"I don't want to be in love, I just want to get married." A female friend who has talked to three boyfriends put it this way.
Every time she recalled her past love, there was nothing but a bitter smile and a deep helplessness.
Sometimes she is lonely and knows how to fall in love.
I understand that if you want to fall in love, you must take the initiative to provoke the topic, but when you think of everything you are about to face after attraction, you are only left with "tired" in your mind, and you don't want to take the initiative anymore.
Don't want to experience the cold war with the people you love deeply, tearing the heart of the like, stinging the pain of the other party, feeling like breaking up when you quarrel, the fear that goes deep into the bone marrow makes people become like a madman who suffers from gains and losses.
Uncontrolled emotions, moods fluctuate with each other's state, are sweet and bone-eating tiredness.
She had doubted herself countless times: it was me who was not good enough to deserve him; it was my personality that was not good enough to be in love; it was that I did not deserve love.
These tirednesses outweighed the joy of love in her heart.
Sometimes, when I meet a very gentle person, I wonder if he is doing this to everyone.
Sometimes, when I meet a very handsome younger brother, I think it is in vain.
Sometimes, even if you like it, you will no longer be lonely and brave, and go to the soup to fight the fire.
The more experiences you have in love, the harder it is to take the first step.
She deeply experienced the end of a story, which can be summed up in five words: people change.
The source of couples quarreling sometimes is simply: every day I am taking out the garbage, and you are always lying down to sleep; every time I go to buy breakfast, you wait to eat; every time I come to boil hot water and cook, you wait for me to do it.
Because I like you, so I have to work hard and complain?
No matter what the relationship, the love is exhausted, and the fate comes to an end. --Yang Dai
The source of the cold war between couples is that no one will take the initiative to bow their heads, even if it is only a small thing.
In a family, there must always be someone to dominate, and the essence of human beings is competition, in order to dominate, do not give in to each other.
Love exists only for a moment, and after that, it is more of a game between men and women. --He Jiong
Because of attraction, I started a relationship many times, but the reason for breaking up and the reason for arguing are always similar.
Every time as long as what he said was wrong, he would mention breaking up, once or twice a dozen times, and he finally agreed.
No amount of liking can withstand the threats again and again.
As you get older, the more conditions are attached to the relationship, but I still hope that you can face love with a pure heart.
Experiences will make people grow, but they should not be withdrawn, and they should not become sharp.
Everyone will meet the one who belongs to themselves, and remember to cultivate themselves well before that.