Aunt Wang and Uncle Li have been divorced for twenty years. But the relationship between the two is quite wonderful.
Aunt Wang's personality characteristics are very prominent, that is, the typical knife mouth tofu heart, and it is particularly strong. She was very hot when she was young, and she was also a good hand outside the home. Aunt Wang gave birth to two sons, and because she was not with her mother-in-law, both sons were brought up by herself. Aunt Wang is particularly capable, she does a good job of food, housework is also very good, and the two sons are also particularly well taken care of. Such a capable wife, in that era, was actually very popular, and it is reasonable to say that Uncle Li should be very satisfied. But Aunt Wang has had a problem since she was young, that is, she has a bad temper and likes to complain. Because everything is strong, she has high requirements for herself and others, and often has a straight face, especially serious, and speaks with a look of training people, Uncle Li has always been unable to stand this.
Uncle Li was still mixed when he was young, when he worked in the factory, because of a little culture, he slowly rose step by step, and later became the deputy director. In that era, the deputy director was already a very big official. After Uncle Li became the deputy director, the natural state is different, men are like this, with money or power, the whole person will have a change in temperament. But Uncle Li, who was a habitual leader outside, returned home and was still called by the powerful Aunt Wang all day. Today, if Uncle Li is not hygienic at home, Aunt Wang will scold "You are the surface light of donkey dung eggs, you know that there are five people and six people outside." Tomorrow, if Uncle Li does not work, Aunt Wang will also scold "every day I know how to behave outside, and at home I am a delicious and lazy two-faced pie." The day after tomorrow, I suspected that Uncle Li had a lot of socializing outside, and Aunt Wang scolded even more, "Who knows what you do when you spend the day and drink outside, you don't know how many fox spirits you hooked up with"... In short, Aunt Wang is good at everything, but her mouth is very poisonous!
However, Aunt Wang is not wrong at all, Uncle Li really likes to be unclear with other women outside, men have the right to have money and looks not bad, and many little girls and daughters-in-law in the factory are looking at this piece of fat meat. There was another humble woman in the family who was not gentle at all, and Uncle Li could not resist the gentle temptation outside.
When the two were in their forties, they went through divorce procedures and completely ended the legal marriage relationship. But the two sons are in their youth, Aunt Wang can't afford to raise them, Uncle Li can't take care of them, plus they are adolescent boys, they are not good at studying, and then go out to learn what to do badly. Later, the two discussed that for the sake of their children and for the sake of face, they did not announce the divorce to relatives, friends and family. Then Uncle Li often did not go home, but the money to support the family has never been broken. Aunt Wang continued to live with her children as if nothing had happened. Every New Year's Festival, red and white celebrations, the two will also go to relatives together and participate in banquets. Only the closest people know the true relationship between the two.
That's it until the kids are grown up. Aunt Wang and Uncle Li saved money to buy a house for their two sons and married them a daughter-in-law. Only to announce the fact that the two have long been divorced. In fact, the two sons have already speculated, and now that they have grown up and started a family, they have not said much. Since then, Aunt Wang and Uncle Li have thought that they can finally live their own lives separately.
But life is never a script that has already been set. Before the two of them had two years of leisure, Uncle Li found out that he had rectal cancer, which was already in the middle and advanced stages, and wanted to undergo surgery. After the operation, a series of treatments such as long chemotherapy and radiotherapy began. At this time, who will take care of Uncle Li has become a big problem. It is reasonable to say that Aunt Wang and Uncle Li have been divorced for twenty years, and the relationship has long since ceased to exist legally, and Aunt Wang has no obligation to take care of Uncle Li. Instead, it was Uncle Li's two sons, who had an obligation to take good care of their father. But today's young people have to work and live, and they don't have as much energy to take care of their cancer-stricken fathers. The eldest son held two for three years, and the two children were still young, and it was precisely when people were needed that they could not divide time and energy. The younger son did not want children, but the work unit was in the field, and he only came back once a month. Counting on your daughter-in-law to take care of it, it is unlikely, why should people take care of you? Besides, the husband has rectal cancer, which is not convenient.
In the end, this matter of taking care of Uncle Li still fell on Aunt Wang's head. When Aunt Wang first learned the news of Uncle Li's illness, she thought of the word "retribution". No one knows how many tears she shed and how much bitterness she swallowed to get to where she is today. So Aunt Wang really didn't want to care about Uncle Li at first. But then the eldest son and the younger son took turns calling her, asking her mother to look at their faces and help them, just as if they were helping them. Aunt Wang's heart softened.
When I arrived at the hospital, I saw uncle Li who was emaciated. At this time, Uncle Li has long lost his former vigor, and the torture of cancer has turned him into a decadent little old man. The beer belly is gone, the hair is shaved, and the side effects of chemotherapy drugs are too great. Especially after the ostomy surgery, it is very painful to live with the ostomy bag for a long time. When Aunt Wang saw Uncle Li's appearance, she couldn't say whether she was sad or happy in her heart.
In this way, Aunt Wang lived with Uncle Li again. Aunt Wang began to take care of Uncle Li's daily life. Accompanied by radiotherapy and chemotherapy again and again, learn how to care for daily ostomy mouthpieces, and make a light sick meal for Uncle Li. However, I still can't help but complain about what my life is, I can't help but nag Uncle Li about this bad habit of life, and when talking to others, he still has a very serious expression and is not liked. What about Uncle Lee? Because he pointed out Aunt Wang to live a life, he now became cautious, and he was usually reprimanded by Aunt Wang and did not say a word, but his appearance was getting better and better.
When Uncle Li found out rectal cancer, it was already in the middle and advanced stages, and the doctor said that if he recovered well after surgery, he could generally live for five years, and if he took good care of it, he could live longer. Of course, there is also a forty percent chance of spreading and dying. Aunt Wang often said that she would serve Uncle Li for the last few years and insist on it for a few more years, and anyway, Uncle Li would not have a few years to live. When he dies, he can do whatever he wants, and never be an old mother again. But in the final analysis, he still took good care of Uncle Li and even learned a lot of nursing knowledge. He also changed his tricks every day to make digestible meals for Uncle Li.
I think Aunt Wang still hopes that Uncle Li will live well, and maybe she will not resent Uncle Li for a long time.
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