In the past, there was a kind of betrayal called "one cry, two troubles, three hangings", and now, betrayal has become "one cry, two troubles and three tears each other up".
This matter changed when it was placed on Zhu Mei: the capital was gone, and there was no way back.
Who is Zhu Mei? Jin Yong's ex-wife, known as the talent of Xiangjiang, a woman who accompanied her husband to fight in the most difficult years, and then left in betrayal.
Lin Yanni's evaluation summed up Zhu Mei in place, and her words were concise and concise:
"Jin Yong's second wife, Zhu Mei, is a strong woman who fights with him, beautiful and capable, and they gave birth to two sons and two daughters. Maybe the hero is also commonplace, less mutual appreciation in marriage, plus other reasons, and finally broke up. ”
But what are the other reasons? I am afraid that it is ironic to say: it is nothing more than Jin Yong's heroic shortness in front of the beauty, and he has betrayed the wife of the chaff for more than twenty years.
Of course, Mr. Jin Yong has now passed away, and more criticism is unfair. But for whatever reason, Jin Yong met Lin Leyi in his marriage to Zhu Mei and then lived with her privately for ten years.
For a woman, if it is not a betrayal, but there is no love in the marriage, so it is the next strategy, it can only be said to be nonsense.
I believe that all women have heard a saying: if you love, please love deeply, if you don't love, please don't hurt.
Zhu Mei is innocent, she has spent her life's efforts, only in exchange for the end of being betrayed, and based on this alone, Jin Yong can hardly escape her guilt.
Some people say that this also complains about Jin Yong, when Zhu Meiti's divorce, the two people even wrote a divorce agreement, Jin Yong is still hesitating: "We don't want to divorce." ”
However, Zhu Mei did not agree, and Jin Yong told Xu Gehui about this matter at that time: "But she did not accept it, she said that she had left the capital and would not turn back again." ”
Therefore, many people say that this is not Jin Yong's desperate love, but Zhu Mei's temperament is too strong, and her self-esteem is too strong. If she had taken a step back, the marriage might have survived, and it wouldn't have ended in a lonely end.
Maybe, but there is a kind of pain that mourns more than heart death. Is it wrong to be tough?
When Jin Yong first fell in love with Zhu Mei, he already knew that she was as strong as fire, and he knew that she was firm and persistent, but he chose to love each other and chose marriage.
After more than twenty years, do you say that because of such a personality, we can't continue to get married?
This is not a punch in the face. Even if you fight, you can openly file for divorce, why should you fly a flag behind your back, but your home is dead silent?
Of course, marriage is a pair of shoes with exclusivity, and whose shoes can only be worn by themselves to know whether they fit or not.
Perhaps Jin Yong felt dissatisfied in this marriage, but this is definitely not a reason for him to cheat.
A generation of jianghu grand masters, acting in a bright and upright manner, why should they secretly engage in unseemly things? This alone is enough to prove that Jin Yong and his people do not have the wisdom of a master.
Under such circumstances, Zhu Mei saw through marriage and love at the same time, almost even life also saw through.
She abandoned her husband and children, and even if she was lonely and lonely, she did not want to bother Jin Yong, including her children.
Many sources say that Zhu Mei was desolate and poor in her later years. In fact, Zhu Mei is not poor, but she is too bitter, and that suffering is interpreted by the outside world as poverty.
As everyone knows, this "poverty" is not material poverty, but the desolation of the spiritual world.
Jin Yong thought that giving Zhu Mei the shares of Ming Pao and the mansion would ensure that she would have no worries about food and clothing and live a worry-free life. However, Jin Yong had written down the love feud of the children of the jianghu, and he could not read Zhu Mei's inner vendetta.
This kind of hatred is not hatred of the other party to death, but hatred of life and things. This suffering is not living in poverty, but the bitterness of the inner world that sugar cannot alleviate.
The so-called emotional trauma is enough to make a person destroyed, Zhu Mei, such a woman who dares to love and dare to hate, after she has paid all her youth for love, when she sees the fact of betrayal, she does not hysterically quarrel with Jin Yong and tear each other up with Lin Leyi, which only shows one problem: she is desperate.
This is "mourning is greater than heart death"! Ten years of infidelity within a marriage, for any woman, it is a nightmare that dare not be revealed.
When Zhu Mei married Jin Yong, she lived a good life as a big lady, and she confronted her parents and reached this marriage.
She worked alone for several people to help her husband get his career back. She had children, both inside and out, just to let her husband concentrate on writing her own work.
The result? People are blatantly cheating because they are in a bad mood, and the other party is just a little girl who does not know a few big words and does not have a common language with them.
At that time, Zhu Mei also had ah, she was 11 years younger than Jin Yong!
The flow of years can not withstand the reality, Jin Yong derailed, and the outside world has interpreted the misfortune of this great talent in his married life and interpreted his inner torment. Even later, the media regarded his acquaintance and love with Lin Leyi as a good story.
On the contrary, no one felt Zhu Mei's heart. Her pain is not the loss of a man, not the loss of a great country, but after giving everything she has, all she gets is a sharp pain.
When Lei Chuanpo, the editor-in-chief of Ming Pao, got married, Zhu Mei and Jin Yong had already divorced, but they both attended the wedding as old acquaintances.
After the wedding, Jin Yong asked Zhu Mei, "Do you want me to send you home?" Zhu Mei calmly replied with three words: "No need."
Some people say that this is Zhu Mei's rigidity, and Jin Yong also said:
"I always wanted to be close to her, I wanted to help her, she refused, she didn't want to see me, I asked my son to take care of her, she didn't want to see her, she wanted to be independent, and after her death, a considerable amount of property was divided among three children." 」
Those who speak can be light and breezy, and those who listen may not just sigh.
Because some pain, some feelings are the same, Zhu Mei's inner despair is manifested in escape, she can't face Jin Yong and her children, and she can't face all her former colleagues and peers.
This can be called self-esteem on the surface, but the essence is that it hurts so much that I don't want to mention it again, and I don't want to look back. If the best way to repair a love injury is to stay away, then Zhu Mei is exactly that.
In fact, where there is any relief in the world, where there is forgiveness, but do not care, everything will return to zero.
But this cannot be done in Zhu Mei's place, because her life's hard work has been taken away, and she has been fiercely looked at by the world as a joke, and she has become the last fool to know about her husband's cheating.
With this feeling alone, Zhu Mei would never be able to forgive, nor would she be relieved. Jin Yong's so-called nostalgia for the past and help are all exposing the scars in his heart.
This kind of pain, has not been jin Yong's pen?
The world knows that Jin Yong has three marriages, and the first wife, Du Zhifen, is the wound of his life, because she betrayed him. This matter was not really faced until Jin Yong was old, and he did not want to mention it at all when he was young.
And Zhu Mei was exactly the woman who saved him from water and fire, but jin Yong used the same way as a reward.
If there is an afterlife, I am afraid that Zhu Mei definitely does not want to be the girl who abandons the world's "seeing righteousness and courage", right? This time, it was enough for her to never forget.
Shen Xicheng said in "Jin Yong's Past": "The failure of the second marriage is Jin Yong's painful 'spicy'", because he actually knows very well that his guilt for Zhu Mei will never be able to be smoothed.