakenly think that you are just hesitant and determined, as long as you persist, you can enter your heart.
Therefore, we do not need to be philanthropists in the field of love. When we find a loving species, we must show enough indifference to let the other person die as soon as possible. It can also be thought of saving a loving soul. Don't waste appreciation on yourself.
In fact, after this particular experience, you have expressed your attitude. Believe me, from then on, she will never have sex with you.