The show "Goodbye Lover" attracted the attention of many people, and everyone followed the 18-day trip of three (former) couples, one moment happy, the other sad.
The reason for this is that the content shown in the show is too real, and the various love and contradictions between husband and wife are just like when they are together.
Zhu Yaqiong accused Wang Qiuyu of not giving her the love she wanted, but Wang Qiuyu said that no matter whether they were together in the future, as long as Zhu Yaqiong needed it, he would help her at the first time;
KK and Tong Chenjie love and kill each other, the main reason is that KK is not mature enough, so Tong Chenjie is insecure, so she has been unwilling to have a child;
Zhang He and Guo Keyu participated in this show, it is said that Zhang He invited Guo Keyu, the two were married for 10 years, Zhang He has been wondering whether Guo Keyu "has ever loved him in the end".
3 couples, 3 current situations, whether they are getting along or contradictory, let the audience feel too much truth.
Especially the pair of Zhang He and Guo Keyu. When they got married, it was because they were old and wanted to have a home for each other, and Zhang He had a good impression of Guo Keyu, so he took the initiative to propose.
Just in time, Guo Keyu wanted to get married and have children, so Zhang He was the wrong person at the right time.
Why? Because Guo Keyu once had expectations for marriage, but ten years was like a dream, she could not get the feelings she wanted from Zhang He, and after waking up from the dream, she decided to divorce.
In the years they've been together, nothing else is on the same band except raising a common child.
The work and rest time of the two is different, Guo Keyu is going to rest, Zhang He is still pushing a cup with his friend; Guo Keyu got up and began to practice yoga, and Zhang He is still asleep.
Different living habits, all kinds of contradictions and frictions, so that their hearts go farther and farther.
As in our daily lives, how do you feel when you say a heartfelt word to your partner and the other person doesn't react at all?
Guo Keyu is a romantic woman, and her eyes are full of light when she and Guo Keyu talk about the style of a restaurant, but Zhang He only hears the general words of ingredients and rejects her opinion.
Men want results and women want processes. When the two do not reach a consensus, a gap arises. And the more times this happens, the greater the gap.
Guo Keyu once asked Zhang He "what time is the plane, drink less wine, come back early", her original intention was to care about him, but Zhang He said, "Such a confession is too strange, and only Guo Keyu can say such a thing!" ”
It can be seen that it is not without reason to go to the step of divorce.
What she does, you don't appreciate, what he likes, you happen to hate. Two people in a marriage can never be on the same frequency, and finally being together becomes a pain.
Once for this marriage, Guo Keyu gave up his career and concentrated on having children at home. However, her sacrifice did not exchange Zhang He's empathy, on the contrary, they went farther and farther.
If it is not love, what woman willingly bears children for a man, acts as a good wife and mother, and this road is 10 years? Especially for the career that Guo Keyu is engaged in, the golden period is only a few years.
However, Zhang He couldn't get her efforts, and even the original intention of asking Guo Keyu to participate in the show together, or to find out whether she had ever loved him in the past ten years?
Is this really that important? In such a marriage, even if the original love is full of love, it has long been replaced by repeated disappointments.
What prompted Guo Keyu to divorce was to go to the hospital alone in the early morning, where was Zhang He at that time?
Why should a woman get married? It's not just for men to have children!
Their marriage has never been without love, but in marriage, one party's efforts have been ignored by the other party, or even understood, and eventually all expectations have become cold.
When a woman's heart dies, she will no longer have any enthusiasm. I believe that Guo Keyu in the early morning hospital, in his heart, already knows his future direction.
Otherwise, she would not have made it clear when she participated in the show that she and Zhang He would no longer be able to do so.
Zhanghe never understood her, but because he never calmed down and listened carefully to her voice.
Feelings are the most unaffordable to be consumed. Paying too much but not getting a response will eventually be silently withdrawn.
Some women in marriage, with great expectations, work with the men they love to build a better life.
However, she made too much effort to do so, and in the end, she was taken for granted and taken for granted by men. Gradually, her heart also cooled, and the enthusiasm was gone.
Leaves don't turn yellow in a day, and all the death of the heart accumulates little by little.
Although Guo Keyu agreed to Zhang He's request to participate in the show together, she has deeply understood that Zhang He is not a good person in marriage, and she will not look back.
To live to such a sober state as Guo Keyu is really admirable, and her life after that should also be a good career.
Compared with Guo Keyu, who participated in this show and was more clear about his goals, Zhang He was white. Why? He said he chose to get off the bus because he wanted to give a perfect ending to their relationship.
His statement made people feel uncomfortable, and Guo Keyu definitely didn't need it, because she knew how to go next. And the audience feels that it is not necessary, and it is not an idol drama, and it must come to a happy ending.
How to do it, follow your own heart. A worthy man, the audience will feel sorry for him, but Zhang He is obviously not, this operation makes people feel that the affection he has shown in the show before may be fake.
In any case, 10 years of husband and wife relationship, or loved, or not so loved, but belong to the past tense, why in this way, let people feel a kind of hypocrisy?
Compared with Wang Qiuyu and KK, Zhang He's sincerity seems to be far worse.
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