Yesterday's "Strange Story" burned and exploded, and all the gods showed their magic, and the scene was chaotic for a while, because everyone tried to say a word for their own party.
Yesterday's debate was: Parents are touting teachers, do you want to follow the trend?
Most people think, don't follow the trend, the opening score is: 37-63.
Xiong Hao said that this debate is too trivial and is too small a thing in life. But we are not born human beings, not surrounded by all kinds of small things. Most of the things that bother us are small things in the eyes of others, and in our own case, it is a big thing.
Zang Hongfei has made great progress this season, and he wants to fast forward when he sees him before, and does not want to hear him roar. Now he learns to be funny and becomes soft and warm.
Fei Fei used a delicate story to depict everything a child faced on the day he walked into school. What parents can do to express their love for their children and resolve their worries.
He said: Such a small child, not much taller than the sweeping robot. He walked into the campus wearing a little yellow hat and carrying a large school bag, and we could no longer stand in front of him. What else can we do when he's inside and we're outside? The only place where you can contact your child and contact your teacher is this group of parents.
Then, he painted a silhouette of the majority of parents: in the group, parents scrambled to let the teachers see themselves, show their attitude at any time, I was very cooperative, there was something to find me. Anything that parents can do for their children can do.
He's right, parents can humble themselves to dust for the sake of their children.
When he said, the shortest warrior in the world, come on, you must come on! Tears in people's eyes, this sentence, poked at the heart of every parent. My heart was sour too.
These few words were soft and full of power, and even Song Dandan did not hold back and cried.
Parents are like this, for the sake of their children can be wronged themselves. Children are weak ribs, so that parents are soft in their hearts and dare not act rashly; children are also armor, so that parents become more powerful and willing to fight against the world.
The square has been saying, if you don't follow the trend, do you have to shout a pause and then sing the opposite tune?
Needless to say, such parents really have. In the parent group of a friend's family, there was such an incident:
Teachers solicit parents' opinions in groups through PTA members. The end of the semester is coming, buy some prizes for your children, and treat the effort of a semester. Mention that the titles of the most improved children, excellent students and three good students will be selected.
One parent stood up against it. He believes that this will hurt the self-esteem of children, rather than physical rewards, it is better to teach children why they learn, what help to the family, to society, and to the motherland. He thinks the appraisal is a mess and should be removed.
The other parents watched the drama silently, only the parents of the parent committee spoke to him bitterly. It shows that this is encouragement and support for children, so that children can learn more energetically.
In the end, the parent recognized the evaluation and thanked the brainstorming in the group.
I think this parent probably likes to debate too much, he may think that he is in the scene of "Strange Story".
In fact, not following the trend does not mean that you have to confront the teacher, but have your own small persistence in your heart.
Follow the trend, or not follow the trend, except to convey the teacher's notice, we will not say anything more to the child. We all hope that the child can be the one who does not follow the trend, and will not let the child see the compromise of himself.
The fawn said: By the time you know how to follow the wind, the outlet has passed.
Professor Liu Qing said: Following the trend is the insurance of rational people, and teachers do not need such insurance.
I am a child of a teacher and have a natural affinity for teachers.
Although some teachers made me realize the blind spots of the past, I still believe in teachers. I believe that the most important thing between people is equality and respect, and the same is true between teachers and parents. When the relationship between the two parties becomes unequal, when the parents face the teacher with a low profile, the teacher may not pay attention to it. When I encounter problems, I can't communicate with my teachers on an equal footing.
The endless stream of social news makes every parent become particularly anxious before their children enter school. I don't know what kind of teacherS I will meet, what kind of classmates I will meet, and whether my child can adapt to the new environment.
Some parents copy and paste messages with everyone, so that they can feel at ease and find a sense of security. They feel that doing so will help the child in school. Otherwise, if the child has a little grievance, a little wind and grass, the parents will blame themselves, is not their own failure to do it.
When we started school, the teachers made it clear that the parent group was the place where the notice was given and the homework was assigned. If you need to get a reply to the message, she will specifically state, please reply "received", or something. Other than that, please do not reply. So as not to occupy public resources and drown important messages.
The child is indeed the weakness we leave in the world, and the life of this warrior, only he can step by step, can he get out of the hall of fame.
Teaching children how to adapt to school, face teachers, and deal with classmates is the most helpful thing we parents can do. Of course, sincerely expressing our appreciation and gratitude to the teacher is a person's cultivation and decency.
Professor Liu Qing said: When touting becomes necessary, following the trend is ineffective. Flattery and humility can never be friends. We teach our children decency and let him learn so that we can have a decent society to end this mass panic.
And I agree with that.