On the stage of strange talk, Zang Hongfei is a very distinctive debater.
He likes to grow a small beard and dirty braids, loose, natural, easy to emotional, proper artist temperament.
One of his most interesting points is that "as soon as the debate is in a hurry, it is not good to ask for it", but the audience likes to watch him in a hurry, which has become his advantage.
Recently, he has shined again on the debate stage.
In the face of the debate that "adult collapse should not be hidden", his performance is remarkable.
He first explained the idea of being careful with crashes in a humorous way, because in this digital age, your crashes are recorded minute by minute and made into earthy videos.
Then Zang Hongfei cleverly imitated a "successful hidden collapse" for everyone, such a performance was staged once after each episode, that is, the elimination declaration.
"Strange Story" for so many years, so many people have cried, so many people have collapsed, on this stage, you and I collapse are just the talk of others after dinner.
Obviously, what I thought in my heart was "these mentors and the audience are blind and even chose to eliminate me", and they also said: "Thank you, I am very happy to be able to get to this point, I have learned a lot in this process." “
Talent, this point is amazing.
Then he combined his own experience to show that the collapse is indescribable, and there are times when it is difficult to say why we collapsed. In this link, Zang Hongfei became serious.
Moving quietly, with atmosphere and inspiration, Zang Hongfei successfully lifted the audience's appetite with his ability to control the field.
At this time, he chose to release his big move:
In my mind, the "coolness" of adults is: run away for half a life, and come back without saying a word. This question for me, is not whether the adult collapse should be hidden, but I have collapsed, I can hide, I, finally, an adult. ”
As soon as his voice dropped, there was thunderous applause from the audience, and everyone felt like they were being poked.
Adult life is often confused, confused, helpless, the only thing that can be done is to survive. For the sake of breaking silver and for the sake of the family, I endured. When others care about you, you just laugh it off and say it's okay.
That kind of situation is similar to "a teenager does not know the taste of sorrow, and falls in love with the upper floor; but now that he knows the taste of sorrow, he says that the sky is cold and autumn."
Many things have not been personally experienced, it is difficult to understand the meaning and twist, only if you have tried it yourself, you will have a deeper understanding of things.
And you also know: there is no need to say, once you say it, you are wrong, others may not understand, it is better not to say.
You are a silent adult, being able to hide things is a sign of maturity, no matter how uncomfortable, you should not annihilate the smile on your mouth and the sunshine in your heart.
Running away for half a lifetime, it is too difficult to return to the teenager, at best, it is only a shallow smile after the vicissitudes.
The tribulations of life have long left your heart in tatters, and you don't even want to spend your energy on what to do again.
Instead of desperately trying to explain anything, it is better to let the past go with the wind, and quiet is a realm.
Zang Hongfei himself has suffered a lot of online violence, was all kinds of spit and ridicule, and what is valuable is that he was not knocked down, but walked out strongly.
"No matter how many people hate me, I don't shut up anymore, I'm going to keep saying it." I also said to those who scolded me, 'You are very tired from studying and working, and by scolding me, you have reduced the pressure, and I am very happy to reduce the pressure for you.' ”
Cai Kangyong praised him: "Nothing is better than seeing the real world and then becoming yourself, this is the coolest thing, so it doesn't matter if anything else is okay, just bear it." “
No one can easily spend a long life, and the advanced way of life is probably: to reconcile with themselves, to reconcile with fate, to fully accept their own situation, and not to complain about others.
Suffering in life is like salt, not much, not much, and we cannot ignore its existence.
What it tastes like depends on where we put it. It is bitter in a cup of water; it is as fresh as spring water when placed in a mountain spring.
For the pain you experience, if you choose to dilute, it will not be so painful; if you choose to cling, you will only hurt yourself.
In the confused world, we must know how to lower our expectations, release ourselves, and live to understand it when we stay up.
I like a passage very much: "The future is already doomed to be sad and sad, no matter how you live and go, you can't avoid it after all, you can't avoid it, it's like rain in the long ridge." “
There are some things we can't avoid, we can only bear, a "forget it", means to let go, means to mature.
Strange on the red dust, the flow of years is not alarmed, the years are the same. May you go through the vicissitudes of the world and still believe that the world is worth it.
As the writer Wang Er said: "The rest of your life is very long, and your climax should always be in the next kilometer." ”