The relationship between former CCTV anchor Xu Li and her husband Zhang Tianwei is very enviable, and they call each other brothers and servants
Xu Li, the host of the "Today's Attention" column of the Chinese international channel, retired from CCTV shortly after her 60th birthday at the end of August 2021. After a year, Xu Li did not completely stay away from the public eye, occasionally participated in other program recordings, and was more active on social platforms. What exactly do you do after retirement? What are the specific plans? This is a problem that many viewers currently pay more attention to Xu Li.
Previously, when Xu Li was interviewed by host Chen Luyu, she publicly talked about retirement for the first time. In previous years, Xu Li had no idea about the word "retirement", and it was not until the end of December 2020 when she wrote her debriefing report that she realized that she was really retiring. She wrote at the beginning of the debriefing report: "This is the last debriefing report in my workplace, which can be described for a year or a lifetime. ”
Is it a retreat or a retreat? Xu Li has seriously thought about it, if there is a chance she still wants to do a character interview program with the background of news, she feels that she is highly sensitive to people, and she is also good at communicating with people, and she feels that doing such a program seems to have lived a few more lives than others. I also tried it on CCTV, but the timing was always not ripe enough, and in the end I did not succeed. Now after retirement, I have another thought in my heart, hoping to have a chance to realize it as soon as possible.
Over the past 20 years, Xu Li has gained the satisfaction brought by her career, and at the same time has enough time to enjoy family life, but she also has regrets in her heart. On the one hand, he did not accompany his only son enough when he was a child, so that he was seriously insecure when he became an adult. On the other hand, he did not have children with his second husband, and he only wanted to fight for his career at an age when he could be born, and when his career stabilized and he wanted to have a child, his body did not allow it, and Xu Li had always felt guilty.
It is worth noting that every time Xu Li went out to be interviewed and filmed after her retirement, her husband Zhang Tianwei was almost always with her, and although the two did not have children, their feelings were well known. When Xu Li was interviewed by Ren Luyu, it should be the first time that her husband Zhang Tianwei faced the camera with Xu Li, a well-known commentator who has transformed from a literati to an artist after retirement. He didn't write articles, inherited the mantle of his parents, played with sculptures, and grew long hair, beards, and dressed as a rock singer.
Every time she talks about her husband Zhang Tianwei, Xu Li is a happy smile, and there is even a little girlish shyness on her face, regretting of course that she did not have a child for him. Xu Li had been married twice, married and had children during her work at Changsha Television Station, and then had to temporarily abandon her family due to work transfers, abandon her children, and go to Beijing alone. When Xu Li met Zhang Tianwei, the two had the same goal, values, aesthetics and other aspects of high fit, and finally came together to become an enviable couple, and still have a good relationship.
At the age of 40, Xu Li once thought of having another child, but Zhang Tianwei did not want his wife to affect her career planning because of the birth of a child, fell into a state of embarrassment and anxiety, and categorically gave up the idea of having a child. "Looking back now, what's actually going on, I was 40 years old, I'm 60 years old now, if I had been born, this child would have been 20 years old. But then this hurdle could not be passed. Xu Li asked Zhang Tianwei many times: "You don't regret that we didn't want a child?" ”
Zhang Tianwei always has only one answer: "No regrets." Xu Li sighed: "I can only accept his kindness, I would rather believe that what he said is true, but I also know that a man does not have children of his own, especially if he loves this woman so much, I do not believe that he does not regret it." So this topic is sometimes not mentioned when we talk about this level, because it has passed, really, life can not go back. ”
For more than 20 years, Zhang Tianwei has been spoiling Xu Li, and until now she will still be called "Yatou", and Xu Li will also call Zhang Tianwei "brother". Sometimes the two joke: "We are both 60 years old now, are we partners or lovers?" Xu Li was very fortunate that she could meet a partner who was so generous in heart and so understanding of her, spoiled her, and cared for her with heart, and enjoyed the days with him.