Life in the world, everywhere is full of pressure and crisis, countless, invincible all kinds of traps, fierce competition, let us be afraid of the tail, tied hands and feet, dazed, do not know where to go. Yes, we are always afraid of this, afraid of that, everyone has a sense of fear, but we can't always stop for this, run away from the problem, that can't solve the actual problem, the more we escape, but it will make us more and more vulnerable.
A young man wanted to create his own future in the city outside, and before leaving, he went to visit a respected elder and asked this elder to point out the way forward. The elders were surprised to know that there were descendants in the village who wanted to embark on the journey of life alone, so they wrote three words: "Don't be afraid", and then looked up at the young man and said: "Child, the secret of life is only six words, today I will tell you three words, enough for you to use for half a lifetime."
Thirty years later, the original young man has entered middle age, and working hard in other places has made great achievements in his career, of course, it has also added a lot of troubles. Later, when the young man returned to his hometown, he decided to visit the elder again, and when he went to the elder's house, he learned that the old man had passed away a few years ago, and his family took out a sealed envelope and said to the young man at that time: "This is what my father left you before he died, and he said that one day you will come again." The young man remembered that thirty years ago he had only heard half of the secret of life from his elders, so he opened the envelope and wrote three words in it: Don't regret it.
People's life is divided into the first half of life and the second half of life, the first half of life do not be afraid, the second half of life do not regret, just six words, it tells the true meaning of life. Many times, what we are afraid of is not anything else, but the fear we imagine out of thin air, maybe we always want to surpass others and overcome others, but the biggest enemy is not others, but to overcome yourself, so that you can not be seduced by fear.
I remember the first time I left my hometown, I was arrogant and arrogant, often had unrealistic fantasies, and regarded myself as high and arrogant. I always feel that I can create my own world by myself, and I always feel that there are many opportunities waiting for me, but only when I have worked hard can I know how difficult the process is and how difficult it is to have everything I have now. Whether in the study, marriage, career and other aspects, encounter difficulties, we must have the courage and courage to move forward. As Roosevelt put it, "I think the best way to overcome fear is to face what you fear in your heart and do it until you succeed."