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Recently, Huang Lei's family has been watched again.
The reason is that someone shared a photo of Huang Lei's family visiting Universal Studios Beijing.
In front of the camera, the family of four is happy and harmonious, but only the figure of the 15-year-old daughter Duoduo is missing.
Some netizens immediately saw the stitches and needles, seized this opportunity to speak without scruples:
"Definitely because of that incident, Huang Lei no longer brings Duoduo to public occasions."
This sentence reminds Uncle Shan of the "Huang Duoduo Library Incident" some time ago.
Although things have passed for a while, but open Baidu search, related terms still pop up.
With just a picture and a few chat records, onlookers began to slander a lot and spread rumors.
She said she was dating the opposite sex in the library and was then found out and expelled from school.
It was even mentioned that Huang Lei wasted a lot of thoughts in order to suppress this matter, and lost more than 10 pounds.
Uncle Shan had thought that this kind of nonsense would not be believed by anyone.
But public opinion quickly fermented, and Huang Lei's family had to report to the police.
The school also clarified that it had not been expelled.
But things, still out of control.
Between their lines, it seems to reveal this sentence:
Look, this is the truth of the matter, and Dodo is indeed "guilty."
The 15-year-old duoduo is indefensible and gradually fades out of the public eye.
Huang Lei's family also no longer publicly shares interesting facts about Duoduo and other children.
Because I was scared.
Afraid that the child is once again in the whirlpool of public opinion, afraid that he cannot do anything.
02
Did you find out? Almost every once in a while.
We will witness a man being pushed down a depression from a high place where he had been standing.
Remember the movie "Jing Ke Thorn Qin King". There is such a classic fragment.
Under the fire of war, the children of the royal family were cornered and could only jump off the city tower.
One, one, one...
The front is pushed down, and the back is immediately pushed up.
It was like a spectator's.
Toto is one of them, and who, again, will be next.
There is Zhang Hanyun in the front and Xin Zhilei in the back.
Zhang Hanyun, 16, was supposed to be a star, but was hidden in the snow for several years because of a synthetic nude photo.
The 35-year-old Xin Zhilei was praised for her acting skills, but she was angrily reprimanded for eating a bowl of stinky tofu.
The media followed the shooting scene of Xin Zhilei's new drama, and the shooting required Xin Zhilei to eat stinky tofu while playing against the scene.
After the director shouted to stop, Xin Zhilei naturally spit the food in her mouth into the hands of the staff.
Seeing this scene, some people can't help but say, "The wrist is not big, the shelf is not small, and it should not be hot." ”
He even shifted to his appearance, saying that the goldfish mouth and the big cake face shouted "Xin Zhilei, you should quit the circle!" ”
They don't want to know the truth of the matter, all they need is a head start.
Huang Yi, 43, was just partying with friends and was slapped between jokes.
They said, "I don't keep the way of women."
Yu Shuxin, dressed in a lace stage suit when attending the party, is obviously a misplaced design of a bandeau.
However, it was criticized by netizens for wearing erotic underwear performances, "vulgar" and "unruly".
There are even people who rise to the adjective of peripheral women and tertiary film bar dancers.
You see, there are always people who want to gain a very high sense of self-satisfaction by criticizing right and wrong.
This phenomenon can be well explained in one sentence.
People, no matter who they are, can't see everything in real life.
Most people can only see what they want to see and what they want.
03
Ever heard: Neighbors have an axe in doubt?
Once the gossip comes out, people can't help but use their imagination.
And this kind of thing, falling on ordinary people, is even more terrifying.
Some time ago, Uncle Shan saw such a post on Zhihu.
A high school boy, because of the shower, wiped the prickly heat powder on the bed, and was photographed by his roommate.
During the summer vacation, the group of photos was sent to their class group, and the class group's avatar was changed to his one.
Soon, their class began to say that he was a womanizer, as evidenced by the picture...
He couldn't argue with it, and after the school started, the whole grade knew.
Everyone started calling him perverted, girly.
Seriously, rumors can not only ruin a person, but also force a person to die.
Also, a left-behind woman in the countryside.
A woman in the village vomited because she had a cold stomach and went to the hospital to see a doctor.
As a result, a passing neighbor said she was pregnant and came out of her mouth.
Not long after, she heard that someone had witnessed other men in her house who often went.
One noon passed and the story turned out to be that a man had a relationship with her last month.
The man who worked outside the home knew about this and clamored to divorce her.
But "Really see it?" "What does it look like?" "Who saw it?".
Under repeated questioning by the women, they said that no one saw it.
The atmosphere was suddenly quiet, and for a long time, no one spoke.
"Unknown full picture, not evaluated".
Rumors are also a knife that hurts people invisibly.
These people will never know what their accusations bring to others.
If only these people could devote even ten percent of their time to blaming others to reflect on themselves.
Maybe many tragedies are not happening.
04
Camus says in The Stranger:
"I know I have no place in this world, but why do you judge my soul?"
No one can blame or criticize anyone at will.
You know, without the suffering of others, do not persuade others to be good.
The 15-year-old Toto should have grown up in the sunshine.
She was sensible, talented, and brilliant at a young age.
But because of the unwarranted scandal, he did not dare to expose it to the media.
The harm caused by those words may accompany her for the rest of her life, and it will be indelible after all.
As the saying goes, those who are virtuous prosper, and those who are stronger perish.
But what will happen to this society if it is arbitrarily attacked in the name of morality?
Every word and deed we say is misinterpreted.
Will we be the next victim again?
You know, stupid people often show brazen violence.
So don't be the perpetrator, and don't be the snowflake before the avalanche.
At the end of the article, light up "like" and forward it, may we all have clear minds and do not stand on the high ground of morality as a perpetrator!