Reading Chuang / Shenzhen Business Daily reporter Qi Qi
Since June 29, Sohu Video Parenting Talk Show "Kan Kan Er Talk" surprises come at 6 pm every Tuesday night, and novice dad Li Xiang and circle dad Zang Hongfei form a "want to red dad group" to start their own "Kan" journey.
What are the resonant topics at dads' first meeting? What kind of sparks will collide with different educational concepts and different parenting views?
△ Novice dad Li Xiang
△ Rolling circle dad Zang Hongfei
Although the "father's age" is different, the "Kan" child of the "Want to Red Daddy Group" is still full of joy and laughter at first sight. Whether it is Li Xiang, who is a new father, or Zang Hongfei, whose children have already entered junior high school, they all generously share their most authentic educational concepts.
The joyful atmosphere reached its peak after the addition of the roaring mother Cheng Lisha and the famous teacher Zhang Xuefeng, and everyone opened the conversation box in the happy mini-game, and the road of "Kan" also officially began from here.
As a hot topic today, how difficult it is for elementary school students to do homework has become the focus of discussion. Cheng Lisha, a 4th grade elementary school student, posted a math problem that seemed simple but made the fathers present confused.
△ Cheng Lisha posted a math problem
Zang Hongfei even laughed and blew himself up that he basically did not care about the child's learning, and "Versailles" showed off his son's good grades. The novice father Li Xiang began to be nervous about the child's future homework tutoring in advance, and also shared the strange circle of anxiety that his wife fell into because of the child's late opening, which resonated with Cheng Lisha.
As a person with full personality, Zang Hongfei's experiential baby method has aroused everyone's interest.
When his son proposed that he wanted to form a band, play rock and roll, or even drop out of school to play e-sports, he did not refuse through preaching, but chose to take his son to the real experience, let the son discover the difficulties behind those seemingly glamorous occupations, and the gap between himself and the goal. For three consecutive days, the band was live and pulled the group to let the e-sports coach evaluate the son's game level, and used equal communication to make the son realize his sloppiness and immaturity.
Of course, he did not stereotype these hobbies as a bad choice, but only hoped that his son could talk about hobbies after he was admitted to college.
△ Zang Hongfei's experiential baby method has aroused everyone's interest
When talking about interest education, Cheng Lisha, who has a lot of feelings, also expressed her views. She recalls that her son once fell into an inferiority complex because he could not join the hockey activities of his friends. As a parent, she believes she should take on some responsibility.
Behind the long-term hobby are the figures of parents, Cheng Lisha's son insists on learning boxing, because when he was a child, he was knocked down by his friends and asked to learn. It is true that good interest is a treasure that can accompany a child throughout his life, and the energy he puts in his childhood will also shine in the future.
△ Cheng Lisha talks about interest education
Finally, the appearance of the two parenting experts summed up and suggested for the fathers and Cheng Lisha, pointed out the key to solving the "assistive disorder" in a burst of blood, and guided everyone's fear of tutoring homework. As Li Xiang said, there may be new problems every day on the road to raising a baby, but not missing the growth of children is the greatest happiness for parents.
Using ridicule to reveal the difficulty of raising children, the seemingly light and humorous words of "Wanting Red Daddy Group" also resonated with the audience. In this moment, they take off the glamorous cloak of the aura of stardom and are just an ordinary father who will rejoice or distress his children. The collision of different educational concepts will allow the audience to see more parenting methods.
Don't run away from trouble, the solution is the only way. After all, the growth of children is inseparable from the careful companionship and patience of parents, and the role of fathers in the growth of children is also a crucial existence.
Review: Yu Fanghua