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Xu Li
On August 25, 2021, Xu Li, a famous anchor of CCTV, officially retired, and many viewers cling to it. Xu Li has been the anchor of CCTV's "China News" and is an iconic figure in the column, which is deeply loved by the audience.
Xu Li had a failed marriage and later remarried with her son. So, what was her remarriage life like?
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Xu Li was born in 1961 in Jishou City, Hunan Province, where her father worked in the Logistics Department of the Hunan Provincial Military Region. When she was 6 years old, her father transferred to the local area and the family settled in Changsha.
Young Xu Li
In 1979, Changsha People's Radio openly recruited announcers, and Xu Li, who had outstanding appearance and sound conditions, went to take the exam. As a result, among more than 3,000 applicants, Xu Li stood out and became one of the 3 lucky people who were admitted.
On National Day in 1982, Xu Li got married, her husband was originally a soldier, and then transferred to work in a public institution in Changsha. In early June 1988, Xu Li gave birth to her son Pete (breast name).
Xu Li is kind in heart, but speaks straight and does not know how to be roundabout. The husband is straightforward and gentle, but young and vigorous, and the couple often stumbles over household chores and taking care of their son. In late April 1992, Xu Li divorced her husband, and her son lived with her.
In the same year, CCTV began to transmit programs overseas through satellites, openly recruiting hosts across the country. As a result, among more than 200 competitors, Xu Li was lucky to be hired. At the end of September 1992, Xu Li came to Beijing with her son and began a new life.
Xu Li hosted programs on CCTV in her early years
Xu Li was arranged by the station to serve as the anchor of "China News", her hosting style is magnificent, vibrant, strong sense of control, and integrated into personal emotions, the style is very distinct, deeply loved by the audience.
At that time, Taili did not solve Xu Li's housing for objective reasons, and she took her son to live in the collective dormitory of the unit. Every morning at 6 o'clock, Xu Li took her son up, and after the mother and son had breakfast outside, she sent her son to the kindergarten.
At two o'clock in the afternoon, Xu Li hurriedly took her son back to the dormitory, and then put a few toys next to him, she locked her son in the dormitory, and went to work in the desk.
In mid-October 1994, Taili arranged for Xu Li to be interviewed by Zhang Tianwei, a well-known reporter of Beijing Youth Daily. Zhang Tianwei is a native of Beijing, 3 years older than Xu Li, and has also had a failed marriage.
As a media person, he is no stranger to Xu Li on the screen, and he also learned about Xu Li's living conditions from friends. For some reason, before seeing Xu Li, Zhang Tianwei had an inexplicable pity for her, maybe this is love.
Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei
At the end of the interview, Zhang Tianwei originally planned to invite Xu Li to dinner, but Xu Li said that she wanted to go back to the dormitory to cook for her son, so she hurried away.
Two days later, Zhang Tianwei asked Xu Li to drink coffee and seriously said to her: "I have more flexibility in my work, will I go to accompany Pete in the afternoon?" It's not the way you always lock your kids in your dorm room. ”
Yes, he has been locked up in his dormitory for a long time, and his son is restless, like a small trapped beast. One day, because of his irritability, his son took the scissors and cut his hair. For a long time, Xu Li was worried about Pete's personality disorder, and for the healthy growth of her son, she agreed.
After that, Zhang Tianwei often arranged the work in the morning and evening, and handed over the whole afternoon to Pete. He took Pete for a run, swim, play table tennis, and drove Pete around Beijing's attractions.
Xu Li and her son
In just one week, Pete couldn't do without Zhang Tianwei, and "uncle long uncle short" kept calling. In front of his mother, Pete was particularly lively and happy, opening his mouth to say that Zhang Tianwei was good. This sunny appearance of her son is what Xu Li wants to see most.
One day in March 1995, Pete suddenly said to Xu Li, "Mom, I like to be with Uncle Zhang. ”
In a word, let Xu Li's heart collapse tsunami. In the past six months of contact, Xu Li felt that Zhang Tianwei was an atmospheric and tolerant man with responsibility. Especially his unrequited pampering of Pete, which is not something the average man can do. When she met Zhang Tianwei, Xu Li felt that this was heaven's favor for her and must not be missed.
One evening in early July of that year, when Zhang Tianwei handed Pete to Xu Li to leave, Xu Li bravely confessed to Zhang Tianwei: "Pete wants to live with you forever, I don't know what your attitude is? ”
Zhang Tianwei boldly grabbed Xu Li's hand: "In fact, I have long been in love with you, but I just feel that I am not worthy of you, and I dare not confess." I take care of Pete without purpose, and even if you don't accept me, I will continue to do so. Because it can help you reduce a burden, it is my greatest joy. Listening to Zhang Tianwei's heartfelt words, Xu Li shed tears of happiness and joy...
Zhang Tianwei came from a Kochi family, his parents are professors at the Central Academy of Fine Arts, and he is a world-renowned sculptor. Zhang Tianwei's younger brother is Dr. Liu De and is also a well-known painter in China. Zhang Tianwei has been single since his divorce, and his parents and brother are concerned about his personal problems, often reminding him to remarry early.
After his relationship with Xu Li stabilized, Zhang Tianwei informed his family of the relationship, and his parents and brother sent him blessings. In early December 1995, Xu Li took out all her savings and bought a three-bedroom marriage house in Beijing.
