Man, like a "submarine".
In the sea called "Night", it is unrestrained and aimlessly open.
The four seasons change, and the sun and moon rotate.
At night, every day comes on time.
Whenever this happens, the emotions that are placed in the "submarine" will be spread out by the cover of the night.
Nowhere to put it.
01. At night, people are always unhappy
Circle of friends, the spiritual corner of contemporary people.
Here, we use text, pictures, music, and videos to share dynamics and express emotions.
Especially late at night, the circle of friends is particularly attractive.
It allows everyone who is busy and running during the day to press the "pause button" and then use this gap to breathe.
Yang Zi is also one of them.
In a certain show, several guests gathered together to talk about topics related to the circle of friends.
At this time, Li Xueqin told others that she, like most people, had a circle of friends set for only three days.
Talking about why, she explains:
"Because of this, I always send some very strange words in the middle of the night, I feel very ashamed, but I feel that deleting it is a betrayal of myself, that is, I was at that time, so I can see it for three days, and I leave myself in the same state as I was then." 」
Li Xueqin's words reminded Guo Qilin of his friend Yang Zi:
"I found out that Yang Zi was brought by you, and her thoughts are the same as yours now."
In this regard, Li Xueqin did not deny:
"Yes, Yang Zi was originally quite optimistic about a child, and now in the middle of the night, she begins to write sad literature."
After this clip was broadcast, many netizens saw their own shadows from Yang Zi and Li Xueqin.
Look, even the bright big stars in front of people can't escape the "EMO law" in the middle of the night.
After all, under the dazzling aura, the essence of man is still man.
Since we are human beings, it means that we cannot escape the seven passions and six desires and exist alone.
Think of a sentence written by Murakami Ryu in "The Lonely Foodie":
"The reason I'm obsessed with this guy is because we've decided not to see each other again. Fantasies make up stories, and stories breed sadness. ”
Late at night, it is the switch of the story.
With a gentle press, those who, in the daytime, were suppressed by the emotions that were suppressed hard, and did not dare to miss them, poured out.
So, why are you always easy to be unhappy at night?
Not because,
People who miss, not around.
No one listens to what they want to say.
The hug you want is always out of date.
02. The words spoken at night are very sincere
Not long ago, I received a very interesting submission in the background.
Reader Milk Tea without sugar told me that in her WeChat, such a phenomenon often appears.
When the night comes, the ads in the circle of friends will gradually become less and less, and instead, some real emotional venting.
In addition, there are occasional chat boxes that pop up.
What's even more interesting is that whenever the day comes, open the circle of friends again, and you will find that those sad circles of friends are all gone.
It may be deleted or made private.
In short, they disappeared, as if they had never been there.
And the WeChat messages in those chat boxes are also tacitly displayed as withdrawn.
Seeing this, I thought of a possibility.
So I asked her if the person who messaged you at night liked you.
No sugar added did not admit, did not deny, she just replied to me: How do you know?
It's actually quite simple.
"Liking is the truth, saying it is a big adventure."
The man hiding in the night was just going through a big adventure with his heart.
However, the words are sincere, the fear of failure, the fear of being trampled, it is inevitable.
Be careful, tangled.
In the end, the courage was taken away, and the withdrawal button was clicked.
Think of "Send You a Little Red Flower".
In the movie, Wei Yihang, played by Yi Yanqianxi, is suffering from cancer.
Illness plagued him, leaving him unhappy.
But the people around him often make him feel that his life, in addition to misfortune, is full of small red flowers.
Wei Yihang grew up in a loving family, in order to treat him, his parents worked hard to make money and save money.
They will argue with people because of 5 parking fees, and they will also sell their houses, secretly drive a car on weekends, and subsidize their families.
That day, Wei Yihang chatted with his mother.
Mom told him that she had been afraid of many things since she was a child, afraid of the dark, afraid of small bugs, but now, the only thing she was afraid of was losing him.
What about Wei Yihang?
At that time, because of his illness, his perception of the outside world was weak, and fear had long been common for him.
Until he met Ma Xiaoyuan, a girl with cancer like him.
She used her optimism, with her uniqueness, with Wei Yihang, to experience a different world.
After this, Wei Yihang finally understood what he was afraid of:
"I'm a person who likes to walk side by side, I have to shrink into the last row on the bus, I don't want to connect with anyone, I'm afraid that I'll die just by pulling out my heart."
At night, we were all Wei Yihang.
Without exception.
03. Someone cares, it is the night that is possible
Many years ago, Wu Bai said such a sentence on a variety show:
"I am a wandering spirit on the street, and you are the one who smells me."
At night, we become a wisp of "wandering spirits."
There are all kinds of smells, there is joy, there is loneliness, there is indifference, there is longing.
Every smell is emitted in order to be able to attract, really understand it, and care about its kind.
It's like a circle of friends reminder.
The appearance of red dots is always more attractive than the number, which makes people excited.
It turns out that the simplest happiness in this world is nothing more than:
"What you say, someone listens, the thoughts you express, someone understands, you love someone, you love a lifetime." 」
Or Yang Zi.
In the female monologue drama "Hear Her Say", Yang Zi played a girl living in a single-parent family, Xiaoyu.
Before she was even born, her father betrayed her mother.
The betrayal of the husband, the hardship of raising the child alone, gradually destroyed Xiaoyu's mother.
She became extreme as a result, and day after day, her life was occupied by hatred.
And all this, the only bearer, is only a light rain:
Mom would look through Xiaoyu's diary every day and know her every move;
In Xiaoyu's favorite drink of eight treasure porridge, pesticides were placed in an attempt to commit suicide by drinking medicine with her;
Take a light rain to your husband's unit and home to make trouble;
......
Xiaoyu's mother's life, because of a wrong person, was ruined.
And Xiaoyu's life was also forced to be destroyed because of her mother's obsession.
Unfortunately, Xiaoyu is not like Yang Zi, she will not vent her emotions through the circle of friends.
She just studied very, very hard to get into a university far away from her mother and get out of her control.
However, it still failed.
Even in college, her mother still called her countless times, breaking up her and the people who loved her deeply.
Her helplessness, her despair, can only be alleviated by crying in the middle of the night:
"I don't have friends, I'm not happy at all, I don't dare to cry in front of you, I only dare to cry secretly myself."
"I wanted to be able to be the protagonist in the movie and have a superpower so I could go back 26 years and kill myself."
If at this time, someone could give her a shoulder and listen to her silently.
How nice.
04.
"The longest road, there is also an end, the darkest night, will also greet the morning."
At night, someone shed tears.
At night, there are ephemeral flowers that open up secretly.
Night, eventually, will be overtaken by the sunrise.
hope:
"Your happiness has not lacked an audience, and I hope that your innocence is truly understood."
Don't be sad for too long.
Don't wander around at night for too long.
Click "Watching" and go to bed early.