Human marriage is predestined, but some are good karma, some are evil karma, evil karma, or slowly transformed into evil karma.
If it is destined to be a good fate and a good match for you, then, no matter how to grab it, it will not be taken away, and it will return to you;
If it is destined to be a sin, then someone will always appear and destroy your marriage. So is your marriage good or evil? Welcome to tell your story.
I also experienced a long-distance relationship with my husband, I graduated and went to work in the provincial city, my husband was still a boyfriend at that time, in his hometown, admitted to the civil service. Since he was admitted to the civil service, there have been some girls who have always pestered him, and relatives have always introduced him and provoked dissension between us. My boyfriend always complained to me, saying that so-and-so urged him to go on a blind date, and every time he didn't go, he offended many people. In the end, I want to rest assured that he will not change his mind. Later, I figured out that I had no background in the provincial city, and if I stayed, I would only work in the office building, so I might as well go back and reunite with my boyfriend. I was also admitted to the civil service in my hometown, and I was right with my boyfriend, and I got married smoothly, and no one provoked our relationship anymore. The lover who can be separated will not be a good match.
7 years with an ex-girlfriend and eventually broke up, which she caused by infidelity. Later met a girl who was younger and prettier than her ex-girlfriend, with a better career and education, and I was already an old man in my thirties. The first relationship consumed my heart and I didn't trust the girl so much. Once, having a fight with her girlfriend, she got angry and left. I didn't look for her again. I said in my heart, if it is my fate, let her come back by herself! One night I came back and saw a shadow downstairs in my neighborhood, it turned out to be her, she had been waiting for me to go home, the day before, a mad dog had sprung up downstairs in the community and bit people, I was very afraid, hugged my girlfriend, and said in my heart, the person I want to marry in this life is her. - It's your fate, will come back on its own.
The boyfriend is tall and handsome, has a good temper, has a good career, and is three years younger than me. There is a so-called girlfriend, who always chats with him privately, all kinds of seduction, and I am completely unaware of it, and I still think that she is a friend. The boyfriend couldn't stand it anymore, told me the original version of the matter, and showed me the chat history, such as "Do you really want to marry an old woman", "Are you not afraid of your parents' objections", "I promise to be better to you than her". Broke off relations with his girlfriend, also felt that he was very happy, and found a reliable boyfriend. It is your fate, and others cannot take it away.
With the boyfriend, there is also a run-in period, in the run-in period, there is a girl to take advantage of the void, the boyfriend has some hesitation, was detected by me. My personality was more hot, and I immediately moved out of the small house, resigned, and went to work in a place that my boyfriend did not know. Half a year later, my boyfriend found me, people have lost a circle, and one of my good girlfriends is really entangled by him, only to tell him my work unit and address, girlfriend said, such a good boy, if you miss, I am sorry for you. The boyfriend begged me to forgive him, and they all knelt down, saying that after I left, he realized how heavy my weight in his heart was, and no girl could replace it. In this way, we got back together and are now married, and I am quite relieved about him. - Is it your fate, going around, or will you find it back.
Breaking up with my girlfriend is because we are both willful and refuse to give in to each other. Later, she gambled away from me, and I lived alone for almost a year, ready to marry the blind date arranged by the family. Anyway, as long as the marriage partner is not a girlfriend, whoever changes it is the same, there will be no feeling of love. The girlfriend heard the news that I was going to get married, and found that we talked for a night, cried for a night, and found that each other had matured a lot, from the previous mutual accusations to the current self-reflection, the feelings were deeper. I announced my marriage, still with my girlfriend. Marrying the woman you love and marrying a woman you don't love are two completely different feelings of life.
I am a freelancer, in addition to a little talent, ordinary looking, but also chubby, smelly feet, sweat smell, but also lazy, but my wife just loves me, while calling me "stinky man", while taking care of me, my wife is bai fumei, before marriage after marriage, there are people who continue to pursue her, she is emotionally single-minded, single-mindedly treat me. ---------------------------------------
Xiao Dan Ding Dong Love Marriage Story: Thousand years of cultivation to sleep together, a good marriage is cultivated, to make a wide range of good relations, to be kind to people, to treat others with sincerity, naturally can inspire good karma. What can be robbed, just follow the fate, not necessarily a good fate; it is a good fate, no one can take it away.