Married life will have a lot of bugs, like a game that has been released, and for a long time after the release, it has been constantly finding problems and updating fixes. Strong women and weak men are also a bug in married life, at least for many people are a headache problem, the problem is that the imbalance causes pressure on both sides, if you do not find a way to deal with it that suits you, the final choice to separate is also the only best way to solve, after all, life still has to continue. Don't say that we ordinary people, even the goddess-level women in our minds, can't escape the curse of strong women and weak men for a long time.
At the end of last year, Scarlett Johansson, the "God Harvester," got married again! After the announcement of the marriage news, the whole network of men wailed, and even the hot search was with a crying expression. In the movie, she is invincible, and in real life, she is even more across the love scene, and her love life is as wonderful as her movie. Scarlett Johansson is married to her boyfriend, Colin Jost, 38, a well-known American comedian and chief writer of the variety show Saturday Night Live.
There have been no less than ten male stars who have gossiped or been in contact with her in the past, such as Josh Hartnett, who sparked the filming of "Black Dahlia", Jared Leto, the eye-catching "clown", and even sean penn, an Oscar-winning actor who is two rounds older than himself. But the two people who walked into the marriage hall with her are the Ryan Reynolds and the French journalist Romain Dauriac.
Black Widow is worthy of being a black widow, and all the men who have interacted with her are recognized as high-quality men, and their fields are also quite extensive. In fact, her second husband Romain is not unoptimal, but in the eyes of the world, compared with the more brilliant Scarlett Johansson is indeed inferior, but she does not care, believes that as long as you love enough, it is appropriate.
But over time, people will always return to the trajectory of their habitual life. As a Hollywood superstar, non-stop filming, attending various events around the world, a lifestyle surrounded by spotlights and a full itinerary make Romain, who pursues a stable family life, very uncomfortable.
Even if you can temporarily let go of yourself, you can compromise once or twice, but to completely give up your life is too cruel for anyone to do. Eventually, less than three years after the marriage, Scarlett Johansson formally filed for divorce from her second husband and went to court for custody of her daughter, beginning a series of legal battles.
Fortunately, Scarlett Johansson met Colin Jost, and in terms of talent and appearance, the two were also good couples. But Black Widow has an aura that cannot be removed in this life, and she is the highest paid actress in the history of global cinema, and such a ceiling makes many men prohibitive. But for Colin Jost, humor and self-confidence are his accomplishments, after all, Scarlett Johansson once said a confession that made the whole network of men cry: "I didn't stop laughing when I was with him." The best thing about marriage is to be able to cherish each other's characteristics and to be able to back each other up, both men and women.
Similar to Scarlett Johansson, American pop singer Katy Perry has experienced multiple fruitless relationships. After going around, he finally became a family member with the "elf prince" Orlando Bloom, and gave birth to a little princess daisy bloom, writing a happy ending.
Prior to that, Katie Perry had been married to British comedian Russell Brand for less than two years. The two met during the filming of "Big Star Little Follower" and began to date after reuniting at an awards ceremony, but after marriage, they quickly found that the two were not suitable.
Her musical career was in full swing, touring one after another, while Russell Brand's career was not much of a success, and coupled with the machismo mentality, he was very dissatisfied with his wife. According to foreign media reports, the ex-husband did not go to see a wife's concert during the tour, and half an hour before the start of a tour, Katie Perry received a divorce text message from her husband, and then there was no news. This operation is really suffocating.
The so-called strong women and weak men do not only refer to how much and less they earn economically, nor who has a hot temper, but more refers to whether they are strong in their hearts, whether they have the confidence to affirm themselves and each other, the courage to face problems, and the ability to deal with problems.
In Russell Brand's marriage to Katie Perry, she would try to find time to go home even though she was busy, flying around just to spend more time with her husband, but Russell Brand was more immersed in negative emotions. The wife's honor, wealth, and endless aura can easily put pressure on the husband, but if the husband is very sure of himself, if he is a person full of positive energy, I believe that the husband and wife can handle this problem well. Unfortunately he is not, he chooses more to escape and blame, eroded by negative energy.
On the other hand, Orlando Bloom, although he does not know the private way the two get along, but now that the elf prince is no longer beautiful, Katie Perry promotes new works for him from time to time, and he also generously shares bits and pieces with her and his daughter. Perhaps Orlando Bloom has also grown and realized because of his failed marriage to Miranda Kerr; in fact, his partner's success is not just an effort for a better life for the two of them? A reciprocal relationship is really just a balance of intentions for each other.
Jiang Hongjie and Fukuhara Ai, who just announced their divorce two days ago, are also typical of strong women and weak men. This pair is actually very sad, after all, they once loved each other so much, and when they participated in the "Happiness Trio" together, they staged a sweet idol drama, and it is not difficult to see that the two really love each other. But love and married life are different subjects, and the two have only now come to this step.
Ai Fukuhara, a Japanese national idol and Chinese nickname "Big Girl"; Ai Sauce has a hard time, a cute personality, and will always be the darling of the team. In Japan, she has been in the spotlight since she competed at the age of 4. It was also because of her that the whole country of Japan set off a billiards boom and infected more children to join the sport. There are countless competitions large and small, and many good results have been obtained, and although the four Olympic Games have regrets, they have no regrets.
After the Rio Olympics, Ai Fukuhara married Taiwanese table tennis player Jiang Hongjie. At that time in Japan, this combination was actually not optimistic. One was a Japanese national treasure table tennis general, while the other was a peer whose fame and strength were far apart, and this man was not even found in the world rankings at that time.
But outside concerns have not crushed them, and income inequality is not a problem. Now regurgitating the original model of Fukuhara Ai and Jiang Hongjie, it seems that the real problem is that the ability and function of the husband and wife are not equally distributed.
A couple, if the man's social status is much higher than that of the woman, it seems that both sides are more acceptable; but if on the other hand, the woman's ability is much stronger than the man's, and the resources enjoyed are far more than the men, which may be a psychological and ability challenge for the man.
But this is not just the marriage of Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie, but the unspoken rules of society that you and I do not want to face: this society tacitly accepts that men should be more successful than women in their careers, and if women are successful in their careers, she will usually be accused of failing to fulfill their mother's obligations, but if the father's career is successful, people will feel that he is also a good father. Sometimes, in marriages where women are strong and men are weak, women will even give up a little self in marriage because they want to maintain men's self-esteem, or deliberately restrain and please.
But a comfortable marriage is that the wife also has the space for self-realization, and the husband can also understand the true meaning of moving forward hand in hand. Women should never apologize for their excellence.