see you again
Recently watched the "Goodbye Lover" variety show, to talk about my little insights. Why is the show appealing? Why can countless audiences cry together, sigh together, and smile together. It is because we believe that what is revealed in their show is the true feeling of the guests, and we also have similar doubts and feelings in our respective marriages, which can produce many resonances.
Guo Keyu and Zhang He are the couple who are most in line with the theme of the show, and they are also the couple who most touched me. The two have been divorced for a year, separated and goodbye to a couple. The 18-day trip to Xinjiang, from the beginning, the two people deliberately avoided, dodged, and maintained a social distance of strangers. Later, when they rode a bicycle together, hugged and rode an electric car together, there seemed to be a spark between the two, subconscious care and care, and occasionally a little snack vinegar, so that the audience called out good sweetness. Let everyone believe that perhaps it is only because of the middle-aged man's mouth, love of face and refuse to admit it, unwilling to declare love to the mouth, in fact, the two still love each other deeply.
A scene of tears
When the final choice was made, the picture of the two getting off the car and hugging each other caused countless tears in the audience, and everyone seemed to see the ending of the reunion, happy and moved.
Just when everyone was still immersed in the sunset, the picture of the two hugging tightly reveled in the sweetness of the princess hugging "kissing and hugging and holding high". They also openly expressed their wish to the other party to find the next right person. We wonder, is this how the sugar that has been bumped has melted? They are obviously in love with each other, why is this so? Shouldn't people who love each other be together, and they have a child before?
But the reality is so cruel, cold, often the deeper the love, the more decisive the heart is when it dies. Although the trip to Xinjiang is a sincere heartbeat, the show presents to the audience, or their contradictions are only the tip of the iceberg that surfaced. In the beautiful scenery, in the relaxed state, in the absence of real life chai rice oil and salt wrapped, facing the vast natural landscape, it seems to be able to open people's hearts and minds, and leave all chaotic thoughts behind. However, back to life, back to reality, many contradictions and entanglements still have to be faced, emotional things such as people drinking cold and warm self-knowledge. Broken vases can never be repaired as before, and the cracks in the heart cannot be repaired with one click.
People who walk through the heart will always leave deep and shallow footprints
Fortunately, they can also be like old friends, like close family, and be able to raise cute children together. Zhang He no longer struggled with the answers to many questions, and Guo Keyu also lived out his own happiness. They have found their most comfortable distance, the most comfortable mode of getting along, and they no longer have to demand anything. Isn't that the best ending?
Bless each other
When we say goodbye, I hope they can all become what they want to be.