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In August 2021, CCTV female anchor Xu Li officially announced the news of retirement, bidding farewell to the hosting work she has been doing for more than 20 years. For nearly 20 years, Xu Li has been the female anchor of CCTV's China News. It can be said that in the past 20 years, she has won the support of many audiences with her meticulous work style and never-wrong record.
On the TV screen, she is always so shrewd and capable, and she is full of enthusiasm for her work every day. The outside world does not know that she once had a divorce experience, after divorcing her husband, how did she live in remarriage? I believe this is also an unsolved mystery in the minds of many viewers.
Xu Li was born in 1961, and his father worked in the Logistics Support Department of the Hunan Provincial Military Region. It was not until Xu Li was 6 years old that his father's job was transferred, and the family settled in Changsha.
Coincidentally, at the age of 18, Xu Li signed up for Changsha Radio after graduating from high school, and stood out from more than 2,000 applicants and became one of the two lucky ones who were selected.
Most people in that era got married relatively early, and Xu Li was no exception. He married a soldier early, and later the family settled in Changsha for a long time, and only after 6 years did they have each other's children, and Xu Li also gave his son a breast name called "Pete".
Since the two had children, the two have often quarreled over the rice oil and salt in their lives. Xu Li has a cheerful personality and always speaks directly, while her husband appears gentle and honest.
In order not to let her son be wronged, Xu Li proposed a divorce from her husband. Although at first, this idea was not so urgent. But instead of taking the son to seek perfection, it is better to quickly cut through the chaos and cut off this marriage that has no emotional basis.
The year of the divorce coincided with the 10th anniversary of their marriage, and after the divorce, the son was taken care of by Xu Li.
After ending this relationship, Xu Li focused all her life on her son and career. Coinciding with the year of divorce, Xu Li's career also ushered in a major turnaround. The year of the divorce cctv's overseas transmission of programs, recruiting outstanding hosts across the country, Xu Li signed up under the recommendation of the taiwan leaders, and was lucky to be hired from the list of more than 300 candidates.
At the end of 1992, Xu Li took her son to Beijing and began a new life trajectory.
After entering the Beijing station, Xu Li was arranged to the position of the anchor of "China News", her hosting style is full of vitality, the words are magnificent, no matter what manuscript can be completed with ease after getting it, which is deeply loved by colleagues and audiences in the station.
At that time, the Beijing platform was not as perfect as it is today, so Xu Li's biggest headache was the housing problem for herself and her son. At first, Xu Li took her son to live in the dormitory for 4 people arranged by the unit. In order to stagger the cooking time with colleagues, every morning at 5:30, Xu Li got up early to cook for her son, and after a simple meal, she sent her son to the kindergarten and then went to work by herself.
Kindergarten generally at about 11:30 after school, Xu Li then hurriedly rode a bicycle to pick up her son, and then on the way will buy his son some small snacks that he loves to eat, and then lock him in the dormitory, so that he can go back to the desk to continue to complete the day's work, such a life law has been maintained for a long time.
Around the National Day in 1994, Xu Li, who had arranged for Ying Taili, was interviewed by Zhang Tianwei, a reporter from Beijing Youth Daily. The man was an authentic Beijinger, 3 years older than Xu Li, and had been divorced once before, because the nature of the work was similar, and the two talked speculatively.
In fact, before the two met, Zhang Tianwei had a good feeling for Xu Li, and through the mouths of colleagues around him, he learned about Xu Li's life embarrassment. Before meeting Xu Li, Zhang Tianwei was full of pity for this woman's life, especially after the two met, Zhang Tianwei found the answer, maybe this is love is not accurate.
After the interview, Zhang Tianwei originally wanted to invite Xu Li to a light meal, but considering that her son was hungry in the dormitory, Xu Li refused Zhang Tianwei's invitation. It was not until three days later that Zhang Tianwei invited Xu Li to have afternoon tea together.
In the café, Zhang Tianwei said to Xu Li: "My work arrangement is not as full as yours, or will I go over to help you take care of Pete when I am fine from today?" Locking a child in a dorm room alone is also not a long-term solution. ”
Listening to Zhang Tianwei's words, Xu Li also felt a deep sense of self-blame, as he said, locking her son in the dormitory for a long time is indeed not conducive to the growth of children. Not to mention that some time ago, my son was bored and used scissors to cut a lot of his own information to pieces. In order to avoid such a similar incident, Xu Li agreed to Zhang Tianwei's request.
Zhang Tianwei is so said and even more so, from that day on, Zhang Tianwei will always appear in Xu Li's dormitory to help her watch the children, Zhang Tianwei often takes Pete out to play ball, run, and will also give him parent-child game experience classes, over time, Pete also likes this uncle who loves to play and laugh more and more, and the most he does with Xu Li every day is "Why doesn't my uncle come to pick me up?" ”
Seeing that Zhang Tianwei is so good to her child, Xu Li is happy for her son in her heart, perhaps it is precisely because of the appearance of this man that the original introverted son becomes sunny and lively, and she can see the corner of her son's mouth, which is not the greatest comfort for her.