In mid-January of the following year, she and Zhang Tianwei were licensed to marry in Beijing. In fact, Zhang Tianwei also has a house in Beijing, and after marriage, she wants to live with Xu Li's mother and son. But Xu Li insisted on living in the marriage house she bought, in her opinion, she remarried with her son, and it was not tough to live in the man's house. Zhang Tianwei knew Xu Li's thoughts and agreed.
After marriage, Zhang Tianwei lived in Xu Li's home. Zhang Tianwei really hurt Pete, insisted on picking him up and dropping him off at school, buying him toys, and sending him to play football with his friends in the community.
Sometimes Xu Li is busy at work, Zhang Tianwei will also wash Pete's sneakers clean, and Pete is also psychologically and emotionally attached to Zhang Tianwei. In the past, he called Zhang Tianwei "Zhang Daddy", but later he simply omitted the word "Zhang" and directly called "Daddy".
With the deepening of married life, discord between Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei also began to appear, which was mainly caused by Xu Li's personality being too strong.
Xu Li is a Hunan native, and her diet taste is spicy, while Zhang Tianwei is a native of Beijing and has a light taste, which brings contradictions to the couple. Xu Li always put peppers in her home cooking, which looks like a piece of red on the plate. Even if she stir-fried a green vegetable or fried an egg, she would put a few dried red peppers.
Zhang Tianwei can't eat spicy, reminding Xu Li to put less pepper or not. But Xu Li said: "I have eaten this way for decades, how can I change it?" You can learn to eat spicy, several of my colleagues are northerners, they all eat chili peppers. Zhang Tianwei ate his scalp, so hot that he sweated profusely.
Xu Li got up at 5:30 every morning, and in order to let her sleep a little longer, Zhang Tianwei asked her to get up at 6 o'clock. He looked at his phone every 10 minutes and woke up his wife at 6 a.m. Once, Zhang Tianwei also fell asleep in a daze, and did not ask Xu Li to get up until 6:10.
A few minutes later, Xu Li rushed out with her bag, and Zhang Tianwei saw that Xu Li did not drink the honey water he had brewed for her on the table, so he chased out with the cup: "You use your voice excessively every day, pay attention to protect your throat, drink the honey water and then go." Xu Li did not answer and hurried away.
In Pete's mind, although Zhang Tianwei is the stepfather, he gives himself no less love than his biological father. As a teenager under the age of 17, he did not know how to communicate with his mother and stepfather, so he made a warm gesture.
While his parents were away, Pete pulled out her mother's marriage certificate from a drawer. Then he wrote neatly on it: "I love you, you are not allowed to quarrel, we will never be separated!" And signed his name. Having done this, he put the marriage certificate back in the drawer, but deliberately messed up the contents to get the attention of his mother or stepfather.
After Xu Li returned home from outside, she saw that the drawer was half open, so she came over to see what was going on. Seeing that the marriage certificate was placed on the top, she thought that Zhang Tianwei turned it over, so she opened it and looked at it, only to see that on the two marriage certificates, the son had the same words written: "I love you, you are not allowed to quarrel, we will never be separated." ”
Xu Li couldn't help but burst into tears. When her husband returned home in the evening, she handed him the marriage certificate. Zhang Tianwei said to Xu Li with emotion: "Pete is too cute and sensible, I will always love him." At this time, Pete came to her mother's side and wiped away her tears with a tissue: "Mom, I want to say a heartfelt word to you, this sentence has been in my heart for a long time, I said you don't get angry." ”
Xu Li nodded tearfully: "You say, Mom is not angry." Pete whispered, "You have a conflict, and a lot of the time you talk with emotion." Xu Li fell into contemplation...
Xu Li sincerely said to her husband: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't bring my strength at work to my home, and I shouldn't be too real when things happen." Please forgive me, I will change myself in the future. Saying, Xu Li took her son into her arms: "Thank you for your son's reminder, my mother knows how to be a wife and how to be a mother in the future." ”
Xu Li's sincerity touched Zhang Tianwei, and he also sincerely said: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have bothered with you when things happened." After some heart-to-heart communication, Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei were reconciled as before, and a comfortable smile appeared on Pete's face.
Since then, Xu Li's personality has become soft, and she has learned to speak roundaboutly, and she has been a good woman in marriage. For matters big and small in the family, she will discuss with Zhang Tianwei. Because Zhang Tianwei lived in Xu Li's house, colleagues joked that he was a door-to-door son-in-law, and he had offered to live in his own home, but Xu Li disagreed.
In 2008, Xu Li took her son to live in Zhang Tianwei's house, and she rented out her house, and the rent was handed over to Zhang Tianwei to manage together with her monthly salary. As a result, Xu Li's relationship with her husband has become more and more harmonious.
The most beneficial to the harmony of the marriage between mother and stepfather is Pete, who is optimistic and cheerful, and has both good character and learning. After graduating from a famous domestic university, he went abroad to study, and Zhang Tianwei and Xu Li together covered Pitt's study abroad expenses.
Colleagues bid farewell to Xu Li's glorious retirement
In November 2021, Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei have been married for 25 years. It is said that the remarried couple is separated by a heart, but Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei have a harmonious relationship, and the two do not have any estrangement. Pete treats Zhang Tianwei as his biological father filial piety, which in turn promotes the harmony of Xu Li's marriage with Zhang Tianwei!
Now that Xu Li has retired and has more time with her husband, the couple has begun another happy life!
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