When we began to enter the learning career when we were young, the school we heard most often was Tsinghua Peking University, and the elders often said a sentence when praising their children's cleverness and cleverness, "After being so smart, we will definitely take the Tsinghua Peking University." From this sentence, admission to Tsinghua Peking University has become the dream of many people in the student era, but is Tsinghua Peking University really so easy to get admitted?
When a real score is placed in front of the child, many children have to admit that "their grades are far from enough", then in the face of the elderly with expectations in the family, the child usually feels guilty and uneasy, and under the emotional fluctuations, he will do a series of wrong things.
Recently, a Guangdong student was caught in a storm.
On that day, the town of Tiaofeng in Leizhou City, Guangdong Province, was full of festive atmosphere, the sound of firecrackers at the intersection was continuous, and the residents' faces were also full of proud smiles, and in the smoke of the firecrackers, they could see a banner hanging on the telephone pole, which read "Warm congratulations to student Cao Mou on his admission to Tsinghua University."
It turned out that someone in the village was admitted to Tsinghua University, and got the admission letter issued by Tsinghua University, so the family issued firecrackers to pull banners to celebrate, and the residents were also happy because there was a Tsinghua University student in the village, only to see that Cao's father had already paid money to prepare for the banquet, and invited the four parties to celebrate his son's admission to Tsinghua University, but what happened next made him a little unimaginable.
It is a happy event that a child in the village has been admitted to Tsinghua University, and the village cadre Zhu Mou is also very happy after knowing it, so he sent this news to the government work group, but when other colleagues saw the words on the admission letter, they found a trace of strangeness, and the colleague found that there was a typo on the admission letter! The probability of this happening is very low, which makes him feel that something is wrong, so he contacted the staff of the Education Bureau, and after verification between the two sides, he found that Cao's admission letter was fake!
Then the colleague told Zhu mou, let Zhu mou quickly pull down the banner, put the firecracker stop, this is likely to be a farce, to minimize the impact, Zhu heard the colleague's words, feel a little dare not believe, how can any child dare to do this? So he went to Cao's house to ask Cao, Cao initially claimed that it was given to him by the class teacher, in order to confirm this statement, Zhu also ran to the class teacher to verify, and finally found that everything was a farce, and Cao's father also canceled the banquet and other activities he was going to buy after learning that the admission letter was fake.
Then through the confirmation of relevant personnel, the author learned that Cao's college entrance examination score was actually 235 points, far from reaching the score line of Tsinghua University, and after the incident, Cao also realized his mistake, and claimed that he was under great psychological pressure, felt sorry for his relatives and friends, hoped that everyone could tolerate it, and then left the local area with his relatives.
After this farce appeared, it caused an uproar on the Internet, some people blamed the child for not understanding things, and some people blamed his father for not doing his duty, why blame him for not doing his job? How is the child's performance, as a parent, shouldn't he know more or less? The difference between the child's real score and the Tsinghua admission letter shows in disguise how deep the gap between him and his parents is.
1. Care about the growth of children
Children's growth can not be separated from the accompaniment of parents, if the child's growth process lacks the companionship and correct guidance of parents, then the child is very likely to be affected by some bad atmosphere on the Internet, the network is a double-edged sword, it brings convenience to people but also brings a lot of harm to those ignorant teenagers, so parents should give their children more companionship and care in the process of their children's growth.
2. Care about your child's emotions
Every age group, the child's psychology will have a big change, especially in adolescence, in this age range children in the network under the influence of the often more rebellious, lost the control of the parents, they may be more indulgent themselves, when the parents perceive the child's emotional abnormality, should give the child the correct guidance, rather than allowing the child to "grow freely".
3. Give your child appropriate encouragement
Many parents in the found that the child's academic performance is not good, often to the child's criticism, and even more will scold the child, which is extremely unfavorable to the child's growth, the child is in a bad performance mood low state, the parents' incomprehension is likely to accelerate the child's emotional collapse, then the parents should do should be to give the child appropriate encouragement, give the child the motivation to move forward.
Family education has a great impact on the growth of children, parents if they want to let their children "naturally grow" into talents regardless of whether they care, it is tantamount to a fool's dream, only when the child experiences setbacks, parents can give the correct guidance to let the child further, I hope that parents will pay more attention to it, do not let such farce repeat itself.