#头条创作挑战赛#年底聚会, be wary of the three types of smokers and drinking companions, and workplace wisdom teaches you to discern people's hearts
As the year-end bell approaches, various gatherings emerge one after another. Year-end gatherings in the workplace are an important occasion for socializing, not only to enhance friendships between colleagues, but also to lay the groundwork for future career development. However, we also need to be vigilant in situations like these, as not all social interactions can have a positive impact. Today, let's explore how to identify and stay away from people at end-of-year gatherings that could affect our career development – especially those who smoke certain types of cigarettes and drink certain alcohols.
Smoking
First, let's talk about smokers. Although smoking is a personal choice, the act of smoking at workplace gatherings can often reveal a person's personality and habits. Here are three types of smokers who deserve our special attention.
1. People who never leave their cigarettes
"Xiao Zhang, you smoke so hard, is there anything bothering?" Xiao Li observed that Xiao Zhang always kept a cigarette in his hand at the party, so he asked curiously.
Xiao Zhang smiled and said, "It's nothing, it's just used to it." ”
Xiao Li was secretly vigilant in his heart. In the workplace, those who never leave their cigarettes often lack self-control and are prone to collapse under pressure. Associating with such people can be affected by their negative emotions and may even get involved in unnecessary trouble.
2. People who smoke at will
"Here, smoke a cigarette." Xiao Wang enthusiastically scattered cigarettes to the people around him at the party.
However, some people don't like to smoke or can't smoke for health reasons. Xiao Wang didn't seem to notice this, and still smoked on his own.
This kind of casual smoking often reflects a person's lack of respect and understanding for others. In the workplace, associating with such people can be hurt by their selfishness and disregard for the feelings of others.
3. People who smoke high-end cigarettes to show off
"Look at my box of cigarettes, limited edition, priceless." Xiao Li showed off his high-end cigarettes at the party.
However, this ostentatious behavior often causes resentment from others. In the workplace, truly capable people often don't need to show off to prove themselves. And those who always boast that they have high-end items often have an empty heart and lack self-confidence. Associating with such people can lead us into a quagmire of vanity and comparison.
Drinking
Next, let's talk about the drinkers. At the end of the year, drinking is one of the inevitable activities. However, there are also those who drink alcohol to show off their personality or hide their true colors. The following three drinking habits also deserve our special attention.
1. People who are heavy drinkers
"One more drink!" Lao Zhang raised his glass at the party, and seemed to have an endless craving for alcohol.
However, this alcoholic behavior often reflects a person's lack of self-control and responsibility. In the workplace, associating with such people can lead to difficulties due to their irresponsible and impulsive behavior.
2. People who have drunk gaffes
"How can you talk like that!" Xiao Li saw Xiao Wang drunk and lost his temper at the party, making loud noises, and even making disrespectful remarks to others.
This drunken gaffe tends to be embarrassing and upsetting for those around you. Associating with such people can suffer losses because of their irrational and impulsive behavior.
3. Persuading people to drink and coerce
"Here, have a drink!" Xiao Chen constantly persuaded others to drink at parties, and even used various methods to force others to accept.
This act of coercion often reflects a person's lack of respect and understanding for others. In the workplace, associating with such people can be hurt by their selfishness and disregard for the feelings of others.
Summary
Through the above analysis, we can see that the behavior of smoking and drinking often reflects a person's personality and habits. At the end-of-year gathering, we need to be vigilant and identify and stay away from those who may affect our career development. Of course, this is not to say that we should avoid associating with these people altogether, but rather learn how to maintain our own principles and bottom lines in our interactions with them.
At the same time, we also need to understand that social activities in the workplace are not simply eating, drinking, and having fun, but interpersonal relationships that we need to manage and maintain with our hearts. When interacting with others, we should respect their choices and habits, while also maintaining our own independence and principles. Only in this way can we achieve better development in the workplace.