First, you look down from the 80th floor, it is all beautiful, but you look down from the 2nd floor, it is all garbage, if people do not have height, all they see is problems, if people do not have a pattern, what they see is all frivolous.
Second, people can't completely think differently, because thoughts, experiences, senses, all different, just like I said that the sea is beautiful, but you said that many people have drowned.
Third, if your tolerance can not be exchanged for the gratitude of others, and your tolerance is not respected by others, then put away your kindness, keep a distance from the ungrateful people, and stop contacting the people who are inching forward!
When faced with two choices, flipping a coin always works, not because it always gives the right answer, but the second you toss it in the air, you suddenly know what you want it to be!
Fifth, life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten, people who really have a pattern can enjoy both the best and the worst.
Sixth, don't be too embarrassed about yourself, some people, it is not worth your heart and lungs; some things, do not need to be engraved in memory. Don't wait until you can't do anything to choose to go with the flow; don't be forced to go with the flow because you have nothing to worry about.
Seventh, first live your own life and make yourself better, so that people with the same frequency can see it. Even if you are ready, you must let yourself have better capital.
What we have to do should be done as soon as we think of it; for man's thoughts are subject to change, and as many tongues as there are, as many hands as there are, as many accidents as there are, as much hesitation as there is, how much delay there is.
Nine, in fact, a little afraid of people who are particularly enthusiastic at the beginning, the eyes of such people are usually easily attracted away, enthusiasm comes and goes quickly, and truly affectionate people are often not easy to express, because the water is always left in the depths to make no sound.
There is nothing in the world that will always belong to you, including the people you love the most, the children you raise, including your body, and eventually return to dust.
Many contradictions between people come from arrogance; they all feel that they are wiser than others, more knowledgeable than others, more correct than others, so they despise each other, and contradictions gradually arise.
Xii, some people say, tired, don't do it, all day long know to dry, because I understand, poor in the streets no one asks, rich in the mountains have distant relatives, do not believe you look at the cup of wine, cup first respect the rich, people have no money, not as good as ghosts, soup without salt, not as good as water.
Life is very realistic, when you are nothing, you can only bow your head and let others decide. And when you are strong to a certain extent, you have the opportunity to decide.
Some people say that if you really want something, let it go. If it comes back to you, then it will always be yours. If it doesn't come back, then don't wait any longer, because it's not yours at all.
If you have what others don't have, know what others don't know, and will do what others won't do, then be prepared: others will come to criticize you. If you want to stop criticism, then you may as well be a brainless, incompetent, wordless person.
Sixteen, look at people, do not use the eyes to see, easy to see away from the eyes, let alone with the ears to listen, because it may be a lie. As long as you use time and heart to feel, the real can't be fake, and the fake can't be true.
Seventeen, the real strong people in life, are those who, after seeing the helplessness of life, still choose not to be perfunctory, not to complain, not to be inferior, still love life, and strive to do everything well!
Accept loneliness, accept loss, accept that you are incomplete, and occasionally be defeated by change. Maybe acceptance is difficult to swallow, but when you can't bear it, learn to let yourself go. There are only people in the world who can't think straight, and there is no road that can't be walked.
It is not that there is no water in the well, but that it is not dug deep enough; it is not that success comes slowly, but that it gives up quickly. It takes wisdom to get something, and it takes courage to give up something.
Without inner peace, there is no external peace. Between the ups and downs of life, there will always be some feelings that need to be quietly reminisced; there will always be some pain that needs to be experienced alone; there will always be a road that needs to be walked alone; there will always be some things that need to be faced calmly.
Second, life is very short, there is no need to be too calculating with life, some things can not be understood, do not understand; some people can not guess thoroughly, do not guess thoroughly. Life will not change because of your complaints; life will not change because of your sorrow. You cry, life does not shed tears; you suffer, life does not bother. If so, why not smile? If this is the case, why bother? Life is in the world, happiness is a lifetime, sorrow is also a lifetime, why not look away, be happy.