The phenomenon-level reality show "Goodbye Lover" definitely brought fire to 6 male and female guests.
After the show ended, each guest got good resources and gained a wave of fans at the same time. The movements and whereabouts of the guests after the show have also attracted the attention of loyal fans.
On the afternoon of November 8, Guo Keyu updated weibo and participated in the web drama "Sanyue Has a New Job" produced by Station B and co-produced by Da Yin Guang Shi and Lianrui Pictures. The newly opened Guo Keyu was full of confidence and smiled brightly, and the "fruit shell powder" blessed the goddess sister one after another, "the career is up, looking forward to new works."
A few hours later, in the early morning of the 9th, Guo Keyu's ex-husband Zhang He also updated Weibo to celebrate his birthday. Judging from the two pictures, it is definitely a girlfriend perspective. More careful netizens found that the cake on the table has been dug out of a small spoon of beauty, which is obviously not the work of the big man Zhang He. Zhang He was closing his eyes and making a wish, although he didn't know what wish he had made, but his face was full of sweet and satisfied expressions.
Sure enough, the birthday photo from the girlfriend's perspective attracted a large wave of netizens to spray. The top comment at the moment is, "... Or do you not know what to say, and want to persuade you to go back to Guo Keyu? What if the person you're with is someone else. Alas, Zhang He was on an emotional show, and tens of millions of people paid attention to your bad luck with Zhang He. If there is, let the official announce the scolding early. ”
A show of former husband and wife combining to save the cause, netizens really entered the drama too deeply, and they still can't get out of the obsession of hoping for octopus CP compounding. Is it worried that Guo Keyu has no more suitable man to love her, or is it that Zhang He, a man who is only 43 years old, ends up alone?
These netizens must be too kind and simple, and it is estimated that they are reluctant to get along for 18 days when the two "find sugar in the glass slag". But love and marriage are too private, how the real situation is, always only the parties involved in it are clear, the bystander is always a bystander, what you see is always what others want you to see, people don't want you to see, you can never see.
Therefore, there is no need to guess much, and there is no reason to blame, understanding and supporting blessings is the greatest respect for the parties involved.
Moreover, in the "Goodbye Lover" program, both admitted that there was "no love" in the ten-year marriage. Guo Keyu has repeatedly stated that "it will not be reunited", and Zhang He also said firmly in the 36 question session, "Never thought of remarrying".
Even if both of them chose to get out of the car in the end and offered a "coat hug" that caused stormy crying, what would it mean? Don't forget that for the ex-couple, the rule in the show is "if you have a heartbeat, you can get off".
Ten years of marriage like "two isolated islands", separated for three years, and finally a difficult decision to divorce. In just eighteen days of the journey, although there are sweet and touching, and even occasional calls and heartbeats, but ten years have accumulated too many old diseases, all the problems are still piled up there, still have not been truly solved. A short filtered trip that deviates from the routines of life does not easily change adult men and women, and does not easily overturn decisions that have been made.
Variety show is a variety show, life is life, understand Guo Keyu, but also understand Zhang He. Instead of repeating the same mistakes, it is better to release all the previous suspicions. Say goodbye to the past in order to move towards the future.
Whether it is to fight for a career or to have a new relationship, it is not wrong. After all, having been divorced for more than a year, it's time to have a new life. There is really no need to be too obsessed with wishful thinking, they just chose their happiest life posture.
I know that netizens are distressed about Guo Keyu, but please understand that what Guo Keyu wants most at the moment is not love at all, let alone marriage. What she desperately wants most is to pick up the acting career she gave up in marriage again.
Rare luck to patronize again, standing on the second highlight moment of his life, Guo Keyu's most sensible approach at the moment must be to take advantage of the heat and traffic, happy business to return to the audience's vision, live into his favorite look.
Besides, Zhang Heming was not the one that Guo Keyu could love in his heart. Look at her attitude towards the man who "hollowed out her love savings", the light in her eyes when she mentioned him, and the many polite details of her relationship with Zhanghe.
What matches Guo Keyu is the kind of man who can enter her world, trigger her sense of worship, guide her spiritually, guide her on the road of life, and make her more abundant in emotional experience. Zhang He is very good, but obviously too thin, the two can not go into each other at all, why not catch people together, bundle internal friction?
Speaking of the straight man Zhang He, perhaps more need a little woman who looks up to him and depends on him, is willing to take care of his life, is willing to endure his bad temper, is willing to talk to him romantically, and Guo Keyu, who takes the script of the big heroine of life, is obviously not this one.
Therefore, for Guo Keyu and Zhang He, for the sake of the common son, "you warm me, I also want to warm you, we must have affection and righteousness", being friends and relatives, and even becoming strangers, are far wiser than being husband and wife.
The male and female protagonists of the story have been relieved to put down the ten-year marriage, and only the netizens who have entered the drama too deeply are still struggling for them.
At the end of the show, Zhang He sent a long farewell text, saying, "This trip, whether it is the process or the result, is a complete one for me, I have met new friends, solved some problems that I did not dare to face before, let go of the doubts I have always had, and made up for my past regrets with Guo Ke... May we still believe in love, bless each other, and welcome each other's bright future! ”
Collect the marriages of the past ten years, place them in the softest corners of your heart, and seal them in your memory. Having experienced the suspension of life, experiencing the disappointment of feelings, but still loving life, still believing in love, and still blessing each other, this is the mature posture of middle-aged men and women, and it is the best way to open the rest of their lives.
I once read a saying: "In intimate relationships, love is a braver act than not loving." Because if you don't love, you can also use a hard shell to arm yourself, and although you are lonely, you will feel safe. But the word of love is to open yourself up, which also gives the other party the right to hurt you. ”
Especially for people who have experienced marriage, they will become more and more critical of feelings. To start a new relationship, to love and tolerate a new person, it all requires greater courage and is not easy.
Therefore, if Zhang He really has a new girlfriend, he is still worth blessing.
Guo Keyu and Zhang He, divorced for more than a year, have basically no contact. Walking into the program, exposing the most secret feelings of ten years of marriage to the public, being scrutinized and judged by the whole network, such courage and sacrifice, many people can't do it.
But fortunately, this is a successful marketing that exceeds expectations, and the former couple has given each other enough respect and decency, mutual fulfillment, mutual achievement, and achieved a win-win situation of traffic and resources.
In these years and months, what is more testing than the combination of money and feelings?
At present, Guo Keyu and Zhang He are like the song "Appear and Leave" that they sang in the program, "I and you should have been, each good and bad, each living freely" "You don't need to sigh, I don't want to linger, because no one has thought of changing again, no one has thought of coming back."
People who have no reason to share, each is well, each wonderful, all very good, is the best.
Everything is the best arrangement, blessing Guo Keyu, blessing Zhang He.