His wife is an associate professor at Tsinghua University, her husband is a professor at Renmin University, and her children go to Tsinghua Elementary School. Do you think the children who come out of such a family are ordinary people?
Liu Yu, a professor at Tsinghua University, gave a lecture called "Uncertain Times, the Value of Education". In her speech, she discussed parents' educational anxieties and success anxieties from the perspective of a parent. Because they are too eager to succeed, parents are caught in a kind of "stampede competition" in education investment, and for the so-called success, everything other than education is blocked.
Professor Liu Yu felt that such a situation was really not good at all. She even used her own daughter as an example, saying: "My daughter is becoming an ordinary person unstoppable!" ”
But what are the facts?
We all know that Tsinghua University is very powerful, and what is even more powerful is that as the daughter of Professor Tsinghua, she can not only attend the kindergarten, affiliated primary school and affiliated middle school affiliated to Tsinghua University from a young age, but also receive further high-quality education in the future. And these, for real ordinary people, are out of reach.
Therefore, the ordinary people that Professor Liu Yu understands are not the same as the ordinary people in reality, and the real ordinary people are exhausting everything to have a home, trying their best to find a school for their children, and doing their best to let their children have a way out without being left too far behind by their peers.
Professor Liu Yu's speech may indeed be to alleviate the anxiety of parents, but her chicken soup for the soul that relieves educational anxiety, as we who are really ordinary people, listen to it, we should work hard not to relax, and those who should cheer can not be discouraged.
For Professor Liu Yu's statement, it is more in line with the mother of Liu Yuanyuan, the champion of the "Speech Conference", Liu Yuanyuan was at the bottom of her grades when she was in junior high school, but she often said: "I want to take the Peking University!" Mother Liu advised her daughter: "That is too difficult, Peking University is not something that people in us places can get into, that is the matter of geniuses!" ”
In Liu's mother's view, her daughter's grades are not good, the family conditions are not good, she should not go to tsinghua Peking University, these famous schools, should be their own duty to take a similar university, after graduation to find a job that can support the family, and then marry and have children, live a peaceful and stable life.
Liu's mother's original intention is definitely good, she does not want her daughter to be too tired, nor does she want to put too much pressure on her daughter, and does not want her daughter to be anxious for life.
However, life is really not to think of not being anxious can not be anxious, today's young people have to face too much pressure, emotions, family, marriage, employment, etc., all aspects of the pressure to the young people smashed over.
According to statistics, there will be 8.74 million undergraduate graduates in 2020, and even more than 9 million in 2021, and the pressure of employment competition will be increasing.
At the same time, it is not easy for students at the middle and high school levels, although they do not face employment pressure, they will face a kind of pressure that is greater than the employment of college graduates, that is, the "diversion" after the end of the middle school entrance examination.
"Diversion" is to solve the increasing employment pressure of college graduates, as well as the reality of the difficulty of recruiting manufacturing enterprises, a policy proposed, roughly means that junior high school graduates are diverted after the end of the middle school examination, some people read high school, some people read vocational education, to achieve "vocational education and ordinary high school is roughly equivalent" situation, in order to alleviate the competitive pressure of the college entrance examination and the employment pressure of undergraduate graduates.
However, for this model, many parents show concern and do not understand the reference to "generally equivalent occupations".
Professor Yao Yang of Peking University also said that children who graduated from junior high school are only thirteen or fourteen years old, and if they cannot read high school, they must enter the society in advance, which is too early to divert the flow in advance, which is not conducive to the growth of children and the development of manufacturing.
In the view of Professor Yao Yang and parents, the result of premature diversion will cause young people to stratify, and the purpose of education is not to stratify, and some children cannot be eliminated in advance in education.
However, according to Professor Liu Yu's point of view, she believes that education is to stratify, she does not understand why some ordinary people do not understand this truth, she gave an example, most of her children's classmates and parents are also Tsinghua Peking University graduates, almost at least 985 University graduates.
Professor Liu Yu said that in such a class, although each child is excellent, but put together is almost the same, everyone can only see the first place, the second place of the sense of existence is much lower, this is the stratification of education.
Compared with the views of Professor Liu Yu and Professor Yao Yang, the latter is more easily accepted by most parents, for ordinary children, the middle school entrance examination and the college entrance examination are an important way to change their destiny, although the competition is fierce, but everyone should work hard to fight and study hard.
Perhaps, some people will say that some junior high school students have poor academic performance, rather than going to high school to "mix days", it is better to go to vocational high school early and learn a skill.
In fact, many junior high school students do not study well, not because they do not work hard, nor do they have a bad attitude, mainly because they do not master the method, which is the biggest problem faced by most students.
Just like Liu Yuanyuan, she can go from the bottom of junior high school to become a graduate student of Peking University, relying on summarizing a set of efficient learning methods.
In order to improve her grades, Liu Yuanyuan only slept for 6 hours a day, walked either memorizing words or recalling wrong questions, the first to enter the classroom, the last out of the classroom...
At her insistence, Liu Yuanyuan finally realized her dream of being admitted to Peking University.
From a cold student to a bully at Peking University, Liu Yuanyuan's biggest feeling is that it is actually important to immerse herself in hard study, but the learning method is more important, and when you find the rules and methods, you can easily do more with less in learning.
Yang Kaitai, a senior teacher at Huanggang Middle School in Hubei Province, verified Liu Yuanyuan's words with practical practices and relied on it to cultivate many outstanding students.
Yang Kaitai attaches great importance to cultivating students' learning methods, he found that peer communication is more effective, especially those who have been admitted to Tsinghua Peking University and other famous schools, the experience shared is easier to convince students, but also easier to stimulate motivation, so, Teacher Yang often asks the graduated students to return to the school to share experience and learning methods, the effect is very good, that year one of his classes was admitted to 5 Tsinghua, 4 Chinese University of Science and Technology, more than a dozen 985.
In order to benefit more people, Teacher Yang Kaitai summarized the experience and learning methods shared by these North China University bullies, and compiled a series of books such as "Waiting for You in Tsinghua Peking University" and "Notes on North China University Bully".
"Waiting for you in Tsinghua Peking University" and xueba notes made Liu Yuanyuan very agree, she felt that the learning skills, memory strategies, mentality adjustment methods shared by the book masters were very helpful to students in elementary, junior high school, and high school, and under the guidance of such a set of books, students would definitely form good learning habits.
Not all parents can let their children lie down and win, and not all children can be lucky to find books that help them, parents should use the advantages of vision and vision to help their children choose a set of good books that can really help.
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