On May Day in 1996, Pete inadvertently said to Xu Li: "Mom, are we okay with moving to my uncle's house?" ”
It was his son's careless words that instantly made Xu Li blush. Through these seven or eight months of contact, Xu Li felt that Zhang Tianwei was indeed a down-to-earth and reliable man. Especially the seriousness he had when he helped take care of Pete, which could not be pretended casually, so Xu Li's heart that was blocked against Zhang Tianwei was gradually opened.
In the June 1 holiday of the same year, Xu Li specially invited Zhang Tianwei to accompany himself and his son to climb the mountain, the son was tired and said that he didn't want to go by himself, Zhang Tianwei directly put Pete on his neck, all the way from the bottom of the mountain to the middle of the mountainside, Xu Li took Pete down, and said to Zhang Tianwei in a serious manner: "Pete likes you very much, wants to live with you, do you want to accept him?" ”
Understanding that everyone knows what's going on, Xu Li's voice just fell, Zhang Tianwei stretched out her hand and pulled Xu Li: "Li Li, in fact, I have liked you since a long time ago, but I am afraid that I am not worthy of you. I'm not purposeful in helping you take care of Pete, and even if you don't accept me I'll be as good to him as ever. Being able to make you worry a little less is my greatest satisfaction! ”
Listening to it, Xu Li's tears burst down like a dike, and even her body subconsciously leaned on Zhang Tianwei's shoulder, this long-lost sense of dependence, she didn't know how long she had waited...
Zhang Tianwei's original family is much better than Xu Li's, his parents are professors at the Central Academy of Fine Arts, and even his brother is a well-known modern painter and doctor in France. Zhang Tianwei has been living on her own since divorcing her ex-wife, and as her parents get older, his marriage has become the biggest knot in their hearts.
Seeing that happiness is in front of her, Zhang Tianwei informed her parents of her relationship with Xu Li at home, and her parents' impression of this future daughter-in-law was also very good, and more than once let Zhang Tianwei take Xu Li to her home for dinner. In early 1996, Xu Li took out all the money she had saved over the years and paid a down payment for a three-bedroom and one-bedroom wedding room in Beijing.
After the marriage room was completely renovated, the two naturally received the certificate at the end of the year. In fact, Zhang Tianwei has a house in Beijing, and the reason why he did not use that place as a marriage room was that Xu Li had his own reasons. The husband's parents are so old that life naturally cannot be settled, and secondly, it is not tough to remarry in the in-laws' family with their sons, which is a matter of being talked about.
Zhang Tianwei had persuaded her many times, but in the end she could not resist the stubborn Xu Li, and in the end she could only compromise. Although repaying the mortgage would be a burden for Xu Li at that time, in order for herself and her son to be at ease, what does it matter if she is a little wronged. Zhang Tianwei naturally could also see Xu Li's careful thinking, so after marriage, she took care of all the household chores in the family.
Xu Li is often busy until very late to return home, every time she comes home to see a large table full of hearty meals, a clean and tidy room, a smiling son Pete, Xu Li's heart is always warm, the tiredness of a day of work, but also by everything in front of the eyes healed.
At the beginning, Pete called Zhang Tianwei "Uncle Zhang", and then after living together, he began to call "Zhang Daddy", and now he directly saves "Zhang" and calls him "Daddy", which seems to have accepted Zhang Tianwei from the bottom of his heart.
We have seen a lot of newlywed Eryan's marital love and happiness, but with the infiltration of emotional life, it is inevitable to feel suspicious, which is difficult to avoid, especially for a woman with a strong personality like Xu Li, it is also easier to cause some small friction.
Xu Li is a Xiang girl who loves to eat spicy when she is young, while Zhang Tianwei is a Beijinger who prefers to be light, and it is normal that she cannot eat together at the dinner table. Most of the meals at home are made by Zhang Tianwei, which will naturally be a little dull in Xu Li's view, so Xu Li actually rarely eats the meals made by her husband, but only eats a little bit each time.
Zhang Tianwei actually looked at it in his eyes, Xu Li said to him more than once: "When cooking, put some peppers, otherwise how can I swallow this clear soup and water, I have eaten for more than twenty or thirty years, even if you want me to change, you have to give me some time!" In order to understand his wife, Zhang Tianwei never blushed because of this, but turned his head into the kitchen to do it again.
Before Xu Li took care of Pete alone, she developed the habit of getting up early, and Zhang Tianwei insisted on sleeping until 7 o'clock every day in order to let Xu Li rest well. Get up on your own and work in the kitchen to arrange breakfast for the family, look at the table every 5 minutes, and never push open the bedroom door until 7 o'clock. Once Zhang Tianwei himself overslept, and it was already 7:20 a.m. when he looked at his watch before he woke up Xu Li, who was asleep.
