Author: Dan Yan Editor: Li Jin
Publisher: Marriage and Family Magazine
id:hunyinyujiating99
Middle-aged marriage, there are two directions, one is the passion gradually faded, such as the left hand holding the right hand, walking and walking will disperse. There is also a kind of old wine, the longer it is, the more mellow it is, such as Wang Han and Yang Lele.
Just a few days ago, this man was on the hot search again!
On March 26, Wang Han, the head of domestic goods, brought goods of Xinjiang long-staple cotton in the live broadcast room "Departure to the Beautiful", comfortable to the point of flying dialect, "Every day is a cloud picked..." The old cadre-style live broadcast, with full of positive energy, quickly appeared on the hot search.
The last time Wang Han was on the hot search, it was also related to live broadcasting.
In the live broadcast of Wang Han and Di Li Reba helping nong, a man with a work card suddenly rushed to the stage, knelt down on one knee and held a diamond ring to propose to Reba, frightening Reba hua to lose his color.
Looking at Wang Han's eyes quickly, he quickly grabbed the man's hand, and this reaction was also no one.
To tell the truth, a man like Wang Han, Xiaobian is to see a sour once, instantly transformed into lemon essence.
Xiaobian sour is Wang Han's impromptu reaction and excellent eloquence?
No, people envy the woman behind Wang Han.
Such a good man with first-class hosting skills, personable, and three views of super positive, where to find ah?
If you want to be dizzy, you have to see what kind of pet he has made his wife Yang Lele:
"It's a man's duty to hurt his wife, and he wants men to be only a playboy for one woman: spend time and mind on her." "Solo music is not as good as crowd music, and crowd music is not as good as Yang Lele."
Even, when meeting with international dignitaries, I did not forget to show my love: "It is possible that my wife is not the most beautiful woman in the whole world, but my wife must be the woman who makes me feel most comfortable and happy." ”
Who can stand up to such love words? So Mr. Wang and Miss Yang, are you admiring?
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The love of young people makes them know how to cherish it more
No one is born to love, and only after experiencing setbacks and unforgettable pain can we learn to cherish.
Yang Lele and Wang Han had each experienced an imperfect marriage.
Yang Lele's first marriage was with Xiao Quan. Xiao Quan is very talented and has been called "the best portrait photographer in China".
One is a simple college student who has never been in the world, and the other is a top photographer who has already made a name for himself in the ranks of photographers. This relationship that outsiders are not optimistic about, but Yang Lele loves moths to put out fire.
When you are young, you feel that love should be vigorous and earth-shattering, and you can do whatever it takes for love, and when the passion retreats, you find that quarrels, torture, and crying may also be a gift of marriage.
The two eventually cracked, and Yang Lele was exhausted.
Once, Wang Han just happened to bump into Yang Lele quietly crying in the elevator, and that scene touched him.
At this time, Wang Han had just experienced a failed marriage.
Coming out of the stage, Yang Lele walked alone on the street, and a light rain began to fall from the sky. Yang Lele suddenly found that there was an extra umbrella behind him, it was Wang Han.
Wang Han took the initiative to tell the story of himself and his ex-wife, and they also loved romantically and passionately. On Valentine's Day night, he drove for hours just to see her; the two had only a piece of chocolate, shared it, and then braved the heavy rain to drive back. She accompanied him through the most difficult period, but she could not go to happiness. After the divorce, the ex-wife sadly left overseas. Wang Han said sadly, maybe at that time, everyone was young, did not know how to resolve some contradictions, did not understand that fine water and long flow will last, and now I feel very sorry.
At the end, he patted Yang Lele's head, and his brother's words were heavy: "Lele, we must cherish the people in front of you!" ”
After chatting with Wang Han, Yang Lele was deeply infected, and she began to work hard to maintain this relationship, but she had no luck after all, and the marriage still came to an end.
In 2004, Wang Han hosted a new version of "The Covenant of roses", and Yang Lele became his working partner.
They were pleasantly surprised to find that they had a lot in common with each other, both liked small animals, liked to eat Hunan snacks, and liked simple life.
The same is the end of the world fell people, when they met, why should they have known each other.
Yang Lele had a special feeling for Wang Han. In the face of a good girl who feels sorry for each other, Wang Han is also moved. In one episode, he plucked up the courage to confess. He said: Although I have experienced a failed marriage, I am not afraid of love, I still believe in love! I am sure of my feelings for you, and I will have no remorse!
In Yang Lele's view, Wang Han has a gentle and delicate inner world, especially after experiencing the wind and rain, she still maintains her pure beauty yearning and persistent pursuit of love, which makes her heart flutter.
Love is something that makes each other grow, know how to reflect, and cherish the present more. Although both have experienced marriage, they are still not afraid of marriage, which is the attitude of striving for happiness.
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The best investment in marriage is to be a quality lover
Wang Han said that men are all a grain of dust at the beginning, because a girl accepted him and said "I love you" to him, so the dust had the power and turned into a small stone.
At this time, Wang Han understood more clearly that the best investment in marriage is to be a high-quality lover.
This relationship is no longer vigorous and the sea is dry and rotten, but plain and simple, and the water is long.
They casually drive themselves to explore the scenery and drive their cars through the country lanes of the suburbs.
