A colleague in the office broke up.
This girl, she and her boyfriend have been in love for seven years, she has always thought that each other is about to achieve the right results, however, she is not waiting for the other party to marry her, but just a breakup, he likes someone else.
Once upon a time, during these seven years, her friends had always advised her to marry earlier, lest the other party would not want to marry her when the time came to fall in love for a long time, but she had always expressed disbelief in such a statement.
She always thought that they had been in love with each other since college, that the other was very serious about her, and that they would not break their original promises.
I didn't think, as a result, they were not exempt from the vulgarity, did not escape the love for a long time, but only went to the fate of breaking up.
There seems to always be a saying in love, love talks for too long, often easy to break up, this sentence many people may express disbelief, but in fact, it is also very realistic, but also very reasonable.
Between men and women, no matter how attractive they are to each other at the beginning, how sweet the love is, how good the shan menghai oath is, with the passage of time, your likes will still only become weaker and weaker.
In the first year, you will only have a little lighter, but there will be a lot of likes, and in the third year, you have not felt much about each other, and some are just used to being with each other.
When you spend more time together, it goes without saying that everything will only become more flat, leaving only chai rice oil and salt.
At this time, if you don't have any other thoughts about each other, still cherish this feeling, and are still willing to be responsible for each other, then even if you don't love much, you can still get married and give each other an explanation.
But if you all feel that there is no point in being together, or that one of you has begun to be distracted, and has begun to no longer want to go with the other party, but has begun to look for other people, then your blandness is naturally easy to lose to passion.
So, as the mind is gone, as someone else appears, you will break up, of course, it is normal.
Two people together, the moment you choose to be together, maybe all aspects of you are quite matched, but that does not mean that in the future, you will still be like this.
If, during the years you have been together, if one of you has progressed faster and become a better self, while the other party has always stayed in place, then it is easy for you to disagree.
It is very likely that at that time, your three views are no longer the same, your cognition is no longer similar, and when you get along, you can no longer be as comfortable as you were at the beginning, and you will always be nervous, and even unable to communicate.
And when you gradually become people of two worlds, you may be able to go on together, but it requires a lot of determination, and you also need to have a good tolerance for each other, and to a certain extent, you can reach a balance.
More likely, you both feel very depressed and don't want to continue the relationship, or the faster party doesn't want to go back at all, and then directly proposes to break up.
Although this may seem a bit cruel, the truth is often like this, evenly matched, the relationship will be easier to last.
Getting married, it's never been a difficult thing, but just take a little time to get a marriage license.
Normally speaking, in a relationship, if you really like each other and want to go with each other to walk the road of the future, then you will not drag each other all the time, and you will only complete the marriage early.
Too many feelings, when you have been in love for a long time, but never ushered in the day of marriage, perhaps for you, at least one of you has never recognized this love, and has not really thought about getting married.
Because I am not sure, I have always wanted to look at it again, I have always been just procrastinating on the matter of marriage, and I have always continued to look for someone I really like and willingly want to get married.
If you can't find it, you may still get married, but even if you can't find it, you may not be able to really get married, because some people, even if they don't get married, will not enter into marriage with people they don't want to get married.
Such a person makes a clear distinction between love and marriage, and it is okay to fall in love, but marriage must be truly approved by oneself.
After years of love, seven years, ten years, fifteen years, there are still marriages.
It's just that more couples, the longer they talk, the more bleak the end is, and there is no good ending.
After all, there are too many temptations in this world, and not everyone can truly love and never forget their original intentions.
Therefore, when you are in love, you can't be too anxious, just know and want to get married, but you must not talk about love endlessly, and don't mention marriage at all.
Too fast, you will not see the person clearly, too slow, but you are very likely to lose that person.
Basically, being in love for half a year to a year, understanding clearly, you can consider getting married.