Fear is a basic human emotion. Fear arises in every aspect of social life, especially when encountering unfamiliar or unfavorable circumstances.
In order to enjoy the wild fun in the mountains, a tourist came to a strange mountain forest, turned left and right and lost his way. Just when he was at a loss, he was greeted by a beautiful girl who picked up mountain goods.
The young girl smiled and asked, "Sir, did you get lost from the scenic spot?" Please come with me, I will take you down the hill, where there are tourist company cars waiting for you. ”
Tourists follow the girl through the jungle, the sun reflects thousands of beautiful pillars of light in the forest, and the crystal water vapor flutters in the pillar of light. Just as he was reveling in this wonderful scenery, the young girl began to speak: "Sir, the ghost valley in front of us is our place, the most dangerous section of this mountain forest, and if you are not careful, you will fall into the abyss." Our rule here is to pass by here, and we must pick something or carry something. ”
The tourist asked in surprise: "Isn't it more dangerous to carry such a dangerous place and carry the weight forward?"
The girl smiled and explained, "Only when you realize the danger, you will be more concentrated, that will be safer." There have been several trough crashes here, all of which were accidentally dropped by lost tourists without any stress. We picked things up and went every day, but no one ever had an accident. The tourist was still hesitant, but his heart was filled with fear of the ghost valley.
"Is there no other way?" Tourists look scared.
"You can only go from here, as long as you pay attention to it, there will be no problem." The girl patiently enlightens the tourists.
It was getting late, and tourists couldn't help but break out in a cold sweat as they looked at the ghost valley in front of them. But there was no way, he had to take the two heavy wooden strips handed by the girl, carry them on his shoulders, and carefully walk through this "ghost valley" road.
The tourist looked back at this intimidating ghost valley, and he found that the ghost valley was not as deep as he thought, but why did he dare not cross it at first?
This is where fear is at work.
Fear is all around us, and everyone will feel its presence. Fear originates in ourselves, in our hearts, in our own fear of ourselves. In fact, and it is true, some things are not feared in themselves, and often we don't know enough about them, or we don't know them at all. From the perspective of the game, that is, it invisibly overestimates and magnifies the opponent's ability and degrades its own ability, so it loses self-confidence and does not believe that it can defeat the opponent.
There are many things that you feel scared of now, but once you face it and master it, it is likely to become what you like. Fear is not invincible, and once there is a fear, it should immediately show courage to confront it. As Roosevelt said, "The best way to overcome fear is to face it bravely."
Every normal person can spontaneously control emotions, can change their own understanding of things, control a series of their own thoughts with reason and action, overcome their fear psychology, form fearless thoughts, and motivate themselves to take positive actions that can overcome fear.