Xu Li got up and looked at the watch too late to pack, got dressed and took the bag to the unit, Zhang Tianwei saw the hot milk on the table she did not drink, so she chased down with the cup: "You have to carry so many manuscripts every day, how can you resist without putting something in your stomach!" Seeing the situation, the complaining words in Xu Li's throat and eyes were swallowed back again, and he hurriedly drove away.
Day by day, although Zhang Tianwei is Pitt's stepfather, even the neighbors are very kind to see Zhang Tianwei, because even his biological father does not love his son so much. It is the meticulous care and love of his stepfather that Pete is very well-behaved and sensible, and has always been ashamed to express his love for the little boy, so he has done a crying and laughing thing.
One day, borrowing the kung fu of Zhang Tianwei and Xu Li going out to work, 17-year-old Pete quietly pulled out his mother's marriage certificate from the drawer of his parents' bedroom and shredded it, and left a small note: "I told me at the same table that I can't get a divorce without a marriage certificate, you are not allowed to quarrel in the future, we will always be together!" After writing, I did not forget to sign "Pete who loves mom".
After doing all this, Pete also sprinkled the red fragments of the marriage certificate on the edge of the drawer to get her mother's attention. Xu Li just came home from work, she noticed the half-open drawer in the bedroom, and after opening it, she found that her marriage certificate was torn to pieces and thought that there was a mouse in the drawer, but after seeing the note, she understood the original reason.
After opening Zhang Tianwei's complete marriage certificate, she saw a similar note that read: "Dad, you must love your mother well, don't argue with her, we want to be together forever!" Signed "Pete who loves Daddy.".
After seeing these two notes, Xu Li could not help herself for a long time, as if this moment was suddenly stopped. In the face of the little devil's sensible son, Xu Li's tears flowed non-stop, and the air was so quiet that he could hear the sound of tears falling on the ground.
After Zhang Tianwei returned home, Xu Li handed two notes and a broken marriage certificate to him, and Zhang Tianwei comforted Xu Li: "Pete is really sensible, I will definitely love him well in the future, love this family and you well!" At this time, Pete quietly appeared next to the two, picked up a tissue to help her mother wipe out the tears: "I know that I am not right to do this, but please don't be angry, I actually have something to say to you." ”
Xu Liqiang held back tears and looked at Pete with a surprised face: "Mother is not angry, you say." Pete's small eyes rolled, signaling Zhang Tianwei to go out for a while, and after seeing his father walk out of the bedroom, he closed the door and said softly to Xu Li: "Mom, I know that work is very hard, but you should not vent your temper on your father, he loves us." Having said that, Xu Li fell into a deep introspection...
After Zhang Tianwei finished cooking, Xu Li looked guilty and taxed: "Husband, these years have worked hard for you, I should not take the emotions of work home, I have done bad things before, you can't see me in general." Although Zhang Tianwei was not good at words, he subconsciously took Pete into his arms: "Thank you baby son, otherwise your mother will definitely think that the taste of the rice I made is light!" ”
After listening to Zhang Tianwei's words, Xu Li cried and laughed: "Anyway, the rice you make is light, but it seems that my son loves to eat, and I can definitely get used to it slowly..." Seeing Xu Li give himself a step down, Zhang Tianwei still has a reason not to go down the donkey. In this regard, he also said with a heart: "Sometimes, I really shouldn't be bothered with you."
After such a heart-to-heart communication, Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei reconciled again regardless of the previous suspicions, many previous contradictions have been properly settled, and the smile on Pete's face is also as innocent as a flower bone, full of hope and vitality, which may be the most significant performance of a harmonious family to bring children.
At this point, Xu Li's previous personality has also undergone a great reversal, she has become no longer tantrum, and the big things and small things in the family are discussed with Zhang Tianwei. Just because Zhang Tianwei has been living in Xu Lidao's home since marriage, colleagues often joke about him, saying that he has entered Xu Li's home, so Zhang Tianwei has proposed to move back to his home with Xu Li more than once, but Xu Li has refused.
It was not until 2009 that Xu Li and her son moved to Zhang Tianwei's house and rented out their own house, so that the money for rent also eased the pressure brought by the mortgage, and directly or indirectly made the relationship between the husband and wife more harmonious.
In fact, the biggest beneficiary of the mother and stepfather can love happiness is of course Pitt as a child, and his optimistic and cheerful personality and proud academic performance are the best proof. It is said that since graduating from high school, Pete has been admitted to a prestigious university abroad, while Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei are at the forefront of their careers, planning for their son's future.
As of November 2021, Zhang Tianwei and Xu Li have been in the same boat for 25 years. As the old saying goes, couples don't have overnight feuds, but in comparison, if the couple has no estrangement from beginning to end, won't they even skip the process of quarreling and reconciling?
Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei are a very good example, the happy marriage between the two has contributed to Pete's growth environment, and in turn, under the influence of this family atmosphere, Pete is well-behaved and sensible, and why not promote the harmony of Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei's married life.
Although Xu Li has retired today, we can rarely see her cool and heroic posture on the TV screen, but we don't have to feel sorry for it, because she is living a happy life that we want her to live, isn't it?
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