Knowing that Yang Lele likes the music of Whitneyhouston and Macy Gray, Wang Han specially asked friends to bring back two sets of original CDs from abroad.
Knowing that Yang Lele has his favorite shoes but is too expensive to buy, Wang Han secretly bought them and put one on the 2nd floor of the home and one on the 4th floor.
Knowing that Yang Lele likes romance, on her birthday, a truck of fireworks was assembled and a romantic "fireworks party" was carefully prepared for her.
In addition to working hard to manage the marriage, the two are also very hard at their careers. Because of the pressure of work, in 2007, Wang Han suffered from liver disease, and Yang Lele shed tears in pain. In order to take good care of Wang Han, she made an important decision to return to her family.
Not all women have the courage to retreat at the peak of their careers, only because Wang Han gives her enough security.
Wang Han will always lose no time in mentioning her in the show, for example, in the "Every Day Upward" program, she made a "Happy Noodle" for her.
Speaking about long-distance relationships in Mars Intelligence, he said, "The moment she turned around, it was a long-distance relationship. ”
There is also the famous saying that "solo music is not as good as crowd music, and public music is not as good as Yang Lele." "It's a classic in the world of show love.
In 2014, the son of the two, Xiao Mumu, was born. When Yang Lele came out of the delivery room, Wang Han did not go to see whether he was a boy or a girl for the first time, but directly kissed his wife. The name Xiao Mumu is even more taken from the side of "Wang" and "Yang", and the flowing love cannot be hidden.
After having a son, in the matter of taking a baby, Wang Han is not like a lot of fathers who are busy with their careers, but pours full of love and time into their sons.
He specially reduced his work, set aside time every month to accompany his wife and children, and even spent 4 hours personally carving a wooden spoon for Xiao Mumu.
In terms of parenting, Wang Han has his own set, he once said bluntly: "I raise my son as a robber, savage his physique, and strengthen his heart." ”
In addition to accompanying children to learn the knowledge of various disciplines, he also taught Xiao Mu Mu the truth of being a person.
More importantly, Wang Han will carefully observe what kind of "seed" is buried in Xiao Mumu's heart every day, and then guide it with his heart.
Finding that Xiao Mumu is sensitive to language, he carefully recorded the vivid language used by the child when speaking.
Observing that the child is lively and active, I insist on taking the child to exercise.
When Xiao Mumu was 5 years old, he already had several abs!
Seeing that Mu Mu, who is more confident, optimistic and strong than his peers, countless netizens are crazy to like: the baby brought out by dad is different!
Andrei Moroa once said, "Love produces only happiness, marriage produces life." ”
Wang Han and Yang Lele's life is exactly like this, both romantic and tender, but also supporting each other; there is both a porridge and a meal of fireworks, and there is a sweet honey of honey.
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The marriage of middle-aged people should be more heartfelt
Middle-aged marriage, there are two directions, one is the passion gradually faded, the two like the left hand holding the right hand, so boring. There is also a kind of old wine, the longer it is, the more mellow it is, such as Wang Han and Yang Lele.
In life, not every woman is as happy as Yang Lele, and not every man can do Wang Han.
Marriage is particularly cruel to this middle-aged man.
I have heard a saying, don't talk about love with middle-aged couples, it all depends on the conscience to die. There are old and young, mortgages and car loans, and life is chaotic.
When he was young, there was still a fiery love. In old age, there is also the endorsement of the years.
Only middle-aged, there is no shop before the village.
Someone asked Wang Han if marriage is as beautiful as love, and having been with Lele for more than ten years, has he ever had any tired thoughts about her?
Wang Han's answer was impressive, he said: "If I had this idea, I would have been shot to death by her first!" Besides, I don't have that idea yet. ”
Because they often travel on business, gather less and leave more, the two especially cherish the good time together, they will also have a lot of small quarrels, but more choose to forget those unpleasant. There is a need to use some small wisdom and use some small brains.
Once, Wang Han received a call from Yang Lele while eating. Yang Lele said: "Husband, we have arrived, tomorrow morning at 7 o'clock in the morning plane." ”
Wang Han first said to his wife: "Madame has worked hard! Then he said to Xiao Mumu, "My son has also worked hard!" Mu Mu you have to be obedient, take good care of your mother, when you come back, your father will buy you a gift. "A short phone call was full of love and trust for his wife and children.
He and she, put every love into a smile, a little bit.
He Jiong once broke the news, once in the background, saw Wang Han rubbing his eyes, Yang Lele looked at him quietly, at that moment, "I don't know why, I am very moved." ”
Middle-aged couples, just like Yang Lan said in "Strange Story": In addition to love, there is also the righteousness of liver and gallbladder, the tacit understanding of not abandoning, the growth of common nurturing, and the unforgettable kindness.
Love is like a flame, at the beginning the flame is warm but unstable, a slight gust of wind can be extinguished, or such as a torch against the wind, too easy to spread wounded hands, only in the end, the flame stabilized, gradually into a better state, can warm people the most.
Just like them, on the one hand, she is Han Zele; on the other side, he is not as happy as Yang Lele.
In the world, everyone is an independent individual, we don't have to become Wang Han and Yang Lele, but we can all make a little progress every day, try to see each other's good, remember them, and remind ourselves all the time, love ta a little more, a little more.